Signs a women is more into Rough or Passionate Sex?

[Zen10]

A lot of women these days are into bdsm, choking , & spanking but a lot of other girls prefer passionate hot sex, others prefer love making...
do you think there are ways to tell which one a girl likes before you sleep with her?
Because some girls can be judgmental if you give her something she isn’t used to

[Anonymous]

If her tongue is sticking out she's rough, if you have one hand around her throat and she puts her hand on top of yours without breaking eye contact she's rough, if she's kissing you back with both hands on the sides of your face she's soft, if she goes "yeah" too much she's soft

[AustinMan]

You ask her. Tell her what you need and want.

How To Ask a New Prospective Lover for Sex (The way you want it) ↗

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, there is a very reliable method for making that determination. Ask her.

[Zen10]

I’m not comfortable with that yet