Just like with vaginas, assholes adjust to regular "use" over time, and the asshole of a woman who has had regular anal sex, or has adequately trained her ass, will be much better able to comfortably accommodate a larger dick.
Any asshole can adjust over time to comfortably take a large dick. But the process of getting to that point takes time and is always uncomfortable, or even painful, unless the woman uses a very disciplined times consuming training process rather than just having anal sex with a big guy.
Bottom line, for most (not all) women a smaller dick is better for anal sex.
By the way, don't listen to the guy here who says women don't really like anal sex. He is wrong and is obviously basing his answer on his own limited experience. I know for my own experience that some women really do like anal sex, but only if they are introduced to it properly and they do it with a guy who knows what he is doing and cares enough to make sure it is a comfortable and enjoyable experience for her.
Women who learn to enjoy anal sex tend to have more a better (more intense) orgasms than women who don't. That has been my own personal observation and some studies have shown the same thing. Here are the results of one done by the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior. Note in the chart below that almost all women who had anal sex achieved orgasm, a much higher percentage than any other sex act, including receiving oral sex.
People who say women don't enjoy anal sex are typically either women who have had a bad experience with it, which unfortunately is common, or people who have some sort of moral or religious aversion to the idea of anal sex.
oh, this is rather interesting but thanks, do you think it will hard to find a girl who likes anal sex?
You may be able to find a woman likes anal but I've had better luck teaching them to like it.
I wouldn't know, I've not ever had or wanted a penis in my anus but you do you my man. Use a lot of lube, be safe and experiment.
I meant from a girl's perspective let me fux that
Its okay dude, you want a dick in your ass and your worried about it. I can't relate but like I said, be safe when experimenting.
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No I'm talking about girls receiving anal sex?
Oh... well, yes, smaller is almost always a better way to start. The girls who let large guys shove it in the first time like a Subway sandwich during a food eating contest are the ones that say that it hurt and they will never try it again.
Yeah, that must be painful trying to shove a whole 9 inches into a hole that is the size of a quarter and we're not even talking about his girth.😨😨
As small as possible would be best.
nice, well I guess I found my usage lol
@flower7 does it still hurt if its small?
Go with vaginal sex instead
But I want to try both? Or is that askng too much?
Women really don’t like anal
Damm, for real :^(
about 7"
I don't think most women can handle 7 inches in hole that's the size of a quater?
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