Why are guys praised for having multiple sexual partners wheras women are shamed for it?

Question

Is this a hypocrisy or there's a reason for this

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I think there are a lot of answers to this but they all pretty much boil down to our biology. Guys are programmed to have as much sex as possible. If a guy has a lot of sex, from a view of biology, they're doing a good job being a man.

But women are kinda programmed biologically to refuse sexual partners unless it's a guy who is really worth doing it with. Someone who will stick by them and offer good genes, influence protection etc. So when a woman has sex with a man and then doesn't stay with him, that's kinda a failure in how nature wants us to be I think.

I also think a piece to it is that there's a lot of stigmatism around this topic. It's generally assumed that the guy is a player who gets mostly sought after women. We all know at least one guy who will fuck anything with legs, most people don't praise that guy. Women it's generally assumed they're getting with deadbeats who have no social status.

Not saying I agree with this, but I do think it's a lot about where the shaming and double standard comes from. . . Maybe it's better to say I think all the reasons pretty much boil down to this.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

Reference Yule Brenner's song about bees flitting from flower to flower in Rogers & Hammerstein's broadway musical "The King and I"...

A recent meme I'd seen goes:
"The flower does NOT dream of the Bee, in its time, it's flower blossoms and the Pollinators come."

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ask yourself why? because you used to say that you don't date girls who has multiple sex partners yourself 😂😂😂 you just step on your own feet

Knighted2170 · Answer

It goes back centuries. It's also based in religion. Just read the religious texts where men were reviered and women are expected to fill a specific roll.

Berethor · Answer

Men and women are different, a man is like a key, while a woman is like a lock.

manicmage42 · Answer

Men and women are inherently different

Celtero · Answer

Why does someone have to ask this question on the internet every 30 seconds?

Avicenna · Answer

Fair or not, the reason is that a woman can get sex immediately any time she wants.

argyle · Answer

It's guys praising guys... wishful thinking... not girls praising guys.

Andres77 · Answer

Are they still being shamed for it? Women today are on fire and making no apologies.

Cassieb12 · Answer

Call her daddy. No shame

_no_one_ · Answer

Boys take fuckboy as a compliment but slut isn't taken that way

OfDeath · Answer

To use a somewhat simple analogy which doesn't adequately describe the complexity of the situation: men are the hunters and women are the hunted. The more kills a man gets the better his skills as a hunter, whereas for a woman, to be hunted down by any man but the best is failure.

zagor · Answer

A woman never has to worry that she's not the mother of the child she's pregnant with...

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

A woman just have to show up and she can get sex from any man, even the super ugly ones if she wants to. Men on the other hand have to put in effort to get sex unless he's going to pay a hooker for it.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Well which seems like an accomplishment and which seems like a negative? 1. Climbing mount everest 2. Eating a whole bag of potato chips What else do i need to say? Should be obvious.