Are you silent or not during sex?

[Anonymous]

When you are aroused and close to orgasm, are you quiet as a church mouse? Telling him or her how good it feels? Telling him or her to fuck you harder? Moaning like the whore of Babylon? How much noise do you make and what kind of noise?

[Ninani]

I moan and groan a lot, but also laugh, make jokes, and talk dirty.

[Asker]

I'm sure your partner enjoys your animation!

[Ninani]

They usually do, some are annoyed by my laughing, though

[Asker]

To me, laughing while in bed with me is the highest compliment. It means you are relaxed.

[Ninani]

Exactly, I love being comfortable enough with the person I'm with, that we can have fun and experiment

[wagsingle]

JOKES! LOL! Please tell us a few of your favourites.

[Ninani]

It's more of a situational thing

[AmandaYVR]

Moan, groan, and laugh. I chose C.
Silence is boring.

[RaveWorthy]

None of those choices actually applies to me at least. It all depends on what we are doing at the moment and that changes quite often with us. It's also rather impossible to vocalize anything at times.

[heymynameisMatt]

I'm pretty quiet, but I sure like when the girl isn't!!! 💕 🤯

[Asker]

Make some noise and it might encourage her to get vocal, too!

[ThomasTKay]

C and some E for me too

[lilyanony1]

I used to make a lot of noise to please the guy I was with and tbh I used to really enjoy sex. But then I noticed that I got treated almost like trash because well I was feeding into jus male ego. So now until I'm satisfied that the guy I'm with is a a good guy, I don't sleep with him and I increase my noise as a form of encouragement for when he's doing something right. It's controlled and maybe I'm not allowing myself to get lost in the moment but I have to protect myself.

[Asker]

Sounds like the emphasis needs to be more quality control in the selection process.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I used to be loud but I had to "tone down" significantly.

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

Complaints from the neighbors?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I shamelessly screamed often, especially during orgasms. After watching videos we recorded of ourselves fornicating, I felt embarrassed when I realized I was hysterically loud & obnoxious.

[Asker]

But that loud, out-of-control behavior is what lets a guy know that he put you over the moon!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

He knows he still "puts me over the moon" when he sees the expressions on my face while watching me biting hard on something as perspiration drips from every part of my body. I'd still moan, groan & whine but I'll just keep it down.

[Asker]

Maybe you can vacation on a deserted island and have loud sex for a week! :) :) :)

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Been there! Done that! :) ;) :D

[Asker]

Nice!

[Apple1996]

Not gonna lie I'm pretty quiet. I'll let out a few moans if they naturally slip out but I ain't gonna purposely fake moans just to please my husband. Its stupid and not worth it to fake them.

[Asker]

Once upon a time, I felt that way. I had a girl ask me if I was preoccupied with having "logical" sex. I then thought about how it got me excited when I heard my partner getting vocal, so I decided to give it a try and I forced myself to stay making noise during sex. Before long, it felt natural to it for me now aroused, and it for my partner more aroused. Now, I can't imagine being silent.

[AFellowWeeb]

mho here

[volleyballluver1]

I don't agree with fake moans/noises either.

[wagsingle]

I think having a partner cry would really freak me out!

[Asker]

Me, too!

[AFellowWeeb]

mho guy

[tae_ie]

C, D.

[volleyballluver1]

It takes some serious control for me to be quiet most times. If it's easy for me to be quiet he or she is doing something wrong.

[Cindy69]

I'm never quite when I'm having sex I'm always screaming and moaning very any screaming him or her name out loud too

[volleyballluver1]

Same here :D

[helva]

Surely not silent, I moan somewhat and laugh at the great moment.

[ChattyGuy43]

I am never quiet during sex and neither should the lady i'm having sex with.

[Prettysammie]

I’m very loud. My neighbors, hotel security, my friends all tell me so.

[Asker]

Awesome!

[HelenJacob]

I've had sexual partners and I usually scream during sex

[red_knight]

I'm very quiet

[Guardian45]

Umm. I'm NOT silent.

[msc545]

A slight amount of noise. My SO is noisy as hell!

[Andrejka95]

Moan and sometimes scream

[Anonymous]

me and my girlfriend both moan talk dirty and sometimes giggle during sex

[Anonymous]

Just some small moan