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Was it a choice or was it unavoidable?

How did it happen?

How old were you?

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Puppystarfish23 · Accepted Answer

I been dating my boyfriend for months and he was extremely shy. I had to tell him he could hold my hand and after i while got fed up of waiting for him to kiss me so i pretty much stuck my tongue down his throat but that's another story 😂. As embarrassing as are first kiss was, i asked him if he was my boyfriend and he said "i hope so after that" 😅.

after a couple more dates he kept texting me but he wanted to say them three words and but he just knew his feelings for me had grew into something more but he was too scared and shy to say it to my face. I told him I felt the same but best not to say it over text.

We met again in the park and i took him into the woods. It was a beautiful summers day and i held his hand and told him i loved him and he told me he loved me too. We made out a little and after that we started talking about how we both were ready for more than just kissing.

We planned to have sex the first time he stayed over but then i got my period so we just snuggled and made out. We were both extremely inexperienced for are age (21 and 26). It was the first time id ever seen a boner and i found it really flattering but a guy got a boner over me.

The next week he came over. We planned to meet up with his sister and her boyfriend for the first time for drinks. I told him but tonight was the night on the way to met his sister in pub. Little did i know his sister likes to drink and she kept buying me drinks along with hers. I got so drunk, i walked into a shop shutter thinking it was my front door when we'd not even got into a taxi he yet.

Once we got into the taxi the driver wasn't listening to us and dropped us off in the middle of a bridge. We were both being silly and he piggy backed me all the way home. I told him i was too drunk to have sex with him and i wanted to be sober enough to remember it, he said he thought that too. It was also the hottest night of the year. I woke up in the middle of the night and I'd sobered up by then. I asked him if he wanted to do it.

My boyfriend was extremely excited and we had a lot of fore play first and then we did it. It hurt a lot, my boyfriend asked if he should keep going as i was starting to cry but i insisted he keep going. It was extremely sweaty, hot and quick. Afterwards we fell asleep in each others arms naked.

weysally · Accepted Answer

1/ it was by choice
2/ in a bath, he laying down me lowering myself down, he assisting with his hands
under my bottom, nice and slow,
3/ I was 15 years and 10 months old at the time he was around 44, I have no regrets, in fact him being older taught me a lot, which I still use today

MrOracle · Answer

The girl in question more-or-less planned it. Her parents were divorced and she lived with her mom, so she had an empty house until her mom got home from work, so she invited me over after school with the obvious intention of having sex. My only regret was that she moved away less than a month later and I lost contact with her almost immediately (this was long before personal phones or email, much less social media).

chrissykerdock · Answer

Was it a choice or was it unavoidable? it was my choice but i kind of manipulated it to happen

How did it happen? i was reading and i guess watching vidoes about blowjobs and wanted to try it and giving someone that i wasn't really interested in doing anything else at the time... so i invited a 16 year old over and we went to the attic to hang out supposedly i was 13... i'm wearing a really short mini skirt... he's sitting on a couch i bring up ice tea as it was a warm June day and hot in attics... so i'm sitting next to him i don't think he knew yet what he was in for... so i'm sitting there nothing is happening so i go to the bathroom hike up my mini skirt even higher as it's riddiculusly short.. i sit next to him start rubbing his leg and up towards his crotch but not actually touching it... he get is now he says do you want to get laid... i answer i want to give you a blowjob... he just unbuckles and takes it out... he's standing so i sit and just enjoy this... so i get on my knees and give my 1st blowjob... it went well i read and watched well i think it was a 10 minutes blowjob and i swallowed his cum which i knew was going to happen and most books/articles i read encouraged it and it was electric feeling when he did that in my mouth... it was a very hot experience for me i felt very much excited and alive

How old were you? i was 13 just 1 month past my birthday of being 12... thinking back maybe i was young to be doing that but i think it was due to the fact i loved wearing sexy clothes loved mini skirts make up wearing heels... that's how that happend for me.

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Vero4567 · Answer

I haven't lost it yet, waiting for the right man.

NamerOfStars · Answer

I didn't. It wasn't lost, but given to a very remarkable young woman who said I'd be better off without it. She was right.

SexyPetite · Answer

I'm a lesbian so while I have had a girlfriend of mine who used a vibrator in me. I've never had a guy in me

Heatherheels · Answer

I was at a friends house watching tv and hanging out I was 16 and she was 18, well her boy friend came over to watch with us, witch was cool. but during the movie they started making out and get very heavy. I was getting uncomfortable it was so heavy. but next thing i know my friend was feeling and kissing me and the guy was watching, long story short i got so hot and turned on i couldn't stop. (mainly because she was wearing things i love pantyhose, heels, short skirt) my friend and i got naked and she started going down on me after a while i returned the favor. them we went to a 69 (i was on the bottom) next thing i saw was a huge cock plowing into her as i ate her.
and it just went all out. we all 3 did everything with everyone else.
It was my first lesbian experience,
first vaginal sex,
first anal sex,
first blow job,
and the first time i swallowed both women's squirt, and a mans cum.
I think that cemented me in the bi category for life.

AshleyTaylorDanny · Answer

Well I have 2 stories. The first sexual experience I jad was with my girlfriend at 14. We had a sleep over and we were close and laughing while watching movies and we started to kiss, and then rubbing our hands over each other and then fingering and more.
First guy was when I was 16 and he was my 2nd boyfriend that I had. We were making out in his car and before I knew it I was stroking his cock and then sucking it. Then... well you can guess the rest lol.

katiesmuff · Answer

"A" is right on in my case.

Lliam · Answer

I was 16 and in my first year of high school (10th grade). A 15 year old girl who was neighborhood friends with a good friend of mine came out and started talking to me when I was outside alone one time. She was cute, I was attracted, and she was obviously attracted to me. We started sort of going together for a short while, kissing and feeling each other up, lots of times in my car.
Finally, she invited me inside the camper her parents kept parked in their back yard. She had had a previous boyfriend so wasn't a virgin.
I had been anxious to have sex for at least three years. In fact, I was always attracted to girls/females. Finally seeing and feeling a girl's body was amazing. It was really good for me and she was obviously very turned on. But I have to admit that, once I was inside her I didn't last long that first time. We wound up going together for several months.

Paolaa988 · Answer

Haven't lost it yet! I still have my v card because there hasn't been anyone who i felt it was right to give it to is a main reason, and second of all i dated some jerks in high school sadly. I had one good boyfriend but our relationship didn't last due to circumstances, and thirdly i just dont wanna throw it away to anyone and regret it later on. I'm 22 and the last time i got completely vulnerable with a boy was aged 14 showing him beneath my skin and since then I've only madeout with guys.

Flower7 · Answer

That "I'm a Virgin" shirt is so cute!

My number one reason was because I felt like I was the only one who wasn't having sex. I didn't know anyone else who was a virgin and I felt very out of place. (I was 18 at the time.)

I also didn't understand the value of staying a virgin. It didn't seem like an important thing to me. But now that I'm older, I wish I would have attempted to stay a virgin and made it more special.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Because I was bored of dumb girls telling me about sex and I didn't know what they were talking about. I wanted to know the honest truth and all they spoke of was a lie. If they were having sex it was in an abusive situation there was no love involved. Ugh!

ohshee · Answer

Well it's starts out like this one night I'm hanging out with my cousins they are girls older than me they start asking me if I had sex yet or if I'm masturbating and I'm lying and saying yes oh yah all the time *NOT* Lol so that night I start playing with my cock next thing I know it's feeling hella good next thing I know oh fuck it feels good next thing I kissing all over myself WHAT WHY DID I PEE ,, next day talking with my cousins friend and I ask her how come if I'm masturbating I per all over my self she tells me it's fun and that's what happens and makes babyys and bla bla she sais it happens to her to she asked if i wanted to see i said ok so we go over her houst she gets un dressed starts touching annd she talking to me as she's doinf it then says come do it for me im thinking *huh* i dont want to touch that ,, i say ok. She's telling me how to do it and then she reaches for my pants she say you do it to I'm thinking *HUH* IM NOT DOING THAT , so I take off my shorts and underwear and she said get on the bed with her I do I get right next to her and her legs touching mine and she starts talking about my dick and it's bigger than her ex boyfriend and you rubbing hard I start rubbing harder and she moaning say how she wants the feel it in her pussy and I'm saying *HUH* and she says I'm going to cum omg yes and I'm waiting to see it go everywhere and it doesn't. I say you didn't cum she grabs my hand take a it to her pussy and says yah right feel that I said it's wet but I thought it we every where she holding my had there and she puts my fingers by the wet spot and says put yiur fingers in ,, I say HUH ,, She pushes then in and she floods she grabs my cock and says your turn she's stroking it saying omg I want to feel this and I'm thinking you have it in to your hand dummy what's wrong with you lol I say I think and bam I start shooting come every where she's saying damn you I told you tell me when and way later that night I masturbated thinking about it the next day I'm watching love boat and some dude and lady are taking about having sex and how the last time they did he seen fireworks when it was over about s week goes by I m dating something else on TV someone else say then seen fireworks when they were do next day went to my cousin how's and they were in trouble I went to there friends house and see said I'm mad thst you haven't been coming here she take my hand go in to her room and she says get in dressed let's masturbate well for the rest if the week every day did that the next week went there same thing except she now says I'm her boy friend I say *HUHHHH* so she teaches me what to do and how to do it but I can cum in her. I say ok. We doing it she was moaning like crazy saying things I've never heard before and she's kissing me saying you are so good. ,, and all I could think of where was the fireworks I didn't see anything ,, this went on 2 more times and I new then she was lying to me I really wasn't that good this is all in about a months time so in my own head I had towill see fireworks , the time come and we do it and do it and do it I make sure I've got her red hot and she screammming moaning like never before and she's fucking me like a mad women and screams I'm cumming and I feel her warm cum trying to push my cock out and I say baby no baby's

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

My 1st boyfriend & I mutually agreed to wait 'til we both reached 21 to actually have sexual intercourse. Before that, we "explored" each other extensively to get comfortable with each other. I trained myself giving him handjobs, then blowjobs. He trained himself eating me everywhere I'd let him. We tried to get comfortable doing everything including fingering and even anal rim jobs but still kept our promise to wait for his dick to penetrate my pussy.

Imagine our excitement, anxiety & anticipation when that moment arrived. Since he's a bit younger than me, his birthday was supposed to be that ultimate day. However, we had to wait a li'l longer for the weekend that followed. We both saved up for a special weekend out in a hotel which we planned for years. Since we both had jobs and were of legal adult age, it felt good not to sneak around and/or need permission. It was time to go all out (or "all IN") on each other!

rachel776 · Answer

a guy just slipped it in and that was it

TonyV · Answer

Lucky you guys. I'm still a virgin, no one wants to be with my ugly butt lol

zoeadams3 · Answer

It was definitely by choice. I wanted to lose it before I turned 18. It was a few weeks before my 18th birthday. And my boyfriend (by the way 2 years older than me and with a good construction job) knew I wanted a kid. We eventually got married, 2 weeks after I graduated high school.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Chose A.
I was 22 or 23?
It was with a friend and a funny situation as I didn't tell him I was virgin until he was on top kissing all over me 😅
Before I came over I told him we weren't going to have sex and that I needed to talk, but that clearly didn't happen.
His reaction was priceless though.
Kept it going and wasn't able to have sex until a day or two later?
I was super anxious and he freaked me out because he kept asking to eat me out

Jjpayne · Answer

I have not yet 😞

likelyOK · Answer

I had preplanned that 15 was an expectable age years before and my other standards were that he was my boyfriend and that he obviously was attractive. So when all those things fell into place we had sex. I did not regret it and he was very gentle with me.

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