Girlfriend won't have sex with me?

She found porn on my history. I told her I wouldn't watch it and I understand why she doesn't want me to. I mean I feel bad that I hurt her feelings but now she doesn't want to have sex with me or get undressed in front of me. She seems unhappy and like she doesn't trust me. I admit I lied and hid it but I still love her. Her body has changed since having our son. And I just want to watch porn. Who cares. What should I do here guys?
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  • Ok i have porn on my laptop which only I have the password too so my ex-wife couldnt access it, she has caught me watching live webcams and she gets self concious, that's probably how your girlfriend doesn't want you to have sex with her because she feels less attractive then what your currently looking at and she's not sexy enough. She probably doesn't feel as sexy now as she did before he put on weight, some women dont feel sex & desirable and she probably thinks the girls in the porn are sexier.

    Maybe use a private browser or just get rid of the porn all together and focus on making her feel sexy even tho her body has changed, re-assure her thats she's still as sexy now as the the day you first met, something positive to make her feel better.

    • Guys, do you think when you go into a new relationship that you should delete all the porn you have & only watch it when your relationship is getting boring or stale?

    • I dont see what's wrong about watching porn. Just sucks when they hate it so much

Most Helpful Guy

  • For starters tell her porn is educational videos & tell her you want to try some new things in the bedroom & you felt that was the best way to learn. On the other hand our bodies do change as we age & I could understand why she would get upset & I wonder what her search history will reveal but that is another story. Did she ever tell you that you couldn’t watch porn? In your search history look up how to break up with your girlfriend & the next time she checks out your search history you might get a little respect.

    • Tbh I did and its self confidence videos and how to be sexy for your boyfriend and stuff. That's why I kinda feel shitty bro. Like I didn't know it would make her feel that bad. I never would tell her that her body is different or anything. She literally just found videos

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh dang you fucked up man. I feel so bad for her. She had your son and you’re watching porn cause you “just want to” but you’re claiming that her body has changed.


    Bruh. She’s the mother of your son. Stop watching porn, get her some lingerie, flowers, set up the room and make her feel fkn loved. Wrud man?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Tell her without sex your gunna watch porn and you think of her before you cum. My girl dont care i watch porn

  • It's ok, she won't have sex with me either😔

  • U watched porn, how did the huilt not kill u.
    Guilt would enslave me, and I'd just wait for the day to end.
    But yo I have not watched porn in 4-5 years.
    But still I'd feel guilty as fuck, like I do after I nut.
    Anyhow stop watching porn and masturbating, it's not healthy, masturbation don't have the health benefits sex does.
    And no offense, but I think ur girlfriend is right to be mad, apologize to her, and try to make it right by correcting the behavior.

    • She should curb him in my opinion. She’s likely really pretty, too. Women divorce and dump guys like him.

  • Saying that about you having a kid makes it sound like you no longer find her body as attractive

    • I mean i love her but its hard not to look at other women now tbh.

    • So the insecurity she feels is somewhat justified

    • I don't know what to do I feel bad bc i really do love her but she hates when i watch porn. Think its kinda irrational tho. All guys do

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  • I think it’s awful you talk about the mother of you children that way. Why wouldn’t she feel self conscious getting undressed around you? You’ve degraded her body and her efforts carrying your child. Porn isn’t a big deal. The attitude towards your child’s mother is shallow and she deserves better.

    • You want to come to my next barbecue

  • Run like the wind mother trucker

    • You’re a loser.

    • Well thank you that's the nicest thing anybody has said to me today. You don't have to flirt like that though you can just ask. Don't make me blush. Too late you already did

    • Well care about how others treat each other...

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  • i think u should say sorry and should apologize to your wife/girlfriend

  • Wow... poor you

  • Let her cool off and if it continues then move on. It is your body and it is your choice. women have a lot of nerve pulling this shit on men after claiming that we try to control them. They're killing infants we are just jerking off.

    • I mean I DID give her my word and broke it. TBH i dont find her attractive after having our son and I think she senses that. She ain't one for abortions tho lol she's different I feel bad bc I do like porn better than her