My boyfriend of 2 years always refers to me as his slut and fucktoy in private?

We're both super horny people and fuck a lot but i also love him and hope to marry him... is he just using me for my fuckholes or is there a chance he'll consider me wifey
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  • First, if he disrespects you to that extent, why are you with him? The disrespect won't stop if he marries you. In fact, it's likely to get worse.
    PLUS... you may be in for a big disappointment. If you are having sex a lot, why should he marry you? Why does he need to take on the responsibilities and expenses of marriage, when he's got everything he needs right now? You know, there's an old saying: "I don't have to buy a cow just because I like milk!" You need to rethink this whole thing!

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  • If your wondering about a possible future with him, you gotta ask him his intentions. Its scary because "what if he doesn't want to be married or have a long future with you" its terrifying, but the sooner you find out that info the sooner you can process it and be okay with it.

    Maybe he's thinking about long term with you.

    Maybe he's just in it for the sex.

    The only way to know for sure is to just talk with him about it.

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  • I think it's time to ask him his intentions. Are you in a D/s relationship?

  • the sex life you both have is great, but its how you treat him when not having sex is what will either attract him to you or not... dont worry about it and live your life like you want to and it will all workout in your favor.

  • Looks like he just using you for your fuckholes, you thinks that you are a wife material?

  • There is no way to know if his sex talk means more

  • Oh no. That's disrespectful

  • If he doesn't treat you like a princess outside of the bedroom he may only see you as a fucktoy.

  • its just sexually charged pet names as long as it stays with just the 2 if you abd you dont get offended.

  • It's just his way of expressing how much addicted to sex with you, don't read too much into it.

  • If it's only while having sex maybe it's just his fetish/kink you got it he can be into DEGRADEE and even while not having sex he can say it while messing with you for exemple i call my girlfriend my slut and she's cool with it sometimes she say yes i know sometimes she say and i enjoy it sometimes she made a pockerface it depends on her mood and it's just a way to have fun but in front of people i call her babe or by her name so i think it's not a big deal and it depends on many things.

  • Apparently you both really, really love sex. They are probably only his pet names for you and sense he doesn't call you them in public, accept them as only compliments to your sexy body.
    If they offend you, then tell him.

  • During ruff sex yeah dirty name calling is OK but any other times it should be a playful type of nickname she actually likes.

  • He’ll definitely marry you.

  • Something's not right in this.

  • Girl up and ask him

  • It's something you will need to ask him to know for sure. We can give you our opinions, but in cases like this they don't count for much.

  • @blondie1234567 It depends. Name calling can be exciting part of sex as long as it is mutually acceptable. It need not have any influence on long term commitment !,

  • refers to you like that in private but not to others openly? then there's a chance

  • You should know better..

  • Yeah thats not respectful. doesn't sound like he respects you and if he doesn't NOT GOOD

  • He doesn't respect you at all.

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