Do you think it was wrong?

I had fantasies about my teacher when I was in high school. I only found him attractive and I discovered he finds me attractive too later on. He was about 36. We had sex for 2 weeks afterwards and then stopped as he moved schools. I still have him on Facebook. Of course nobody knew, but I really enjoyed it.

Do you think its wrong for a student to have sex with their teacher?
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  • What male teacher doesn't find a young female attractive in high schools, if that didn't give him wood then I dont know what would. 2 weeks of sex, damn your lucky.
    I had a crush on my hot female science teacher but back then I wasn't the only horny male to be attracted to her, she had amazing big boobs and an ass to die for. Geez I wish I couldve fucked her.

    • God bless you

    • Yes, I know what it's like to be in that situation.

    • Your welcome

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  • Nah not wrong at all

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  • Other people may have strong opinions about this but they're not making your choices for you so everyone else's opinion doesn't matter a whole lot here. If you enjoyed it I see nothing wrong with it.

  • If you're of legal age and both are willing, then you both should bear the consequences of your behaviour:

    1) he could get sacked if its against school policy.

    2) you could get pregnant and lose your degree.

    But of course, I assumed nothing the above happened and you are still good friends.

    Morally, are you or him religious? If yes, do any of you felt condemned? Do your conscience permits?

    Hence the answer is NOT from any of us. (Why are you so afraid of our judgement? We don't even pay for you food.)

    If you like it, then enjoy it! Hack care what G@G committee thinks. Go ask him out and have a steamy hot sex session again. Relive the "good old days". Ya, do. it, unless he's married of course.

    • Lol nice answer

    • Thanks. And you cheeky girl! LOL! No wonder older men like you.

    • I am cheeky

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  • Unprofessional for the Teach to Reach. Yes. xx

  • Depending on ages could have been illegal. But in any case, it was unethical and could have gotten him fired, which would have ruined his career.

  • if its consensual then kudos to you , lucky!

    • Thanks

  • It is disgusting from the teacher to cross a line Betray the trust that as a parent you feel your child is safe in their company as a tutor / student environment He should be struck off and prosecution should be filed

    • But I wasn't harmed. I definitely wouldn't want that

  • Were you in school when it happened?

    • We didn't do it in school

  • If you were underage at the time, then yes. That would make him a pedophile. For that, he should have gone to prison.

    If you started hooking up on tour 18th birthday, or later... then, i dont see a problem with it. Unless you were getting referential treatment, like getting a higher grade.

    As long as it was an "away from school" type of thing, then yeah. But you know how little it takes for a rumor to start. Someone sees you glancing at him in the hallway. Next thing you know, you're blowing him in a classroom.

    • But age of consent was quite lower in my country

  • I think it's wrong for a teacher to have sex with their student. It is an abuse of a position, in that teachers should always make decisions that are best for their students. What if you'd become pregnant? What if it had been found out? Wherein you date, whatever people your own age, you're all on equal footing. Wherein you have a partner a lot older than you, as a teenager, they should really be leaving you to figure it all out with other teens, to do otherwise is either intentionally, or otherwise, predatory. It sounds like he is an "OK" guy, but he's still not quite ok, as sleeping with students suggests he hasn't really thought things through, and he's not acted in your best interests.

  • If the person is under age yeah it's wrong, otherwise adults can do what they like

  • Depends how old you were and whether he pressured you (my guess would be yes he did at least a little but I could be wrong)

    Do you still get sexual with him on fb?

  • Going by what you told me before, no harm was done, you were not affected by it in a negative way. Many factors can, and do, come into play in situations like this (ex. the age difference between the teacher and student, whether or not it's a high school or college student, whether or not the student is actually in one of the classes of the teacher in question), making a simple answer to a question like this rather difficult. Anyway, in this instance no, it wasn't wrong. You had fun! :)

  • Ummm... so you are not 33? 🤔

    • I was in high school...

    • Oh. 😌

  • Only wrong if one was not at the age of consent. Otherwise if they're two consenting adults, I am no one to say its wrong.

  • It is ethically wrong because of all the drama it creates. In Washington State the age of consent is 16 but there are specific exceptions, one of them being Teachers, regardless of age.

    Mary K Laterno was the basis of most of these laws and rules in the modern age.

    • But there was no drama here

    • I'm not judging :)

    • You just said it was wrong...

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  • As long as the student is of legal age and the teacher is not taking advantage of the situation. It's best you wait until after graduation.

  • All sex outside of Marriage is wrong, unless you repent you will go to Hell.

    • Bless

  • No I don't think it's wrong. But it's frowned upon as students may be taken advantage of or given false grades.
    In this case I'm assuming he was moving schools anyway so I can't see the harm.

  • Where you 18?

    • No, but close

    • It was wrong

    • Okay

  • I think many people fantasize about a teacher or more than one at any stage past 5th grade. I had a few in college that came true with my French professor but not I when I was undergraduate

    • So you don't think it was wrong?

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