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Can I demand sex from my "ex" just because we are single and compatible?

We couldn't make a relationship work but sex was always AMAZING, plus he always cuddles before and after everytime. So now that we are both single... We tried a few times but he didn't want it bc he was afraid I'd catch feelings again and I'd feel used blah blah blah... But now I know what I want, I have it clear: just sex when my body needs it. So... why not give it a shot at least at that? Am I being whory? I mean, there's trust and intimacy already... My plan is to meet up and tease him verbally and physically, make him want it. I don't want him to feel forced to anything of course, but I hope he accepts and agrees to fuck a few times a week... That would be so good on these trying times!
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I appreciate your comments. Indeed, I used the wrong word, I didn't mean "demand" as "give it to me now bc you owe me". I just want to feed that vital need when my body needs, I'll make sure to remind him how good we were. And I am all against feelings rn bc it didn't work too many times, I've burnt myself enough lol
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Superb Opinion

  • I think "demand" is a bad word to use, especially in the scope of sex and relationship.

    I prefer "softer" words like "negotiate" or "offer".

    Fundamentally, I think great sex stems from respect, trust and love.

    Hence doesn't matter ex or new, communication should be open and and relationship closed.

    Hence, talk about it. Come to a "win win" and then see how far you two can go. There are so many types of sexual relationship nowadays and I'm sure you two can adopt one.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I love that expression, "am I being whory?" it sounds better than it may have been in a relationship that involved more than that. It's often fun to have sex with someone you haven't seen for a while but may have been a thing years ago. Good luck and I think you're being just whory enough

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  • Who is he to tell you how you will feel. Isn’t that a complete turn off for you?

    anthiw if you want sex with him you can ask like with anyone w else. Being exes doesn't give you a right to demand anything. You’ll just have to tell him you want sex and see How he feels.

    just a tip though. People who get dramatic over their own predictions of other peoples feelings, are kind of hysterical and project a lot. I’d avoid any prolonged interaction, but that’s me.

    • Wish I could "demand" sex from my ex.. It doesn't work that way though. So I would suggest, talking about it straight. Just because two people had an relationship and still get along as ex partners doesn't mean person A or B has the privilege to demand sex with his of her ex,

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • it seems like there should be a grace period right? If your going to dump someone... you should have to at least keep sleeping with them for at least a month! Enough time for them find someone new... I mean it’s just the moral thing to do!!

  • He was afraid to catch feelings? are you sure that he is the guy and you are the girl? :)

    • Ops he afraid that you would catch feelings, make sense, anyway it's not like it didn't happen before, so I don't see how could it be worse, been there, done that, he is your ex in any case.

    • How could you feel used when he already used you, one time more, one time less, whatever.

  • you sure can try but this never ever works out in reality. One party always gets attached to the other party down the line somehow, or jealous or whatever, but sure you can try it and enjoy it in the meantime

  • If that arrangement works for the two of you there's no reason not to do it.

  • There's never anything wrong with just banging it out as needed.

  • ex's should be out of your life, COMPLETELY

  • Won't work, you could end up having sex and think it's just that but what if he ends up dating some and it gets serious, will you be alright stopping and not going to be jealous or feel like you've been tossed a side

  • You can ask, you cannot demand.

  • Just walk up to him and cup your hand on his crotch.

  • I'd never call you being whory lol. It's a good release from stress and worry. I say give it a shot and hopefully your ex agrees.

  • I'd be down I'd I was worth it but depending on why we broke up

  • Surely you can.

  • I think that's called rape.

    • 0_0 shut up...

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