Boobs causing relationship anxiety?

Question

Or being dead scared of just being seen as a walking pair or boobs?

Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

I cannot figure out these posts where people talk about a specific piece of a person's anatomy as being a person within itself or something like a walking pair of boobs or a nice ass or do you like this part of a person's body better than that part of a person's body and---I don't know where all this thinking's come from you know what with the person I see a person. If a person's got nice anatomy then that's great, but that anatomy is connected to the person, not the other way around, and if a woman's got great boobs than that is wonderful. There is no downside to having great boobs and I happen to be very very good at making boobs feel good, so basically if you're with a partner who's treating you like you're just a pair of boobs not a person then there's something wrong with that person and not with you because you're a person who just happens to have great boobs not the other way around so it's probably good idea not to generalize sexual anxieties with morons and a moron is what a person would have to be in order to take a really nice lady that she he's spending time with and to try and reduce her down to an anatomical function. trust me if you got great boobs and I'm there worshiping them you'll be glad I'm worshiping them because I'm worshiping of fine lady with a great personality who has great boobs I'm not I mean there's the lady who happens to be attached to the boobs is not going to be neglected in any way shape or form the boobs are like a medium and wish to express some really intense feelings toward that fine lady who's spending her time with me which I very very much alike cuz I'm going to be liking spending time with her as much as she's going to be like spending time with me so boobs penis whatever you know they're all mediums for getting the job done but basically these parts are not personas within themselves my penis does not have a mind of its own even though sometimes it acts like it does but that's a neural reflex that has been around since before humankind so if I don't always have control of my erections it's not really my fault it's mother nature just trying to tweak out the bugs and making sure we keep reproducing. Now just treat each other like people, enjoy each other's company, and show respect, and the rest will work itself out, and if your partner's treating you like an anatomical piece of equipment instead of a person then that person's troubled in some ways and that's not your issue that's their issue so just just trying to be happy and have fun with each other is the way to go. I've received a lot of compliments on my dick and nuts and and I've usually I don't have a problem with some little lady I know who I'm on good terms with playing with them if she wants to if it makes her happy and that's fine if I get in the mood to be more intimate with her then that's great she likes playing with my dick I like playing with her tits I mean that's it's mutually beneficial situation if it happens to be a part of a couples Love play then that's great but in the case like this is nota penis and testicles making love to areola and clitoris no it's too human beings sharing each other's company and having fun with each other's anatomy just don't forget that there's a human being attached to those nice body parts and should be okay.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No one loves boobs more than I do, but a guy would have to be pretty shallow or self-centered to think of you that way. And I'm not saying that never happens, but it's probably more rare than you think.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

I can imagine why. It’s why I’m selective as hell of whom I spend time with, more so who I date or share my bed with

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That can happen just comes with confidence and the right guy

AustinMan · Answer

Some guys are terminal boob men and I guess that might happen but most of us are more about the owner of said tits..

TheorionMage · Answer

Realize... at forty feet away, no male can discern your personality or kind heart...

"WHAT" you are... and "HOW" you merchandize your FERTILE concupiscent youth and 'desirability'
gains you an audience; THEN... what you DO with it, to showcase 'WHO" you are, ...'who' LIVES INSIDE that body, is a matter of evolving personal style.

ohshee · Answer

Na how come it would be about the Boobs there more to you than just your boobs I'm sure he sees more than just your boobs ,, he might just like you to

Berethor · Answer

How big are your boobs?

TonyV · Answer

Why'd you agree to that date then? You dont have to agree to his ideas, if he's interested for the right reasons he'd come up with a different plan.

Hell if he's really interested In you and not just in a hury to see what you look like wearing very little you could still call it off.

God knows please ty of girls have called off my dates so re had to reschedule.

You could be honest and say it makes you uncomfortable, or you could fib a little bit and say your only swimsuit got a tear in it.

I just saw your dress pic, sure you're well indowed but they aren't so big and attention grabbing that you look like a "walking pair of boobs" to me.

How did the first date go? What did you think of him? What kind of vibe or energy did he give off?

kikino · Answer

Try not to go on dates where you have to reveal your body, I. e. swimming or similar if your worried about being viewed that way. Same goes for females that are flatter or have a small bust/breast size. You have a say in the relationship so give your inputs. Don't just go along because 'you' think this is the only guy for you.

No of this was directed at asker, just females in general. And a similar version goes for guys.

EmmaMary · Answer

@lastqueenofscotland Been there, done that... Oh how I feel for you. Please do take care and stay safe.

LiamSawyer · Answer

For me no woman would just be a walking pair of boobs, I appreciate a pleasant face a great personality, don't get me wrong I enjoy to see a little boob bounce of jiggle but that's not usually the first point of attraction.

Givemore · Answer

We pretty much look at women's boobs all day, so you don't need think the women next to you didn't get a glance. It's In man's nature, disclaimer: a lot of men.
Honestly if women had them out blokes wouldn't look, this is shown in tribes around the world, breasts are just to feed baby's. So if we look at these tribes, breasts when they are big enough it would meen that procreation can take place and the chances of a new generation serviving is greatly increased.;
This is only a different view for your consideration and men should not add to a young ladys insecurity, especially when in her average days outing she would have hundreds of men look at her breasts, some would be extremely disturbing looks and they wouldn't see the big heart she has.

JoJo765 · Answer

We all feel that way sometimes

bowenw · Answer

If you feel self conscious can you find a bathing suit that is not particularly revealing such as a black one piece?

MathTeacher · Answer

It should be obvious during that swim date how he sees you. If he can look at your face more than your tits, you should be good.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Whattt

ColHathi · Answer

There's more to boobs than boobs :)

Fukaroo · Answer

Sorry but your boobs are amazing.

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

I dont mind a pair of boobs walking around loose & free

Wise4myage · Answer

What's the issue? Just say no to the second date.

joeldalton · Answer

I don't know. Never heard of that before. Maybe he thinks you see him as a walking wallet.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Yeah I don't blame you for feeling that way honestly, guys can be very manipulative when it comes to having sex with extremely attractive women

To fix that worry, give your romantic interest some time before allowing anything sexual to happen, give him a couple of months and get to know them personally so you know if they're shallow fuckboys or are actually interested in your personality, not your body, don't give him what he wants right off the bat, if he sticks around and only love you more and more through these months of nothing sexual, then he might be the right match for you

Though I'm gonna say that such a guy might be hard to find, especially if you're using dating apps, but still, don't settle for less than you deserve

And oh, you gotta know how to attract the right kinds of guys, here's the thing:

- Showing your boobs more and flaunting them around whether in real life or on the online world, is much more likely to attract fuckboys and guys who only see you as that, a walking pair of boobs

- However, keeping more to yourself, being completely closed to sexual stuff whether it's only talk or full action, hiding boob pictures from the public online, wearing clothing that covers your chest well, and showing you're a somewhat covered woman in general who isn't open about sex with everyone is much more likely to attract the good kinds of guys who will love you for who you are

Don't give guys access unless they prove they're worth it, cuz they're not worth shit at first and you know it, even if they're your date or they're hot or some dumb shit like that

Veryhornyforgirls · Answer

Their great but your defenetnely worth more than that sweetheart☺ thats not all i see you as

Boobs causing relationship anxiety?

Most Helpful Guys

Most Helpful Girls

Related Questions

What Girls & Guys Said

Latest Questions