I think that WAY too many women compare themselves to a theoretical (or heavily photoshopped) ideal of the perfect figure. (Odds are men do the same thing, but I don't know for certain). The truth is that you're never going to be perfect, and that's not what anyone is realistically looking for (we may all hope for it, but the insecurity that you're not good enough would probably ruin the happiness you'd feel with someone you felt was too good for you). It may not be a turn-on (though it might; you never know), but it's not going to be a big deal with any man who's worth being with.
You just have to find the right guy who will appreciate you for you.
When I was younger I thought all fat was gross. I was an ignorant...
Now I love fluffy. The feel, watching her body wiggle when we fuck, she sweats a bit more and that enhances the aromas that I get from her sexy body.
Be patient... find someone who appreciates you for you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I love soft tummies and jiggly thighs on girls, they are a big plus. If you don't mind my asking, what height and weight are you?
Soft, supple, curvaceous body parts win every single time. In my world, anyhow.
Darlin', it sounds like you are put together very well. Keep up the good work!
That’s fine, if you are healthy and able to keep up physically most people are not super tight in their bodies.
A reasonable guy that is into you is not going to care about particular body parts. What's most important is what you do with your body and your personality.
Try harder, fatty?
No it's not a turn off, and fat on those parts is actually the hardest to get rid of!
Fit shapely is better.
They are fine to be honest.
No, it's actually a turn on.
My girlfriend is 5'3 and 115 lbs, looking kinda slim and petite, but her thighs, butt, upper arms and especially her belly, basically her whole body is super soft and squishy af.
I find the softness of her body very hot. Sometimes I tease her about her lack of muscles. If she tries to flex her biceps or abs, absolutely nothing is happening. There's always a nice, hot sofness.
She calls herself "skinny-fat". I call her "hot".
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