Guys, What do you think of some girls suppressing their sexual desires?

Question

So they could be treated like a lady with respect.

ChrisG30 · Accepted Answer

I saw you wrote on my question, so I'll answer yours. I had a 3 year relationship with a women who would not have sex with me. I didn't like it, but I put up with it. Despite no sex, I was attracted to the women but was frustrated I could not express that. The thing is, you shouldn't see sex as a chore that you need to do for the man. You should see it as the mans way of expressing his desire towards you. You may not realise this but, if you are in a sexless relationship, sooner or later you will be missing that feeling of being desired. You will feel empty eventually if you disallow it. Sex is natures way of showing appreciation to each other. Sex is not about "the man feeling great". You too can feel great receiving it under the right context.

Knighted2170 · Accepted Answer

Personally I think if she has to suppress her desires to be treated with respect she is with the wrong guy.

If he is the right one, she would be treated with respect and have her desires met or at least known. It is possible to do.

There is something missing if she has to suppress her desires.

Lliam · Answer

The idea is bizarre. Someone who does that needs therapy.
Wanting to be appreciated for more than your body is absolutely valid. It sucks that some guys only appreciate women's sexuality. Women are so much more. They are people.
But suppressing a part of yourself is unhealthy. It's also dishonest. What is your partner supposed to think? Is he supposed to read your mind to know the real you?

Well rounded, intelligent women don't play games.

PhilEvans · Answer

It actually makes me respect them less.

I don't see abstinence from sex as being a virtue that people should ascribe to. There's nothing wrong, immoral or unhealthy about having sex. So suppressing your sexual desire is not being true to yourself. It's no different to how gay men used to be in loveless marriages to women in order to hide their true self from their community.

GingerGuy · Answer

Sad that they feel (or have to) do that. Shouldn't be that way.

Don-__-Don · Answer

That's annoying, but understandable.

Bananaman177 · Answer

What an interesting idea.  Let me know how the preliminary trials go.

israelisevil · Answer

It shows how shallow you think of sex. Unless you have something traumatic like rape or seuxal assault you getting over no guy will see you as wife material if you virgin or supress sexual desires. If you get sore have to stop most men will understand but not if you do nothing sexual. girls won't like a guy who won't fuck too.

Givemore · Answer

It's stupid, be your self and you should be treated good anyway... I'll say it again, the vaginas main function is to have dick!!! Nothing to suppress it's life it's procreation it's instinctful and normal