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Is it bad that I choose not to have sex? Is there something wrong with me?

silvermoon84
It’s not that I can’t get any sexual partners, it’s that I simply don’t have an interest in having sex with men who I’m not in a relationship with. I was never a drinker, drug user or party girl, I never dressed provocatively or slept around, my only sexual encounter was a lapse in judgment I had years ago who left the next day (because all he wanted was to conquer a Virgin and I was so dumb I couldn’t see it) so I’m definitely not a supposed “cock carousel” rider (except for that one time), yet I get labeled and mocked as being a prude, uptight bitch, stuck up, a goody two shoes or I get reminded that I’m not getting any younger and I’m reminded about the biological clock (which doesn’t apply to me because I was told at 25 years old I medically can’t have children). I feel like I’m being shamed because I don’t have a strong desire to have sex, or perhaps it’s my imagination. Who knows. I know this is probably why I’m still single, but is there something wrong with me that I have to really like the guy both inside and out in order to even think about sex?

A friend of mine told me my dating life would get a drastic boost if I were more open to a sporadic dick appointment with a hot guy, but I think that’s because he’s under this impression that I desperately need to get laid lol. I’m not judging anyone looking for that arrangement, but I’m not sure if it’s a good idea for me to have sex if I don’t want to.
Is it bad that I choose not to have sex? Is there something wrong with me?
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