What would make a teenager guy interested in being in a relationship with me?

[EricNeal90]

I'm honestly not sure if this has been said yet even tho it probably has. My guess would be just from seeing your pictures alone that you are extremely beautiful and have obviously caught this kids attention. Teenage boys are driven a lot by looks and he is obviously very attracted to yours. Without knowing any other facts like for instance he could struggle with self esteem issues and maybe you are the pretty girl who was also nice to him when other girls his age haven't been you know? That being said, he has obviously crossed a line or boundary that is leaving you feeling uncomfortable. If you haven't already I would suggest not going straight to his mom but try talking to him and asking him why he is so into you. Maybe you can suggest he find someone closer to his age... Shoot, maybe even try giving him a harsh reality check and ask him if he's really ready to step up and help raise 2 kids and being the man and father figure in two children's lives. (Followed by all kinds of details as to what his life would look like and paint a picture that neither you nor him would come first in life because the kids always come first) No teenage boy is at all ready to even begin to process any of that lol but yeah, try talking to him first and also letting him know how he is making you uncomfortable and feel and explaining why it is that isn't alright. Best of luck to you tho, and Happy Thanksgiving to you and to your kids as well

[Anonymous]

How old is he exactly? I'm not sure if going to his mom would do any good (how many teenagers care or listen to their parents?)? Have you told him directly that you are absolutely not interested? I hope so before simply ignoring him (I ask because a lot of women don't do this, or will "hint" thinking that's enough for him to get the message, it's probably not). You can be direct but still friendly. But yes if you've done that, then ignore and avoid him as best you can. It will pass before long probably.

[Emii_69]

I giggled when I read this because in my country, young boys are always chasing after women much older than 21. Are you sure he is interested in a relationship? Sounds like he is just lusting after you. You are very pretty...

[ThatQuietLass]

You should talk to his mum. It's inappropriate.

[Wedimir]

Pimply youths think that they are the kings of sex. They harass adult women who are old enough to be their... grandmothers. There are many reasons for this - from promiscuity and weak will, to the lack of education on the part of a man in a single-parent family. A young man likes a Mature woman, she is experienced, she increases his self-esteem, and so on. but why should a woman need it? Yes, there are some ladies over 40 who hunt boys with a good boner. but you. you have to turn this kid down and do everything you can to get him off your back

[Ripper_E]

He finds you attractive and you aren't that old. He probably doesn't want a real relationship with you though because that would require accepting your kids into the picture which he likely is not ready for. I understand not wanting a younger guy on the account that he likely will not be ready to handle your baggage. Even when they try to convince themselves they can handle it they can. But if it's just you not wanting someone even one year younger, that makes no sense, no matter how you slice it. I mean you are 21 so too young is literally a child but yea. If it's a teenager, below 18, I wouldn't be interested in that either were I in your situation. Unless someone rare comes along.

[Tonytoutouni123]

Before you go to his mum you should first tell him personally (friendly but clear) that you are not interested in him and that you don’t want him to flirt with you anymore in the future. If he won’t stop you should either tell him that you will go to his mom if he won’t stop or skip that part and go directly to his mum.

I am not sure if he really wants a relationship with you. According to your profile pic you are very good looking. Chances are, he just wants to... you.
But only he knows.. Maybe he really is interested in you and would like to get to know you. My brother was with a 21 year old girl in a relationship for more than a year when he was 16 years old.

Anyway, since you are sure that he is to young, you should tell him that you are not at all interested (before you go to his mom)

[Avicenna]

It's possible that all he really wants is attention or at most sex. I would never have wanted a girlfriend with kids when I was a teenager.

Make clear to him what your boundaries are (in this case, being friendly with each other and only seeing each other in public).

[Arivor]

Well, he probably is just a horny teen who is fixated on you and often has sexual fantasies about you and just wants to turn that fantasy into reality. Ignoring him is the best thing to do, and he will soon find someone else to fantasize over. (hopefully)

[bowenw]

He's obviously into you. Four years difference in age is a lot at your age, but in a few years it won't be a problem. If you're not into him try to remain friendly without leading him on. Do the same if you're into him, but hold off taking it to the next level for a few years to be sure the relationship is built on friendship and not just a physical attraction.

[Nik1hil]

Age is just a number..
Maturity comes from responsibility and experience, he maybe a teenager but he could be mature..
Give him a chance and see how he goes..
If he is only in for sex than you can close him down for good..

[gandolph3]

hi lovely, happy Thanksgiving. a few reasons this teen is interested, 1. you are very attractive, 2. most teen guys are attracted to the older woman, 3. apologies for being crude, but in teen reasoning you have kids therefore you putout, you have no man around you must be horny. i remember several of our group discussing this when i was a teen. he may be a very nice young man, he just thinks like a horny teen. i hope you and your cutie pies have a good and safe holiday. take care

[DavidFox]

You and ‘the girl next door’. He is full of hormones and finds you sexually attractive. Because you are so close to him living wise you are like forbidden fruit. So he’s pursuing you hard, best to ignore his advances.

[Derekk]

Are you sure it's a relationship he wants? lol
At his age I did similar stuff with limited success. I did get a woman when I was 14 though. It was just a one night stand.

[Paolaa988]

Id be flattered but that's just me girl lol maybe cause i like younger guys but I know younger guys isn't everyone's cup of tea. He probably finds you attractive and is into older girls but if he keeps it up just say im sorry i am not interested.

[Legacy95]

If I were a guy I would be checking you out also since I am not I am going to ask are you BI coz you are one sexy looking woman I would love to play with your body

[weysally]

don't worry about it, its like my Gran said about wolf whistles, wait until they stop then worry some,
I have been hit on by some young men its an ego boost

[red_knight]

he's trying his game, I told you you're kind, and beautiful, but sadly this guy is still a boy and doesn't know anything about responsibilities, just give him a warning in front of witnesses like his mum or your family.

[boggboss]

I do think we are jumping to conclusions by assuming he wants to get with you

[bklynbadboy1]

Don't fall for it he's trying to fuck once he gets the kissy he'll change. Young guys want to have there fun there not looking for a ready made family especially not a 19 or 20 years old

[summiter]

Teen guys are always horny. I'm sure he is jerking off frequently and may even be thinking of you. Be flattered but let him stick with jerking off or finding a girl his age. How old a teen is he?

[Wise4myage]

You make him feel sexually aroused, but talk to him first before going to his mother. And don't sugar coat it either.

[DiegoO]

Sex x 10.

Honestly, I think you should stick to dating single dad's. Us, singles guys, we don't see much future, dating a single mom. Worst, being a teen.

[Gentlemanlover100]

Younger guy's are flirting because you being a mother plus attractive makes them think you're really experienced. Find a guy the same age or olderish that doesn't play childish games.