What do you think about asexuality or aromantic?

I've always questioned if I was greysexual and was never sure. Now I'm pretty sure I'm greyromantic (don't think i'm aromantic nor asexual).

So i'm simply curious what are people's thoughts on this? Are you asexual/aromantic? Or do you not believe they exist?

Aromantic: Experiences very little or no romantic attraction to others
Asexual: Experiences very little or no sexual attraction to others

Both are a spectrum, if you're grey then you're anywhere in between. There's also demi-romantic and demi-sexual, which means you only experience attraction after forming a strong emotional bond/connection.
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  • I personally think it's a bit strange... Not that it does not exist but I think it's kind of against human nature. As babies we are very close to our mothers. I think soically it's important for us to experience and desire some form of closeness... The only thing I can think is they had something happen in their life to make them feel that way 🤔 but I honestly have not studied any of this. But my suggestion is that closeness should be something you should aim to allow yourself to enjoy. I feel like not feeling that way is a mental block that my opinion that everyone should try removing if possible

    • I mean not rlly? Asexuals and aromantics have spectrums, being asexual doesn't necessarily mean you don't have a libido, you can be sex positive or sex neutral or sex negative, it just means either way you won't feel sexual attraction to another person. With aromantics the same thing with the spectrum, you can be romance positive/neutral/negative. They won't mind getting into a romantic relationship (unless they're romance negative) they just don't feel romantic attraction. That doesn't mean they don't feel love or want closeness, they get both those things from platonic relationships. They can still love and feel close to people. (That's also why there's a spectrum, demis can feel sexual/romantic attraction after building a strong connection with someone) It's not much of a fear thing or trauma 😊

    • It's pretty interesting 🤔 I honestly don't know much about it 🤔 but it is fun to learn about, thank you for explaining to me 😊

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  • I believe that aromantic asexuals are the only true asexuals, because much of the "romantic stuff" is also sexual stuff, it's also why "romantic asexual" tend to have a hard time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Both valid orientations! I identity as arospec myself. As for the people who say it's weird, unnatural or over labelling, it's not, it's just who you're attracted to and how your attraction works. As for labels, it's important to have labels and representation so people feel seen and not so alone in their lives.

  • I believe since I identify as ace myself. And it doesn't mean someone who is like that doesn't have spunk.

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  • Asexuality seems weird, but understandable.

    Being aromantic is 100% understandable.

    • We just simply don't feel valentines day, marriage, anniversaries, candle light dinners or rom coms even if we try to. It would just feel like a regular celebration or a regular dinner.

    • for aromantics i mean

  • I definitely think it's a valid thing. I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with one for obvious reasons, but that's a completely different question.

  • My wife is asexual

    • 😳 n how do u handle this?

  • Are the public schools teaching you all of these new weird crazy sexual terms?
    And they're probably not teaching truthful History... or other IMPORTANT things that they USED to teach

    • Uhh I don't know where you dragged in the public school education system

    • Because all parents and students need to be aware of this immoral agenda that's being pushed into the minds of our impressionable kids in the govt-controlled public schools. It's just another case for parents to HOME-SCHOOL their kids.

  • Really boring person

  • I'm over labeling everything.

  • All valid!
    I’m demisexual myself.