Guys, is there any difference to sex with and without condom?

[TheorionMage]

Once upon a time, 'condom' technology was more greatly-concerned with both the Wearer's and his Companion's certainty that a spirited dalliance did not become an unintentional conception and hence in light of the materials prevalent at that time, prophylactics were most often 'organic', THICK and REUSABLE after washing!

This somewhat lessened the male's pleasuring sensation of intimate warmth and friction. Imagine intimately thrusting through a woolen sock or these days, a plastic sandwich bag!

These days, any SANE male, not intuitively acting on subliminal motivation to 'plant his genetic seed', ... would logically take but a moment to 'wrap his rascal'.
Those bemoaning the momentary lack of spontaneity to put one on...
show NO regard for their companion's short & long term circumstances.

There was an PSA ad campaign which reminded,
that with regard to as yet undetected sexually-transmitted diseases
"to keep in mind, when you have unprotected sex, you ARE (in effect) having intimate contact with EVERY ONE OF your Companion's PAST intimate companions..."

HOW MUCH are you willing to entrust to THEIR judgement in the heated passion of those past moments?

With CURRENT condom industry chemistry technology, THERE IS NO VALID 'excuse' for any Male to NOT provide an impermeable barrier between YOUR semen and HER Uterus! 'Baby Daddy!' Hormonal birth control is only 98% effective on average; a physical condom is 100%.

Enjoy the 'ride', AVOID the parentage!

[Torari]

Disclaimer, I'm circumsized, so I'm less sensitive than most men.

My dick is 6.5" BPEL with 5.3" girth, so it's significantly larger than average, but I use custom condoms so that shouldn't be a big factor here. Other than that all issues are even worse with off the shelf condoms.

Condom:

Can't maintain erection. It'll stay hard as long as I'm inside and pumping, but the second I pull out it starts to soften.

Sex itself feels significantly worse, it's hard to quantify but I'd say it's around 3x less sensitive with a condom.

Need artificial lube. Condoms just produce more friction than bare skin. So while I can fuck just fine bareback without any added lube, even when she's not extremely wet. The same is not true with a condom. Even if she's soaked, you still need extra lube after 10 minutes or so. Or the friction starts moving the condom around and further numbs the sensation.

Condoms turn whisky dick from an annoyance, into a disability. Sex becomes basically impossible for me while drunk if I wear a condom. It just won't stay hard.

Occasionally even during sober sex, condoms make it hard to finish. It takes longer to cum. And not in a good way. Turns sex intoan effort to achieve an orgasm, rather than the orgasm being an expected side benefit to a steamy session.

Condoms also kill the momentum. When you're in the heat of passion and just got eachother pants off, the last thing you want to do is go digging around your side table or wallet for a condom. You want to go straight in.

[chevymcgthatsme]

Well it all depends on the condom u buy some u can not feel the cock tht good but the extra thin durex condoms are the best to still feel but not as good when u dont wear a condom ohh it feels so much better u feel his whole cock inside ure pussy the skin slipping all over when its inside ure pussy feeling the real cock is much better feeling the Jed rubbing off ure clit feels better than plastic more pleasure u get nd lips rapped right round it without a condom is amazing wiles he fucking u slippery cock without the rubber is so much more pleasurable to feel his cum actually filling you up inside is great its warm nd makes ure clit tingle nd then feeling it dripping out nd running down your ass it feels better to without the condom is way better

[Anonymous]

i think maybe even girl can feel the difference 🤷 like after 8 times consecutive sex in 2 days, with condom, my vagina was having skin irritation because of the friction 🙈

maybe without condom i would not have irritation down there

[MrOracle]

The difference is huge.

Try to imagine "enjoying" your Thanksgiving meal wearing a condom on your tongue the whole time, and you'll have a reasonably good idea of what sex with a condom is like.

[Kurαȷ]

No, not really.
The main sensation for the man during sex is pressure (applied by the opening of the vagina), which remains pretty much unchanged when using a condom.

The "softness", "wetness", "slipperiness" and I don't know what other descriptors, those are, for the most part, exaggerations of selfish men or virgin talk of dudes trying to sound like they actually get laid.
You barely perceive any of that with your penis, it's nowhere near that sensitive.

There IS however the psychological aspect.
It's just not that comfortable having sex with a condom, because you always keep in mind that the things fail, tear and slip off.
So you can't relax and you are forced to hold back knowing that the condom is the only thing between you and potential unwanted pregnancy.
Hormonal birth control just makes both partners feel far more comfortable, in my opinion.

[lokeshdh00]

Looks like you are virgin too like me 😂. Condom is the best Contracept method ( To prevent Pregnancy without impacting on body hormones) and also protects from sexual transmitted diseases.
As for sex without condom, It's the best sex you can have but you are risking everything ( Pregnancy and diseases ) . you have the most intimate sex without condoms. But there are few brand which are very thin so they give close feelings but not same as without condom.
You should only avoid condom if you are trying to get pregnant !

[Anonymous]

This may sound incredible but I have used a condom only once in my entire life. When I was younger, STD's were less common, HIV did not exist, and STD's that did exist were mostly easily treated. We were very risky with the possibility of pregnancy but I never got a girl pregnant (or, if I did, she never told me.)

The one time I used a condom, the physical sensation was just dulled. We were doing the same things we had done before but it never got me to the point of orgasm and it was quite frustrating.

Now pregnancy is not a concern and my partners and I get STD tested before we get to that point, so we are safe. . . as long as we are being monogamous, and i believe they have all been monogamous.

[Anonymous]

Oh yes big time. Wearing a condom is like taking a shower with your clothes on.

Alright not that extreme. I always wear condoms unless I’ve been dating a girl for a while and I know she’s definitely on birth control. But sex is a hundred times better.

Also when I cum with a condom on I get paranoid about seepage. I have to pull back at the very best part. When I’m riding in bare back I can keep going even after I finish because it makes no difference anyway. I’ll keep going after I’m done until I make her climax.

[Knighted2170]

There is a difference. Especially if you get the wrong type or brand.

Some have a numbing agent along with the spermicide. It can dull the nerves so the guy can "last longer." Really you can't feel much of anything other than the stroking and warmth.

Some are made thicker than others. So it's like the same thing as a numbing agent.

It much more pleasurable without one. But I get why she would want it worn.

Without it the heat and warmth is fully felt. Along with the wetness and folds within her. Those are diminished are completely lost when wearing a condom.

[TheLawAroundHere]

Oh god... I soooooo do not miss condoms! I have 2 analogies, both came from comedians.

1. Wearing a condom is like taking a shit with your pants on.

2. Wearing a condom is like picking up dog shit with a bag. You pick it up, but you dont freak out.

But honestly, im in the very small minority of guys that has never reached climax while wearing a condom. Because of some unknown source of luck, I've never come up unlucky. Never pissed hot for any kind of bugs. And never knocked anyone up. But i dont wanna jinx it. I've only been married for 10 years, and with her for 11. So there might be a knock at the door in the next 7 or 8 years. After that, im home free! Lol!

[Lliam]

Big time.
1) Some women have different levels of allergy to latex. Using a condom can cause anything from mild to severe irritation inside their vagina.
2) Neither partner can experience the delicious feeling of skin sliding against skin. And the man can't feel the silky juiciness. Basically, the only sensation he can feel is warmth.
I use the analogy of petting a soft, furry kitty while wearing surgical gloves. What would you feel?

[NamerOfStars]

A world of it. Don't take my word for it, either: get yourself a condom and put it around your hand (don't worry; they stretch), then run your hand over a series of objects with and without it. You'll see. Now a penis, even an intact one, isn't as sensitive as a finger, so it's not quite as pronounced, but it's still a dramatic loss of sensation.

[Wedimir]

While you (she ) put on a condom, the penis may fall off). You don't feel the velvety tenderness of a vagina in it. In addition, it slides and bursts, and then you have to pull out pieces of latex from her pussy ( Only perverts could come up with a condom)

[Andres77]

With the condom the sensation comes from varying pressure.
Without the condom it comes from friction and the heat is better felt. Plus how wet and sloppy it gets feels good too.
I really don't like condoms.
At this point in my life if I was dating again I'd prefer mutual masturbation to actual coitus if condom was required.

[AmtgardJean]

There is a huge difference. Physically there is a much heightened feel to it as well as more warmth. Emotionally there is more of a connection with the person (to me at least) as well. Still one should use protection when not with a long term partner or when there is potential for an unwanted pregnancy.

[RingOfFire]

The difference is both physical and psychological. Nothing like the flesh to flesh feeling. It's not as intense with a condom.

Also, for men, a critical part of the psychological element to sexual arousal and satisfaction is the element of her giving herself to you totally and exposing herself to becoming pregnant. Yes, of course she can use birth control not involving a condom. But I think there is a certain instinct that comes from nature that makes the thought of making a woman pregnant and that she is willing extremely arousing. And the physical barrier impedes that sense of the act.

[Kaazsz]

Well the inside of pussy is very very textured. And I can feel those ridges and flaps or w/e the fuck it is in there. It’s TEXTURED.


It’s like a fucking winter wonderland inside there. It feels amazing to slooooooowly push inside and out of her, like a really long train going into a tunnel. It’s pure pleasure.


Put on a condom, and now you can’t feel that texture at all. You might as well fuck the inside of a balloon. Which is what you’re doing lol.

[Anonymous]

YES. I always used protection. Unless is my friend we don't use it because I notice with it we go for 1-2 hours of sex and my friend gets cramps or up to I never cum while she has cummed many times. I asked her if we can do without it. Ever since then time reduced we go less 1 hour. We both are satisfied. Once again YES.

[MaximisPryme]

Using a condom doesn't seem to make a huge difference for me... Sex is sex. I am not all that fussy. Yes, it dulls the sensation, but not to detrimental effect. I prefer without of course, but knowing that I could have a really expensive mistake on my hands, it makes it easier to enjoy sex without the worry hahaha

[MCheetah]

Yes. Condoms suck, for the most part. It's the equivalent of getting to second base while you're both wearing winter-coats. Also the "shower in a raincoat" analogy others are using (LOL) that I never heard of until now.

[Tjsmoove]

condom less sex feels better but if ya do that better be sure of a couple of things that the person your fuckin is clean and not to get carried away with the sensation of raw sex and use the proper pull out techniques if the sex is raw like a gentle tug on the mans dick upwards to prevent cummin also keepin the cum away from your pussy

[JPrez]

With a condom you don’t feel the wetness and grip of the vagina as much and you can actually last longer but it reduces the experience. Without a condom you feel the tightness and wetness of the vagina and it enhances the sex. The orgasm is also better without the condom. You need to exercise more control without the condom.

[ArrowheadSW]

Well there is so much more to sex than how the penis feels inside a vagina. Like the foreplay that leads up to sex and the way your skin feels against each other, and hearing her breathing next to your ear... I can go on... Virtually all sex that I have had in the last ten plus years has been with a condom so I am fairly used to them.