I found out that my crush, a Catholic boy, watched porn? I know non religious boys do but I didn’t expect this from someone like him?

I thought it was strange since he’s so innocent and seems like such a nice boy otherwise 😐
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  • I guess you could say curiosity finally got to him.

    I'm not a huge fan of porn. I generally find it boring myself as it's all the same and rather formulaic. I guess it would be more fun if the woman I was seeing was also into it and wanted me to watch with her. I don't know, maybe someday that might happen.

    I remember before ever seeing porn listening some guys go on about it. I decided to check it out to see what all the fuss was about. That was my introduction to porn. Since then I can take it or leave it.

    Don't judge him too hard, it's all fantasy (should be at least) and he's probably curious as to what everyone is talking about.

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  • All boys start to masturbate and look at porn at around 11 years old. Its very normal healthy and natural. I would not hold it against him. It doesn't mean he is bad or evil at all. He is looking at the porn out of curiosity and thats normal. It also makes him feel horny or sexually excited and that feels really good. It makes his penis hard and then he touches and strokes it making it feel very good! The porn does have a small problem. It teaches people some very wrong things. The people in porn are shown with abnormally large body parts that is very unrealistic! They also play roles that are very fake and are of peoples imagination and not reality!

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  • The reality of religion is it often attempts to tell its congregations that sexuality is something shameful and bad which is the most ironic part of it. When you tell people something is forbidden and taboo then it only makes them desire it more as it becomes more exciting and thrilling. Likely he is curious and has been told to not ask questions or talk about sex so he is seeking answers elsewhere.

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  • Sexually repressing yourself isn't what I'd call "nice".

  • You’re under 18 and you’re on this forum? Complaining about a boy watching porn? Look young lady, we have many different categories on here but last time I checked ‘hypocrisy’ was not listed...

  • All guys watch porn...

  • Nobody is immune from temptations.

  • He less innocent than you thought, yes he catholic but he also a guy, and it could been worse, if he is a virgin then he still relatively innocent, watching porn don't make him non-virgin.

  • He can still be a nice guy and watch porn. I am Catholic myself and have watched it, although I am quitting it entirely, been clean for over 3 weeks, but that's beside the point.

    Depending on how old he is, he can be going through puberty, his hormones out of control and wants release. He could also be sexually repressed because of his religious upbringing.

    By the way, how do you know he even watched it? Did you find out yourself by spying on him, eavesdropping, or did someone tell you and you are not questioning the validity?

  • What genre of porn? If it is ordinary F&S, this is not an issue. It's "training".

  • Being Catholic does not stop him from being curious about sex.

  • To clarify things, you said he was a catholic boy. So he is not monk. Since he is boy, he has harmones. Did he decieve or hurt anybody? If not, nothing to bother. Actually, I would recommend striking off celebacy even for priests. Frustrated men do a lot of bad things. Better to have married priests who can be held responsible.

  • a stereotyoe that has some truth is "sone of the dirtiest minds are the very religious" or some other saying that means the same thing.

  • Any boy that I've ever known would watch porn if available. The fact that they are Catholic didn't stop thousands of priests and higher church prelates from sticking their hands and god knows what else down pre-teenagers pants

  • I'm Catholic and I watch porn. I see nothing wrong with it.

  • Everybody watches porn sooner or later, so don't let that affect your view of him. And maybe consider watching a bit yourself.

  • Catholic or not he's still got a cock and balls hanging betwixt his legs and more importantly he's a human being. An agreed upon delusion such as a shared deity isn't going to override the part of his brain (which given your age is all of his brain) that wants to see tits and ass. Succumbing to biological need is not "bad" if everyone consents and I'm sure he got his right hands permission in writing.

  • Lots of people watch porn, it’s free!

  • Catholic teens are so into sex it isn't even funny. Learned that when I was a teen, but wasn't Catholic.

  • Does it bother you? Its hard when you have needs

  • Dump him

  • Christian men are statistically the most likely to report being addicted to porn. All men regardless of their religious views have natural sexual desires. Since Christianity teaches people to repress their sexuality those people tend to become complete perverts actually. The priests are the worst.

  • Honey the more religious or righteous they claim or appear to be, the freakier they are when it comes to porn and sex. 🤣🤣🤣

    • The honey part put me in hysterics and the rest is just truth.