Guys, Are You Comfortable Talking To Girls With Visible Cleavage?

[MrOracle]

I don't have any problems, but I'm gonna look and I'm not going to apologise for doing so. As l don't act sneaky about it or pretend I'm not looking, and because I don't stare blankly, I rarely get any negative feedback - more often they'll ask my opinion on how they look or make a flirty comment.

Confidence has its rewards...

[Exotic_Insinuations]

Yes i am.

Because :

- I can maintain eye contact. The fact that i know she knows her cleaverage is visible i use in my own interest : because i will try my best to make a very good conversation with her. So she notices this and thinks to herself : he isn't easily distracted and wants to know me as a person i really am, not only like a piece of meat. Even if i stumble - she will realise that's because i find her so hot that i'm losing my mind a little bit in her presence, which i know women love.

- People don't hold 100 percent of time eye contact, it's natural to focus, at least for a short time, on something else. So, when i see she is looking somewhere else, i'll take a look for a second or two.

- And even if she catch me looking : i don't mind. I actually really enjoy being caught, especialy if i know her. I love when they see i am turned on by them, it turns me on.

So every situation when i'm not blatantly staring is a winning situation for me.

[charlean]

As a not so straight girl myself, yeah I'm comfortable like I wouldn't feel weird talking to someone with a visible cleavage but it can be distracting when it's a large cleavage but still, I'm chill with it.

[Prettysammie]

Guys seem pretty comfortable talking to me and my boobs are always there due to their size. I do say no guy has ever known the color of my eyes though.

[VertigoJ]

I've had philosophical conversations with a stripper, who was showing much more than her busom, I did, on a couple of occasions, request she put her dress back on. She was absolutely lovely, but at the time, I was more interested in having a chat. It's totally possible, depending on who you are with. If it's a 14 sack of hormonal lust, you're going to struggle to get anything out of them other than drool, but as adults, there should always be a the capability to hold an eye to eye conversation like a real grown up.

[mobjay82]

let me start by saying breast never get old and i always appreciate a nice pair of breast. again it never gets ol but immature and sexual innuendos do get old. I find talking tlo women depending on the topic interesting. what would a girl think if my eyes kept wondering off or if i kept making sexual comments, in my head i feel she would say " have you been around any girls you pig" or "this guy is not even paying attention to me " he thinks women are inferior to him. please dont get me wrong we can check out a girl with respect after all we do have eyes and they tent to look at beautiful things

[Andres77]

I appreciate your dedication and commitment!
It all depends on the situation.
Does she know I'm married?
Is she clueless about what she's doing?
Is it appropriate attire for the location?
Is she flirty?
And then I remember... none of that matters.
I'll be professional, stay around other people, look straight in her eyes, stay on topic and move on.
Oh yes, wonderful to look at but
"I've been burned so lesson learned."
If I have to avoid her at work I will.
And I'll tell my wife about it when I get home.

[argyle]

Now, yeah, but not so much when I was young. Short Story: When I first started out, I sold life insurance door to door. I knocked on a door and a little girl opened it. I asked to speak to her Mommy, and she motioned me to follow her, which I did. She lead me to the back yard where her mother was sunning herself on a lounge chair next to a pool. Mommy was nude and she stood up and shook my outstretched hand. I stood there and gave a 15 minute presentation on the joys of Whole Life, with sweating palms and a slight stutter. Long story short... if you're not accustomed to seeing lady parts, it's common to be quite nervous if and when you do.

[mak16]

Yeh i can talk, and it won't affect me!!!
Because, when i am talking, i am talking & when i am eating, i am eating etc!!!
Well, i believe that the actual beauty lies within the eyes of a person... so, while talking my eyes won't go anywhere without my permission even if someone's naked, rather i would prefer to look straight up into the eyes while talking!!!

And, i think usually girls do this to seek attention or giving someone's a hint or kinda stuff like this... Otherwise, good girls won't do it!!!

Don't take me wrong, but i think its good in front of your loved one's for seeking attention but i guess not openly to everyone!!!

[nondescript]

I know this sounds like a BS story, but you'll see, its not that amazing... one time I was at a nudist resort in North Carolina, in the hot sun at the community pool. I went there to chat with and meet new people. Just inside, I happened on a 35+ year old lady with a straw hat on and nothing else. Her breasts were conical, tight, alluring, and even though you're not to stare -- well, I didn't Stare. That wasn't the problem; as I stood there, I could feel my penis begin to grow. Well, this is a family setting, and you don't want that, so I skedaddled, and just had to let her go. Ha, ha

[Jjpayne]

I honestly have trouble with this...
It's like an empty bag of chips being blown by the wind on a beach. It's literally the same effect for me. I want to look at the view but I can't get my mind off of the floating bag. It's my add... I actually failed a volunteer position at a hospital because of this, no joke. I kept staring at the floor over looking at her exposed cleavage

[pajamasam]

Totally can and have done that before. The easiest way to do it is get the obvious out of the way early in the conversation. Let her know you noticed so that way you can move on from it and still have a meaningful conversation without having to hide the fact that she is obviously eye catching.

Example:

You have great tits, but I also think you have very pretty eyes.

For real Is that you in the pic? I think its the first I've seen your eyes.

[virgin20]

I'm not the most comfortable at the thought of talking to girls.
However when I get into it I'm fine. Depends in how much they show, like whether it's better/worse than what you show in those photos.
For me it's all about respect, so if I'm talking to a girl, I'm talking to her and not her chest. Eye contact and smile are the things I look at.
Still a cheeky glance if she looks away isn't illegal!😊

[Maraneva]

Yep. Totally comfortable. Sure I love boobs but if a girl is talking about something and not trying to shove her tits into my face, I'd pay attention to what she's saying. Of course I'd steal glances at her beauties once in a while but it'd be the same as making eye contact with her

[TonyV]

I already struggle with eye contact but that's it's own thing.

I'm pretty comfortable, I've done it plenty of times, I'm also convinced any woman with a lot of cleavage won't instantly hate me if she catches me taking a peak or they catch my eye for a split second.

Just dont stare at them, have eye contact like you're suppose too, usually not a big deal to talk to.

[Givemore]

I still see you and I think having your your tits out just shows your comfortable have breasts, I could still hold a conversation but I'd secretly be impressed, and maybe let you catch me looking. See id feel bad if I didn't look and if I did.. but I'd probably be to lost in your eyes.,
Don't worry I'm not jumping on all your questions... X

[KennethNoisewater]

I feel as long as you're not a creep or easily over excited it shouldn't be a thing. It would be normal but with a view. I know a lot of dudes that try not to get caught looking. I feel that's awkward too. If it's out on display I'll look Everytime. I like boobs. I don't hate boobs. So of course I'm going to look. But I'm not drooling over them but I'm gonna look and I'm not going to try to pretend I'm not.

[Massageman]

I absolutely can focus on the conversation - -
as long as I am facing away from you, er, I mean, her.

When a (female) therapist friend of mine and I did a massage demo at a local nudist club (at the VP's house, I believe it was) , there was this one sweet, very average lady - 5'5", 140, size 14, who was a nurse and we got talking "shop" a bit. I found I really had to keep eye contact with her - just couldn't figure out why. ;- )

[Quidthonian]

Hell no. I find it highly uncomfortable. My eyes wander towards her assets instead of maintaining eye-contact. I dread being called out and feeling embarrassed about it. Even when looking at your top photo, I find it incredibly difficult to maintain eye-contact. Added to that, my social awkwardness... well you get the picture.

[UrBrotherCain]

double edged answer, im fine with it if it's somone I know isn't into me and just likes flaunting. I'm not fine with it if its a girl I've rejected and is trying to goad me into pursuing her. if its a person I'm actively pursuing I will either assume one of a few things
she is comfortable enough around me show off a little of her body.

she doesn't even think of me in a sexual way

she is flaunting to have me make a move.

she is trying to keep me on my toes.

[NICE2]

I'm Comfortable with that, if she did that it's sign of trust and she's into you and in different culture it's normal thing, men do the same thing by showing the muscle which is attractive to women, I always focus on the eyes in conversation so it's OK

[Raahilkhan777]

I prefer to like look at cleavage for every 7 secs. but i dont stare at them.
it get me aroused , This way girl also feel comfortable.

But looking at eyes make me more aroused, Girl also get aroused and seduced when look at her eyes deeply when i speak with , i give break every 4 secs.

Dont say this seducing Hacks to anyone pls

[Florida-Man]

No, i don't like talking to people who wear sexually appealing stuff because its distracting, would you like me to talk to you while wearing nothing but a speedo that barely fits? i'm pretty sure most girls dont want my hairy balls flopping all over the place or be visually tortured by the imprint of my dick at all times.

[JakeGolding754]

I enjoy it.
I stare right at them. 😅
It's probably her that will get uncomfortable because I will totally look if they're being presented in public.