Is it bad fingering my self?

[QeenB]

[TheorionMage]

This usually is begun in One's formative years and IS NORMAL. As is discovering incidental 'grinding' upon household furnishings like vibrating washing machines... pre-teen kids covertly do it all the time, innocently and un-self-consciously finding it relieves their nascent stress ansi-ness~

Besides, how can YOU communicate to potential companions, 'what' and 'how' you like to BE physically stimulated, if YOU YOURSELF don't know?

Its DIFFERENT for females than for males... for females OF ANY AGE, stimulation activates hereditarily inherited subconscious muscular behaviors, that even strangers can provoke (Japanese Chikan).

There are a group of seven consecutive sequential vaginal muscles that WILL swell, clamping around a male penis and sequentially contract spasmodically... 'milking' a phallus or its dildo surrogate analog. (Because the female RECIEVES semen, this sequence can repeat virtually endlessly.) In particularly profound arousal I've even witnessed a woman's pectoral muscles to spasmodically convulse and cause her erect nipples to squirting-ly lactate little fountains of her breast's milk.
(NOT common, but can... and HAS... occurred. )

Its not the same for guys, (aside from a phenomena known as "the Coolidge Effect") ... once arousal becomes sufficient to trigger the pent-up tensioning of the testicle's musculature ('Blue Balls' cramping) spurting seminal fluid... there's a 'refractory period' time wherein a lesser reserve of sperm interacts with a decreased quantity more-watery semen toward readying for a potential opportunity to fertilize yet ANOTHER female's eggs. Males sometimes quip: "The FIRST is for the Thirst" lust.

As myself 'male'... I have in at least once occasion found a nuble companion so visually erotically 'inspirational'... that not only did my penis feel hard enough to drive nails, but that copious seminal fluid was weeping to serve as 'pre-lube'. Took MUCH self-control to not just leap upon her

(Tantric-disciplined training! The 'homework assignments were great! ... Yah EARN your 'ministry' certification in the American Tantric Church. )

Were I to have died mid-copulation, ... it would have been like a salmon's "GOOD life", and I'd died HAPPY!

[TonyV]

There is nothing wrong with masterbating.
Its definitely better than need to have "some guy".

If it hurts you may need to learn more about masterbating, I dont know how you would cause I'm a guy and also haven't touched a woman like that.
But I thought most girls did that more by just rubbing in a circle right above there vag, near the clit.
I don't know, I'm not trying to tell you, I'm sure you know better than me lol, but if heard that whenever I get to that point that "fingering" a woman isn't literally about putting my fingers in her🤷‍♂️

[RaveWorthy]

Like taking a mini-vacation to get some relief? Most believe it to be healthy and a good way to get to know you own body. Feeling guilty about it though... Is generally due to overly strict religious beliefs and those can difficult to deal with.

[Liya0078]

Of course it's fine. Just make sure to wash your hand before doing it. Get some lube if your body doesn't produce enough of its own. Get a mini vibrator if your hand gets tired. There is no shame in something so natural.

[laurieluvsit]

Not sure how it could be? ... it's been going on since the beginning of time :)

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Nope it's totally natural. I still do it even though I have a husband and a girlfriend and we are ALL extremely sexual... sometimes you just need me time lol

[QeenB]

Just like hurting myself more because I had cum with this act except I got hit by real big dick

[centerline]

no its not... its normal, natural and fun, so how could it be bad?
no matter if you are fingering yourself, or if someone else is fingering you, its all about the enjoyment of it and for no other reason...

[_the_moon_raider_]

Don't loose hope and try, and it's for enjoyment so don't go harsh. Just give it time and keep on doing it. One day you will able to do it. May be you can eject more from others😊

[Red_Arrow]

Not at all bad. Just better if you can get someone else to do it for you.

[babysteph]

not bad at all! It’s fun. but it’s more fun if a man does it for you. or at least watches 😇

[ohshee]

Yes same here when I get hard I need to cum other wise it Wil hurt all day I think if there was anything bad about it is you didn't get a hold of me first so we could do it together

[summiter]

Not at all... enjoy the great orgasms!

[QeenB]

Thanks baby boy

[jshm2]

Only if you don't wash and sanitise your hands straight after

[MikeTheBartender]

Why would that be bad?

[User626]

Nope it's hot.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Why would that be bad?

[QeenB]

Because I never cum

[sheikalana]

Not at all.

[bowenw]

Never. If you have trouble cumming with your fingers get some vibrators. Try a rabbit style, clit suction stimulator, and a good high powered one.

[Sophia001]

I think it's good for you than doing sex with unknown person because no risk of std

[QeenB]

But I Hardly cum and it hurt

[Sophia001]

Hurt?

[QeenB]

Yes when the cum failed to come

[Potateopp]

Maybe you just need to keep your fingers inside when you cum. I've heard that it can feel weird for some girls to come without anything inside the pussy.

[Show_them_the_curve]

No not at all i finger myself all of the time

[Andres77]

Many fingers or just rubbing your clit?

[Alexxess]

can you follow me back so we can chat?

[QeenB]

Doing both

[QeenB]

Done

[Andres77]

Do you use any toys?

[QeenB]

Yes but I prefer raw dick

[Red_Arrow]

Usually better if you have someone to do that for you.

[chriscdi]

no just clean your fingers before and after

[meeso13]

No Its not bad at all

[argyle]

Only at the dinner table or in public.

[Andres77]

Do you only use fingers?
Do you have any toys?