In my visits to the USA, I noticed so many double standards in sexuality. It has to be a cultural thing. In my country, there is an attitude where what you do in the privacy of your own home is your business. All sex is ok as long as it is consentual by everyone involved. The United States government has tried to pressure my country and many other ones to add new sex laws that conform with those in america. In some of their southern states, there are actually still laws on the books that make it illegal for a man to receive oral sex, even from his own wife! Those laws may not be enforced any more, but they are still there. My government, instead of passing new laws, just forbid the porn companies from distributing certain types of porn to the USA without being heavily censored. I watch a lot of extreme animated hentai porn that has very "taboo" subjects. I think my whole collection is banned from the US. I have sex far more often than any American I know, but I have never been called a "hoe" over here. I am very selective with my partners and they are the same. I don't just have sex with anyone. I have a group of like-minded "friends-with-benefits", both girls and guys. This works because my society does not have sexual hangups from strict puritan religions. You mentioned the double standard in your country where it seems to be ok for a woman to have sex with a boy, but not for a man to have sex with a girl. Here, society doesn't trip out so much if a teen girl choses to do something with an older man. It is very common for women to have sex with young boys, though. That is considered "sex education". Generally, when a boy first starts showing signs of being interested in girls, or if he has been caught masturbating, his father or mother will hire a courtesan to "break him in" and teach him. The courtesan is usually in her 30's or more. That would be so shocking to americans. I think it is a responsible way to teach sex education. American culture teaches that sex is bad and wrong. That is why you have so many sex crimes. We don't have problems like that here.
Girls need sex education too especially considering they mature faster. They get just as horny too
Some of them say it’s biology, so basically
Men just are piece of shit that pretty much pest on the planet if I’m keeping it real, literally imagine how beautiful earth with be without hateful mean ass men that do disturbing things
Uhh so annoying
I would’ve worded this differently and there are good men, no doubt, but overall your idea is right on 👍🏼
@Yads_Is_Back yeah that what I said minority
Why are some men full of hate and prejudice?
Some men have had bad experiences with girls/women (rejections, cheating, ghosting, hurt, used, abused, etc). This cause men to generilize women, which therefore can cause anger, bitterness and keeping people (especially women) at arms length. They are afraid it will happen again in the future when they have a relationship. Also, they don't want to give girls/women chances anymore. Some men don't care about women anymore and using them for sex.
Double standards
Some men do that because they feel like they can do anything because they are men. Stud vs slut is something you should ignore, those term are not necessarily true, those term don't excit. The reason these term are using is because men can feel good about themselves.
A stud is someone who has or had a lot of pussy (sexual conquests), which is considered a real man. A man who had a lot of women feel like he is a real men, but being a real man is not defined by who many pussy you got.
A slut is a girl or women who has a lot of sex with everyone even if you aren't in a relationship with someone. It's not about how often you have sex with someone, but how easy you are getting in bed and spreading your legs for everyone. You should only have sex with boys/men you are having a relationship with. Men can call girls/women sluts because they are jealous or intimidate by you, or they think you are easy to get or you don't have values.
Your whole answer is still full of double standards: "Some men have had bad experiences with girls/women (rejections, cheating, ghosting, hurt, used, abused, etc). " You don't think there's women that have experienced the same things at the hands of men? And how many men have sex without being in a relationship but it's justified as being Leary of women and just using em for sex but if a woman says she's Leary of men or just using them for sex, she's still labeled as easy and spread her legs for anyone? Double Standards or hypocrisy or both
@Brainsbeforebeauty Of course I think men are not the only one who had bad experiences, women do to, but the questio is "why are men behind the double standards in sex".
But you're making excuses for double standards, where they're aren't any...
For both gender age of under 16 is rape and un accaptable..
I agree
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't know if they are or not so I’m not gonna accept data as true if I don’t really know. But I know what I myself demand of a man. I wouldn’t be that way and he’s not going to be that way either. I’ve had older guys - late 20s and early to mid 30s, heck, even one in his 40s - show interest in me and literally almost beg me to give them a shot and were ready to settle down. Not gonna lie, they treated me well when trying to get my attention, they were pretty serious about it and showed it, but they all had the same thing in common: they looked at sex as a game and something to throw around, never stayed with the woman they took advantage of. I understand if she was a crappy one, okay, but so many of them, really? No. That shows his whoredom and inability to make good decisions. Therefore, I don’t care how great he tries to treat me or how much he tries to get me to give him a chance, if he’s a man whore he is absolutely wasting his time and energy. Go find yourself another whore to add to your list because I’m not gonna be part of the game.
Where are your sources to say men created these double standards you talk of? I've met plenty of women who like the "more experienced guy" and will reject virgins and the like, while men are usually very much into virgins. Maybe that's where your "double standard" is coming from. To me, promiscuous people aren't the kind you should look for when going for a relationship, no matter the gender, and I know there are people out there who agree with me, just like there are many men who think a slut is the best thing ever. As for it not being OK for girls to fuck men, I also don't think that's something that comes from men, necessarily. In fact, lots of men have been going after much younger women, and it's often women who criticize them for it, saying she's only after the money, and such and such. So yeah, again, you may claim men started all this, but I have several reasons to believe it's not specific to men, and that your first "double standard" isn't real in today's world
It is immediately clear that you think clearly and have avoided social dogmas. People don't think with their own heads and act like zombies. A person is free to have as much sex and partners as they want!. The main criterion in life is to be happy. Sexual pleasure is one of the most important and is one of the foundations of happiness. Don't pay attention to spiteful critics, breathe freely, live as you want!
Thank you for saying "SOME MEN" and not assuming all of us are like these horrible D-bags!!
Mostly, I think those bastards think that they are above the law, and they are better than everyone else, and because they have money, they can abuse anyone, on a whim!
Misogynistic pricks, that think they are entitled to whatever they want!
"A minority of men are the ones who created the stud vs slut double standard"
-Women uphold this very same standard too, just so you know. Literally no one shames women more than other women.
"not for girls to fuck men"
No girl ever ''fucks'' a man. Only the man fucks the girl and that's wrong.
"No girl ever ''fucks'' a man. Only the man fucks the girl and that's wrong." Come on, you know how I meant it, no need for this comment. My point is men are the ones who support female pedophiles but vilinise male pedophiles. My point stands RIGHT
And don't tell me guys don't shame girls. You men shame girls from very early age for anything sex related even if its not conscious or intentional.
Also why does it matter who fucks who? That's nature mate, penis was made to fuck vagina. All girls get fucked. What matters here is the mental development of the child, not physical.
maybe just maybe its due to the last few millenia of a patriachal society...
Wait you think men sold insult a womon for being promiscuous?
They are the ones who made it a norm
Who specifically did it and again even if they made it a norm people have to continue it to allow it to stay normal which many women still support
Ah, silly men
I'll try, I don't think it's hate it's more insecurity and lack of knowledge.
I think the old, slut word is taken bit out of context these days, I remember all the girls me and my male friends knew where, and I'm being honest, they where sluts, but we didn't call them that around there friends or say it to embaris them, we actually didn't care and looked out for them even if the had a new cock every day, they would do anything to see us males happy, I knew some girls that would have a new dick for breakfast lunch and dinner, and they knew we would call them sluts but we would still go pick them up and take them to dinner and help them with anything. I'd loose it if a male friend called a girl slut with others around that might actually look up... It just a label and girls then would just say, I love dick how cares but now it's like a line that can't be crossed. Whatever people call sluts I love them because they are just accepting who they are and they know they got to get one good dickng out of a dozen! Anyway mostly angry women use the word slut and not in the same context as men. Women mostly use slut as a vendictive word but us men just grin. I hope no one misunderstands, I think all women are perfect and beautiful, a dick in hand makes no difference. X
Double standards are started on both sides, and prejudice.
Nope
Nah yeah I agree 100% I think it is hypocritical considering men get HELLLLA pressed when they see a young woman fucking an older man.
But speaking for myself here...
My last ex was 7 years younger than me. With age my “preferred age gap” has shortened and actually has rubber banded the other way.
Now as a man almost in his 30’s I rather fuck a woman my age or older tbh.
Going back to my ex, when I found out she slept with a man who is 47 years old... I almost threw up. And gave her so much shit. The man was good looking (no homo) but still. He could even be my dad at his age... so yeah. I think it’s fucken disgusting for ANYONE to be ok with sleeping with someone that is more than 7 years younger than them (depending on their age of course) a 24 year old male shouldn’t be fucking a 17 year old girl
I think 17 year olds can decide if they want to have sex or not. If they are like 15 I think it gets troublesome and disgusting
Ehhh... a 17 year old girl should ESPECIALLY not be fucking a man that is in his late 20’s and up. That is forsure
But why? I don't see anything wrong with it
There are double standards for oh so many things in our society because we live in a sexist patriarchy. The underage thing is part of the same problem, even though the majority of pedophiles are simply stuck in the same sexual development level as the children they are attracted to. Interesting sidebar here: I read that most garden variety pedophiles do not actually want to have sex with a child, because that would cause a child pain and causing a child pain is a horrifying idea to them. They are basically in that 'you show me yours, I'll show you mine... touchy feely' stage of development. As for hate and prejudice, improper parenting, poor quality education, and social pressure account for most of that. Factor in that patriarchy thing and you funnel all that negative energy towards women,
Ah yes, all men are responsible for all the evils of this world...
Well, if that isn't a whole lot of bullshit. What you're thinking of is some frat like guys, the average male doesn't think like that and females for one are more judgmental of their own sex.
I was told at 13 how an older woman having sex with me wasn't rape it was just her allowing me to live out every teenage boys fantasy and that was said to me by a female cop.
Being female grants you the pussy pass which allows you to use your gender to access the world's library of double standards.
it's highlighted more. there are women who have double standards out there, we just don't see it as often
Is it only up to men to uphold these standards?
You love studs and men want to be studs. If you shamed studs then men would not want to be studs because it would mean women would not like them or avoid them.
For pedophilia I do agree that's a problem for sure
all that old shit is dead here if a guy fucks a who bunch of girls he's a fuck boy and that not a compliment. Everybody has to be held accountable for there actions
In many places that still doesn't happen. US is a small part of the world
True
Selfishness and self centeredness They want what they want but do not want anyone else to have it...
Women hold all the power when it comes to sex/relationships , therefore men can't "legislate" double standards without approval/suport of women. ( generally speaking)
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