Your options depend on your jurisdiction.
If you were in the Philippines, you'd be legally-allowed assault & battery against the erring-spouse and/or adulterer, according to "The Revised Penal Code" (Act 3815).
「ART. 247. Death or physical injuries inflicted under exceptional circumstances.—Any legally married person who, having surprised his spouse in the act of committing sexual intercourse with another person, shall kill any of them or both of them in the act or immediately thereafter, or shall inflict upon them any serious physical injury, shall suffer the penalty of destierro.
If he shall inflict upon them physical injuries of any other kind, he shall be exempt from punishment.
These rules shall be applicable, under the same circumstances, to parents with respect to their daughters under eighteen years of age, and their seducers, while the daughters are living with their parents.」
https://elibrary.judiciary.gov.ph/thebookshelf/showdocs/28/20426
In the U. S., laws vary by State. There are 2 laws that can be applicable: 'alienation of affection' and/or 'criminal conversation' (legal-speak for 'unlawful sex'). In North Carolina, a wronged husband won $8.8mil 'alienation of affection' lawsuit.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/07/31/8-8-million-alienation-of-affection-award-another-reason-not-to-have-an-affair-in-north-carolina/
The problem is that the 2 laws are being repealed in numerous States. What's your jurisdiction?
I'm looking into the legalities of killing her.
Um, legal assault in this situation is only in the Philippines (to the best of my knowledge). You seem to be in the U. S. If you can collect evidence of the incident while in a State that supports 'alienation of affection' and/or 'criminal conversation' charges, you can land the hammer of justice upon them.
My dick is the largest hammer of justice available.
Why would you go after the dude? Your wife should be your target.
Deal I'll fuck her up
Your friend is not a very good friend and your wife is not a very good wife. You should hurt no one, but you definitely need to figure out how to handle these relationships which are perilous right now. They need adjustment or cessation and that’s for you to determine. Sex would cement the inappropriate parts of your friend and wife’s relationship and is also inadvisable.
Deal
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Can't see why you have allowed this to go on. But since you have, if they will not stop, you can divorce the wife or accept a threesum.
kill off the marriage
get therapist to help get past this. something's very wrong.
they are better for each other... and when people are on drugs, they aren't going to listen to reason or be rational. It will take decades if ever they learn... respect, dignity, etc..
It could be worse... I met a fella whose brother mated with his wife. messed him up for a long long time. This was "just a friend", whom you can move on from.
I have to wonder what kind of a guy gets into these situations. They are irrelevant, what is going on with you that these kinds of people end up in your life... is what I wonder. But it does happen and more than one thinks. It's emotional damage within those persons, lack of values. There's a reason some cultures cover up the women... or hide them.
The bitch
Yeah
None of the above. Just file for divorce, but get proof too.
1 rule I live by is "Never fight over a woman who doesn't care enough to be faithful" it's pointless.
There's billions of women out there, just move on and cut ties with shitty people.
Why does your friend fuck your wife? Don't you say anything to that situation? Are you cuckold, why don't you make a claim to of your wife?
It's interesting how women ticked the "kill the bitch" option. Stupid women, she is your fellow being. Son, you also have no right to kill your wife. And who are you? divorce and get rid of it. What does it mean to kill?
Lmao
how funny
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