What are some things you wish you knew about sex before you did it?

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For me. Dicks are huge It's really messy  Cum really shoots out without a warning Once he finishes it's all done Condoms smell bad  Its aquward Lots of smells

Inexpensivefurniture · Accepted Answer

-People talk during sex. Not just dirty talk, but stuff like "what position do you want?" "Are you getting tired doing that? Wanna switch?" "Ow, you're on my hair!" Lol
-Laughing during sex is normal. Sex is fun and funny with the right person. Sometimes bodies make funny noises, or your neighbours start blasting weord music, or your cat jumps on your back while you're trying to be sexy. It's normal and good to laugh about mishaps, and to let yourself be silly sometimes
-Lube dries surprisingly fast and you often need to add more
-Lube needs to be washed off with soap. You can't just wipe it away
-Sometimes in the middle of sex you just won't be in the mood anymore and you'll stop without either person finishing
-Leg cramps. Oh the leg cramps lol

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

For me, most of yours apply for me too except the "dicks are huge" part. I'm only 6.5" and I freaking HATE being so small...

I'd say that my answer is that sex is REALLY overrated and not really worth chasing. Maybe I've just never had good sex before, but I feel like the intimate connection is far more valuable than the actual sex, and I've only ever had that connection with one person before.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For me, I had romanticized the whole thing. I thought it was going to be passionate and exciting like you see in the movies. I didn’t realize a lot of guys look at sex in a more clinical way. So when I finally did have sex, he was inside me for like 30 seconds before pulling out and popping on my stomach. Then he thanked me and kissed me on the forehead. I was like... ummm that’s it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I dnt agree with of your stuff !! Excluding dick stuff !!
Seems like u are not wd ryt prsn that is why it's messy and condom's smell awful !!!
For me it's addictive wd my man. !!
It grows relationship stronger and make you mentally close to your loved ones

ohshee · Answer

That's cute and funny but I agree with some of your answers but in time you will find ,, JUST like girls guys are different to yes cocks are big but I like to warn it's about to shoot ,, and it's never over and it only smells because of the foods you put in your body

summiter · Answer

I like your answers!

boggboss · Answer

Once he cums its not sure about that one lol  For myself I guess how messy it was and simply how unsexy sex tends to be

bowenw · Answer

The first time you have sex with someone they are likely as nervous as you. Some women hate the taste of cum while others don't mind it. Communication is key.

winterfox10 · Answer

I never realized how much of a sense of humor you have to have when having sex. Like you kind of need to be ready to laugh at yourself at any time. Everything about a sexual encounter is just so damn weird 😂

Andres77 · Answer

That if I would have learned how to dance younger I would have been in a lot more trouble (fun).

poneglyphs · Answer

wait condoms smell bad and do cum really shoot out with no warning?

FakeNIK · Answer

It's not certainly the same as you see on movies and porn... and first timers do your homework before doing it...

Quidthonian · Answer

It can not be planned. It needs to be allowed to happen spontaneously, without a schedule. It needs to happen naturally.  by the way, "awkward" is spelled like this.

MarkyMark77 · Answer

how big was his pennis? did u suck it first?

red_knight · Answer

How fucking addictive it is and how annoying it us when its unavailable

Whtevernever · Answer

I think most of that is just a casualty of whomever you're having sex with. I didn't know my dick was enormous until the first time I has sex. That was a bizarre experience. Very very bizarre.

alx25x · Answer

That i will have trouble during sex due to my very small size. How to play with a girls pussy Learn to not shkw my dick while soft haha

UrBrotherCain · Answer

that its okay to say no.

Joe1956 · Answer

oh... well it gets better with experience... usually... after a while you should be able to tell when he's about to cum... and i noticed you didn't mention your own reactions... if you didn't cum for example,... hopefully he will learn to assist you in cumming, BEFORE he cums...