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How would you react if your partner gave you an STD?

So the std curable (thank god) . this was actually the 2nd time. 3 years ago he burned me. We got clean. I forgave me and he just recently did it again. He didn’t know he had it but I went and got tested like I do regularly. I am SO MAD. For one he lied about sleeping around. And two he’s not even using protection! this is the second time. I feel disgusted. Completely disgusted. And I don’t know the logical way to go about it. I told him I tested positive already. I want to go off on this man!!! I already told him I’ll never touch his filthy ass again as long as I’m breathing. I just don’t know what to do. I’m so angry!
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  • simple, hunt his whole life, tell his friends and his family, with proof you recived stds from him,

    after that, if you get a nother boyfriend, just test your self before haveing sex,

    and if that guy cheats on you, and you did not catch nothing,
    and come runing back forgive ness, just be like, here's a big hot frying pan, i will burn your back, if you manage to do it and bar the pain, then i will consider takeing you back.

    like get a iron shape craste of sorts and heat it up and brand them. with your name on it.

    also if i was going to merry a woman it would not be a stupied weding or a a court or anything, at all,
    it be my way of doing it, and it be, makeing a hand size crest with our names on it, and it will be red hot and melt the flesh of our hands, that we right with. thus its a constint reminder, of who we are bound with,

    youcant remove it, you can't ignore it, its painful just like a relation ships future.
    its scary just like how any relationship is, but this hot iron is a physical repersentation of that,
    maby on forarm of the writeing hand,

    this is just my way,
    i sudjest others find their own ways

    • That takes too much effort. It’s easier just to block him and forget I ever knew him.

    • it may be hard work. but at least you be saveing other people from his stds at lest tell his parants

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  • Well, now you have learned a valuable lesson, if he cheats once he will almost certainly cheat again. Don't go off on him, leave him. You should have done that the first time, you then gave him a second chance and he did it again so at this point you need to move on. So the logical way of going about this is to realize you can only be stabbed in the back by some one so many times, so its time to leave his ass and find some one who actually respects you and will not only not cheat but also not risk giving you a disease by cheating too.

    • Yeah there is no stopping point to the madness. He will do it again and next time it might be something I can’t come back from.

    • Precisely. Is it worth wasting your forgiviness and generosity on him yet again? I would personally suggest not wasting it on him again (you were kind enough to give him a second chance and he blew it, clearly he didn't value that kindness as much as some one else would so why waste it on him).

Most Helpful Girls

  • Girl take this as a warning he is sleeping around AND he is Dumb enough not to use protection either he is going to end up getting someone pregnant or come back with something you can not cure. Leave him.

    • Exactly! He could have gave me HIV. I’m just thanking God it wasn’t worse and I am never letting him have access to me again. He’s dead to me.

    • Good for you move on from this.

  • I would be just as mad girl. Think you can persue it legally if you're willing to go there but don't quote me on that, not 100% sure

    • He’s not even worth the effort. I’m just going to never speak to him again.

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  • Hopefully you stay true to your anger and never see or talk to him again. Obviously he is a POS since he's done this once and you forgave and went back but 2nd round it's time to be done and have a funeral for your relationship that hopefully you've killed.

    • He’s blocked. He’s dead to me. It’s sad that he’s so careless. I feel like God has saved me and if I go back there will be a price to pay for it. I’m never speaking to him again.

  • It's definitely time to part ways from this sad case of a male person, he doesn't respect his own body thus he'll never respect you and your body. You're a beautiful woman, I'm sure you could do much better than the likes of him.

    • Thank you! And it’s true. If he doesn’t care about his own health why would he give a crap about mine? He’s dead to me.

    • Good thinking!

    • If you ever want someone to chat with feel free to message me.

  • If it was an STD I knew they had, I wouldn't be mad at them. I knew the risk when I consented to sex. If I come away with an STD despite taking precautions, that's on me.
    If they hadn't told me they had an STD and wound up giving it to me, I'd be pissed. I have a right to make choices about my health and know exactly what I'm risking by being intimate with someone. Lying about being clean is just plain selfish

  • Not again honey that the second time this month x

  • Kill him

    • Trust me... it crossed my mind

  • Just FYI not all STDs are curable...

    And it's not like I'm getting action regularly so I'll cross that bridge if I ever get there. However if I some how did catch it and she didn't tell me. Well then it's over simple.

    • It’s definitely over. He can kiss every plan he had with me goodbye. I’m just thanking God for saving me.

  • This isn't the first time you've complained about this guy for numerous various reasons (cheating, anger issues, ignoring you and the kids, etcetera). You need to actually move on, and not just talk about moving on.

    • Trust me it’s over. He did better I thought he’s changed. He’s never going to change. He’s blocked it’s done. This time is different... this could potentially be my life on the line. I believe God had grace on me this time around. But next time after ignoring all of the red flags... I’ll have to suffer from it in some way. I’m moving on.

    • Well hopefully for you and your family, that's actually the case and not just window dressing.

    • I’m positive. I’m turned off and repulsed at the thought of touching him. It’s the same girl he got the same STD from 3 years ago. How do you get burned by the same person 3 years later? And not even learn the first time. I hope he feels stupid. And to make it worse the girl looks like a Who from Whoville. There are just many things wrong with it.

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  • I'd be a bit more understanding because I'm poly, as long as it's curable. I'd be asking some questions though, you better believe it.

    • But what if next time it isn’t curable? Is it worth the risk? He clearly doesn’t care so it’s time for me to walk away.

    • Well ideally everyone should be getting tested before sex. I'd be pretty mad.

  • Your reaction sounds just fine. The question is - are you going to dump him, or are you going to be his doormat?

  • I wouldn't be too hurt... My Lover has some experience under Her belt. (Literally) Plus, if I get one, it's all according to plan!

  • I guess i be a female if they gave me herpes

  • what if it was AIDS? life will come down to just a couple of years.

    • My thoughts exactly. That’s scary! I’ll never touch his nasty ass again.

    • yeah in such cases you don't get second chance.

    • It’s not worth the risk. It’s not even difficult for me to walk away. I’m completely disgusted. He messaged me that he has an issue and instead of bashing him I should help him deal with it. Like seriously? I told him you are 33 years old if you haven’t figured your issues out by now then you are never going to. I also told him I want a man not a child and that he’s dead to me.

  • I'm really shocked by you. We've chatted before so I know your smarter than this. Why are you letting this dude treat you like this. Your a good woman and you deserve better. I'm not judging you just want you to know the truth this dude got you looking crazy in the streets. You got you kids to like for what if this dude give you AIDS. Listen leave this dude before its to late if he don't care enough about himself to use protection the he should are least love you enough to use some. Damn right now my mind is blown. How can a woman of your calibur allow a guy to treat her that way. Smh! In box me cause we really need to chat.
    (Real Talk!!)

    • He’s dead to me. There is no going back this time. Dealing with could be the death of me. (Literally).

  • You have a right to be angry. He as been fooling around on you and gave you what he got from another person. Flaunting his fooling around in front of you by giving you the std. Leave him and don't go back to him. This time you could cure it but what about next time? The hooker he got with may have something you can not get rid of...

    • It’s disgusting! Then he had the nerve to say that people don’t know they have chlamydia so it wasn’t her fault. I’m sorry but I take good care of my body and I noticed a change so I went and got tested right away. These females are disgusting!

    • She may not have known she had it but if he wasn't fooling around he would not have to worry about it. She had it but he got it... He is the one at fault.

    • You wanna know something disturbing? 3 years ago he gave me the same STD from the same girl!!! And on top of that she looks like a Who from Whoville.

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  • Yeah, better leave him, who knows what he's gonna bring next

    • I already told him I’ll spend my life in clinics dealing with him. He’s a disgusting pig.

    • It's lucky that it's curable.

    • Hopefully you will get a great partner in the future

  • Wow three STDs and probably 20 or more diffrent cheats and you still there. I don't think you have no right to be upset first time yeah now it's your folt for staying with it you know what it's like

    • Well I’ve had clean tests for 3 years. I thought he changed. He hasn’t. I’ll never go back.

    • I'd never think like that 90% of men are shit or will be at some point. Same for women though maybe

    • He’s a giant piece of shit. I do believe there are good honest men out there. Who knows. I was loyal to this nasty idiot.

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  • Find a better man...

    • That’s the plan!

  • id be pissed

  • I’d say just split up with him and move on. I know it’s not always easy or as simple as that, but it sounds like he doesn’t really have much respect for you if he’s giving you STDs, cheating on you and not using contraception when you want to use it. You deserve much better.

    • Thank you. I blocked him on every platform. I’m so disturbed by the whole thing. I had to find out through my Dr who he really is.

    • No problem at all! In my opinion you should never go for a guy who refuses to use protection because it means he probably doesn’t have much respect and it’s just not worth the risk. Let me know if you wanna ask anything else

    • Thank you! Yeah he’s history. I’m just so disturbed by the whole thing. Not even disturbed he messed around. The fact that he didn’t use protection it’s disgusting!

  • I would be furious, that's something that has to be made very clear before you have sex.

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