Quarantine 8 weight gain- how do I have sex with the new weight?

[Anonymous]

has anyone else been hit with the pandemic 10?

personally it’s just 8 for me, but I swear it’s all in my tummy. I still have a hour glass figure and I’ve been sexting with guys and being really upfront with my softer bits, and they’ve been really into it. But I’ve never had sex with a tummy/back roll situation before.

im 5’8 and my wait is a 32’ hip a 39 and my legs are toned and long. So I really don’t look bigger until i sit.

I’m not worried about loosing weight, I do it quickly, I’m active and have all my dance/runner endurance. But my fat responds best to running, not these homework outs. It’s snowing and gyms are still closed.

there’s no way I’m waiting for a vaccine Or the gym to open before i get back to “it”. But I’m so self conscious. There’s no way I’m getting on top with a pouchy situation.

ladies: helpppp how do you deal with softer bits? Do I hide it with a shirt or something 🥺

guys: Do you really mind if a girl has a bit of a tummy when you hold her at the waist? Also what would you prefer that she wears if she does?

[Anonymous]

I totally understand you!
I've gained about 15 lbs, and almost all of it sits on my lower belly area...
I still have pretty slim legs and arms, and my waist still come in at the sides, but now I carry really a lot of weight on my lower stomach. My whole stomach has a very soft and squeezable look to it, it bulges out and jiggles easily, I always have a muffin top and love handles.
All of my jeans are low waisted and all my tops are short. My whole warderobe is designed to show off my lower belly area, because before this situation I had a pretty nice and showable lower stomach.
Now I just show off a fluffy lower belly pooch and spare tire, bulging over my pants.
When I sit down it's even worse.

When it comes to sex I get very self-concious. But I don't think that covering with the shirt is a solution. You must risk and just ride...

[Swifting_Through]

I also gained about 15-20 lbs. Went from about 150 to 165-170 lbs. Most of it is in my belly and legs. My boyfriend says he loves it tho!

[Berethor]

It might be little unfortunate that all the extra weight was going to the tummy and not to the boobs, but it's okay, I believe that most guys are not petty as to turn you down for little weight gain, 8 kilo is nothing extreme. If you feel too self-conscious about it to get on top then you don't need to get on top, many girls are having sex mostly in a passive positions anyway.

You want to wear something over your tummy during sex? you can do it, but the guy would likely prefer you without it, and you say that your are upfront with your softer bits, so he know what to expect. The fact that you are upfront is a plus, and the guy might see your imperfections as cute, and if you tell him the story behind that he would likely understand, and would try to help you with losing weight. :)

[Portmorsbi]

My girlfriend has a tummy. I like it. It's never a problem during the sex. Cowgirl is our favourite position, and seeing her soft belly jiggle and squeezing it when she is riding me is a huge turn on for me. She knows it and doesn't get self-concious.

I prefer her to wear outfits that show off her belly. Like low waisted pants and shorts paired with a crop top. Skimpy bikinis at the beach or waterpark. Tiny running shorts with a sport bra when we go for a run or hike.

[Matthew2222]

I prefer a girl who has a tummy and is not afraid to show it. You have it now, be proud of it and use it.

[Avicenna]

It’s no problem

[havingfun101]

I gain in muscle, not fat.

[msc545]

You have sex the same way you did when you weighed less...

[Joe1956]

on your back.. or on top his cock... ... im sure you're just as hot as ever,,, and fucking will not change