I don't ask, it just happens.
Different women respond differently to me. It may be a few days, a week, or maybe longer.
It depends on how quickly they feel comfortable with me and their level of trust in me. If I break that trust by asking, it will never last with them.
Besides, I find it much more fulfilling when it just happens on it's own. It's not like just going through the motions, they are more relaxed and passionate.0 0 0 0In my current relationship, I started talking about sex on our second date. It's an LDR and a big investment of time and effort for me and I want to make sure that we are on the same page. We still haven't had sex but at least I know that it is something that she looks forward to at the right time.
0 0 0 0I did the same with my current girlfriend, although we aren't long distance. I didn't want sex by our second date, but I wanted it before proposing and she was a 32 year old virgin and had a 10 year relationship in the past. To me it seemed reasonable to be made aware of whether or not she was waiting for marriage
Exactly. And I am in a position where I may not get remarried but still proceed with a monogamous, committed relationship. Plus, at my age, some post-menopausal women no longer have an interest in sex while others can't get enough sex. I don't want to get in a relationship where we only have sex on Christmas and the Fourth of July!
@twalli Thanks for MHO!
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Honestly, I've never discussed sex with any guy unless we've established we're in a relationship together. And even then, I've never slept with any cause I like to wait until I'm 100% trusting of that person.
0 1 0 0I don't have it, just talk about it.
I can discuss it on the first couple times out. But I’ll wait several months minimum before actually doing it.
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2 6Usually on date 2 or 3
0 0 0 0I never have done but I was 16 when I dated
The first relationship got to 5 months before she took the lead in that department and the second was sexual before the relationship started0 0 0 0On the honeymoon.
0 2 0 0For me it depends
0 0 0 0Within the first couple of dates, you said your girlfriend was a virgin until 33? Just asking because the current woman I'm dating, we haven't had sex yet and she claims she's a virgin at 29
0 0 0 0We didn't have sex until 6 months in, but I will have sex before marriage with the person I marry. If she is going to wait until after marriage, she won't be marrying me.
So am I right in what I said? Well if I remember you were a virgin until 27 and she was until 33?
Closer to 27.5, but yeah.
i believe you said, your girlfriend was a virgin until 33?
0 0 0 0After a year at least.
0 0 0 0Must just happen no planned times for how the relationship must progress
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