I lost my testis because of an accident caused by her, should I break up with her?

Almost a month ago my girlfriend was fondling with my balls and accidently pulled it so hard that she ruptured my right testicle. Doctors had to remove it. After all this pain and PTSD caused by her unintentional act should I break up with her. She has apologized to me so many times, cried too. What should I do?
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  • If she's already sorry for it and is willing to do whatever it takes to make things right with you, forgiving her may be the best option for the 2 of you.

    Expelling her when she's already so repentant could prolong the psychologically, mentally, emotionally, etc. scars in both of you. Meanwhile, forgiving her could help you both get over the situation and move-on in due time & together.

    Also, what other valid complaints do you have about her? Do they even merit her removal from your life? If not, allowing her to redeem herself and teaching both of you how to get over this accidental tragedy may help heal both of you.

    • And 'OUCH!' Sorry you had to go through this. No man should have to suffer this agonizing horror. I shudder at the thought, now that the severity of the condition really settles-in on me.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I mean if you can't forgive her, you can't forgive her :/ But you make it sound like she made a clear mistake.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You still have one testicle don't you? A break would be better. You may want to think that most girls may not be willing to date a guy with one testicle. You will sure have pain and depression from rejection alone. Also you could have stopped her

  • You are not in impotence because you have a one testicle

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  • Mr Allcock is that you🧐

  • Do you still love her?

    • Sort of. But I can't look at her, her face gives me a flash back of what I went through.

    • You should discuss it with her. I don't plan on ever fathering kids, so I would eventually get over it, but I may need some time. Maybe tell her you still love her but you need time to get over the trauma of vf what happened. If she loves you she m. j ay give you time and still becwithbtou, just not in person. In other words you become long distance in do far as you don't see each other, but are still dating.

  • Dude but who will want you with one testicle?

  • That's one hell of an accident. What was she fondling you with, a pair of pliers?

  • Is that so easy for a woman to rupture a man's balls?

  • fake news

  • Forgive her only if she agree to be your bitch for the rest of her life

  • This is not a question we should be answering for you only you can make that decision