Boyfriend makes fat jokes, so I make small penis jokes?

Question

Long story short. Im 5'4 112lbs but last year I weighed about 145lbs. When I was that weight he never made jokes about me but now that I lost weight and im smaller he continously makes fat jokes, it makes no sense. He's very self conscious about his weight too so maybe he feels insecure about me losing so much weight. So I make penis jokes saying how small his penis is because he has a small penis. I didn't start making those jokes until he started making fat jokes thought. Now he's feeling some type of way because he always says how those jokes bothers him but he know's the fat jokes bother me. What do you all think about this situation?

ShortCircuit · Accepted Answer

Although it was wrong on his part to make fun of your weight, weight and penis size are not 1:1 equivalent. Penis size is a completely immutable characteristic, whereas weight is merely a consequence of diet and can be changed by anyone at any time.

So he shouldn't have started it, but it's not like you responded with equal force. You upped the ante. Especially if he didn't actually mean what he said, but you did (which it sounds like is the case).

Regardless, this is not a healthy relationship. Partners don't make fun of each others' appearances. Period. I suggest that you reconsider the relationship.

RemoErdosain · Accepted Answer

You already posted this long ago. He's insecure, so he shames you, which is totally inappropriate of him and won't get him what he wants. You, in turn, shame him because he's insulting you, which definitely won't solve any of your problems, and, on the contrary, will make him feel more insecure. Also, you're taking it up a notch, because you can always lose the weight, but he's stuck with that penis for life. It doesn't sound like this relationship is going anywhere, and it doesn't seem like you even care. I think both of you are in the wrong. Maybe you deserve each other

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

Fat is not where it is---At. With his sick jokes. And the other One, Hun, Peeny Penis is just Irking his Livid Liver. Maybe it is Time to Decide if you wish to Continue this Relationship Ride of even Being Together. xx

Leavesbound · Answer

That makes no sense to me at all. Maybe he misses your fat? Anyways if it was mostly in your butt I'd miss it too. I'd be seducing you with chocolates every day just to maintain what I imagine was a magnificent butt. As for small penis jokes, having a woman ridicule my 2.5" penis is a huge turn on to me so I don't personally see the problem with your style of retaliation. Though I would never ridicule your weight.

MRTICKLE · Answer

Stop being nasty to each other. You are in a relationship with each other. Be in it and do it properly or go your separate ways.

What you are doing now may be fun for you both, but later on you will end up hurting each other and wasting each others time, so decide now if you are both in this for the right reasons.

Avicenna · Answer

Its silly, but no big deal

bowenw · Answer

Tell him you'll stop making jokes if he stops making jokes. Shaming someone is not healthy in a relationship. If he won't stop, it is time for him to find a new girlfriend.

ColHathi · Answer

I think you're both being petty, lol. I'm not saying you're not in your right or that he doesn't have it coming, but nothing good's gonna come from that.

Andres77 · Answer

Mutual respect... He started it, he just needs to drop it.

Bidensucks2020 · Answer

how small is it?

JHAYES317 · Answer

Not a fair comparison…you can lose weight he can’t get a bigger dick

Quidthonian · Answer

MAD: Mutally Assured Destruction.
To explain: you both are being toxic to each other, fuelling the retaliation. This is not a healthy relationship and I would recommend an exit.
To quote a drunk Winston Churchill: "Damn, you are ugly",
the woman replied: "Damn, you are drunk,"
counter-retaliation by Churchill: "But I'll sober up tomorrow".

Trooper205 · Answer

Ok. 5' 4" at 112lbs is healthy. I'm happy that You're doing better with your weight. He's gotta chill.

red_knight · Answer

He can't take what he puts out lol

Paul09 · Answer

Lol ouch, those are not even the same type of insults... Weigh can be easily changed. His penises size, not so much.

Whtevernever · Answer

I think you should just break up.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Dump him. If he makes fun of you then find someone else.

Gentlemanlover100 · Answer

I'm 9" long an thick so if you ever get bored with pee wee lol I love curvy, chubby,& bbw's so message me sometime! ;)

KeithLane · Answer

He should have never made those comments. As for me 145 I find a little thin. At least you can lose weight. I do hope that even though he was an asshole that you are doing it more in jest to let him know how you felt. I would hate for you to let him make you a jerk too.