
- I know I'm a hypocrite for saying this, since I was a total man whore in high school and grade school, but you don't have to make the same mistakes I did. Your first date doesn't obligate you to perform any type of oral, lip, genital, open mouth seminal fluids recepticle, or other type of servicing, if you're not comfortable with it. If you want to do it, then that's your prerogative, and I hope it's enjoyable for you, but if you doing it for someone else's pleasure, then you might want to think about how it will make you feel.
I'm not saying that it's necessarily wrong to do that on a first date, but some people aren't comfortable moving that quickly, and if you you're one of those people, then do what makes you feel comfortable.
This isn't a p**** film audition after all, and if it is I don't think that's the best way to meet guys. If a little peck on the cheek or maybe a handshake is more than adequate and probably more than the guy who end up deserving. If you really enjoy yourself in this company then go as far as you feel comfortable doing bearing in mind to avoid any activities that will make you feel less than wholesome in the morning, that criteria being yours to establish, and no one else's, of course..
Trust me you have your entire life to make bad decisions concerning dates and sex it's no rush getting into it, and statistically speaking, you have a 50/50 chance that your first date is going to be a jerk, anyway, and may not deserve any such courtesy.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- If it's a one-time hook-up with a random guy you'll never see again, do whatever turns you on. If he's a total stranger a facial is safer in case he has a STD. If he's someone you have known for a while and trust, do whatever you are comfortable doing. Swallowing can be more intimate. A facial could be interpreted by some as degrading. If the guy is someone you don't know well and are getting to know him, I recommend getting to know him a lot more until having sex.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- actually if you swallow his load it would be better for him because you won't fuck up his orgasm when he cums... facials are sexy and i can see why you ask but not really 1st date stuff... you must feel good about this guy if you feel you want to give him a blowjob right from a 1st date... maybe it's not as much a 1st date as usaul maybe you know him previously... it sounds exciting and i wish you luck and a good time! By the looks of you he's one lucky man as your very pretty.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
- Neither! Are you kidding? -- swallowing on first date is WAY too intimate... Facial less than, but still way over the top for first date. Why don't you relax and let what ever happen, happen. He should be happy you're so EAGER to blow him, and where he shoots it is SO NOT IMPORTANT... gimme a break. You're spending too much time thinking about it.0|00|1Is this still revelant?
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2386- neither. I mean I wouldn't trip if a girl wanted to do either, but I think swallowing it doesn't turn me on, in fact, id feel bad, and in the face, there's nothing sexy about that either. again that is my own opinion
I do think it is sexy when a girl lets you cum on her, and the stomach has been great for me,0|00|0if you're just doin a blowjob, than shit suck up than just handjob it while sayin sum nasty shit in his ear
- Neither! Self respect by not being sexual on the first date. Also demand that sex be respectful by only allowing it to be done as nature intended. Cumming on a woman’s face or in her mouth is disrespectful.0|00|0
- Just swallow it. No mess, unless you want that lol some girls do. When you go facial you have chance of eye shot or in your hair. Plus when she swallows it is a Better feeling for the guy in my opinion0|00|0
- That would be completely up to you. I don't get any pleasure shooting cum on a girls face, that's just a porn thing as they have to show the money shot.0|00|0
- Cul... I would have said swallow but whatever. He probably had preferences cuz most guys do you know...0|00|0
- I think it depends, on the person, I wouldn't do either unless you begged because you really want it. It would need be after least four hours of passion.0|00|0
- How about getting to know him for a couple of dates before you begin swapping body fluids? Wadaya think? Too old fashioned?0|00|0
- It'll coat ur intestines and prob make u shit easier too ;)0|00|0
- Neither. Else there won't be a second date.
Try anal instead.0|00|0 - I'm not into the facial thing so much, so now you know my answer... lol0|50|0
- Don't get that goo in your eyes or ears... that shit burns😳0|00|0
- WTF? Got to love this. You ask anon then post your pic. Honestly though. You shouldn't be doing either of those the first date.0|00|0
I highly doubt that picture is the poster. The poster is probably a male with a pink account
- If that's the question you want to ask for a first date, why draw any line at all? Go for earth shattering world record sex.0|00|0
- Swallow. The last (and 1st time) a guy gave me a facial, I got pink eye.0|00|0
- its your face, your choice, or let it be his choice0|00|0
- Both options seem a bit premature for a first date The holding back on sexual acts keeps a guy interested and gives him a challenge along with respect for you0|10|0
- me personally wouldn't give oral on a first date, or come to that have sex, I always think like this, if he wants me or more than he will come back and so I leave him wanting more0|10|1
- If you are just looking for casual sex, you should be able to find it in great quantities. If you are looking for a LTR, giving BJs on the first date will eliminate most serious contenders.0|10|0
- Please respect yourself.. Just first date and you think he deserves sex with you? Why not let him earn your trust and respect first before you do such things?0|00|1
- swallow. you'll take all of his love inside you. Dont waste it.0|00|0
- you are hot, either would make me very happy fast 🍆💦💦💦0|00|0
- I wouldn't want or expect either on a first date...
First time getting intimate after a few dates, which ever you're comfortable with...0|00|0 - Stop calling it a date lol. It's a one night stand.0|00|0
- Damn, your date will be the luckiest guy ever. With such a hot girl!0|00|0
- Sounds like you dont care to get to know a person an sex is more important to you0|00|0
- For I the swallowing part is a lot better to me then cuming on a Womens face.
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he prolly was super excited! did he know u were gonna suck his dick before the date?
- That face is so beautiful, must be amazing to cum on it0|00|0
- On a first date, maybe get to know him and then by the third date you'll know the answer to this.0|00|0
- It is upto you, where you want your man to cum? My girl always like to swellow my cum0|00|0
- Anonymous1 mowhy don’t you wait 6 months before you start with the frisky business0|00|0
- Anonymous1 moDefinitely swallow, I don’t think facials are good, it’s like jerking off to a picture of a girl, swallowing feels great0|00|0
- a... and b... but not on first date wait until you're sure you want either0|00|0
- Neither!!! Date? No honey
Unless you mean dick appointment but that’s not a date haha0|10|1 - I wouldn’t even think about anything sex related on the first date...🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️0|20|2
- question why the fuck you sucking on the first day?0|00|0
a girl who opens up easy like that is not good partner material in my book, more just fuck buddy material in the musty fuck buddy booklet.
Most guys think they want an easy girl, but there is no love if you fuck so early, its just sex for the sake of sex at that point. Also shows you might not stay faithfulthats just sad, its been a year and half since i had pussy but i'd never give into sexual desire just for that.. build an actual relationship or don't build one at all and go do fucking hook ups.
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thats really sad you so agaisnt sex head isn't even that great who cares if you like him do it if you like her give heaf back
- You have a cute face. I think I would give you facial0|00|0
- Facial. Dont want to spoil him too much the first time. lol0|00|0
- I’d say facial first because to me, swallowing seems more intimate and should be reserved for long term relationships.1|00|0
- Do both if he can handle two times in one sitting. I know I love eating pussy having a woman cumcum over an over again on my face & mouth! Tastes so good! 100%0|10|0
- Swallow so he knows you're quality material.0|90|0
- I'm 99,9% sure that is not your photo and that you are a troll from India.1|20|0
- Anonymous1 moThis happens on a first date? I've been missing out. Definitely swallow.0|00|0
- Anonymous1 moHow about get some self respect to not ask this online?0|12|3
- Anonymous1 moWhich would you prefer? lol
You could also ask him, he might have a preference as well.1|00|0 - I think swallowing is much better as it doesn't make a mess and it is a very intimate in nice thing for you to do.1|00|0
- Are you sure this is a first date?)0|00|0
- Why is this a question for a first date? How big of slut are you1|00|0
- 1st date, you should just get to know each other better1|00|0
- First date hell id just be happy getting a blow job.1|00|0
- C. Neither on a first date.0|00|0
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