How do you believe INCELS came to be? Any former INCELS have insight?

[ShadezMcgee]

If you were an INCEL, what made you change?

[worldscolide]

I was never an incel. The only thing i have seen that they seem to have in common is that they feel like women owe them something. They are the "Good guy" Types. Not actually good guys, just call them selves that, and use it as an excuse for poor behavior. Its sad really. I bet most of these so called Incels come from Single mother homes, where they never had a positive masculine influence, so the mother molded him into what she felt he should be, which is a disaster waiting to happen.

[hellacray]

Incel was originally formed by a girl. But then guys pretty much took it over. And now parts of society see them as like a dangerous terrorist group.

[Anonymous]

I think that men do not understand how woman perceive them. Woman tend to be scared of men and do not want to be talked to by a stranger. I’ve had men talk to me on the street or on a hike trying to flirt with me but all I see is danger. It doesn’t matter if your attractive or charming it’s just scary.

[worldscolide]

Its sad you feel that way.. Feminist media has really warped you.. Especially when you look at statistics, men have more to fear in public than women do.

[ShadezMcgee]

This comment honestly makes me sad and furious. Not at you specifically even though I believe you are letting that belief control you, but the notion you claimed with women being afraid of men. I believe modern day feminism and the media has really warped the perception of men for countless women just like it has done for men. Men have a lot more to lose and suffer these days in the long run. At this point if you just look at a woman for a moment and she may claim harassment charges, even sexual assault if we just say hello. You are the ones that are afraid? Look at the flipside of what you stated here.

[Ricky1966]

Incel here. I had low self esteem, I didn't like myself and I drank a lot. I also wear ladies underware and was shaving my pubic hair during a time when men didn't do that. by the time I got over myself, I missed the bus

[Twalli]

I was on my way to becoming one. I stopped because I finally asked a girl out.

[moviedude714]

Didn't you say that your girlfriend was the one who asked you out or made the first move on you?

[Twalli]

@moviedude714 not exactly. I tried to kiss her on the forehead and she moved to make sure it was on the lips. Also I was the one that actually asked her out.

[moviedude714]

Why am I not surprised

[Twalli]

@moviedude714 what do you mean?

[moviedude714]

I was being sarcastic and speaking of my resentment of how guys have always been expected to do the asking out

[Twalli]

@moviedude714 technically she asked me on a date first. It just didn't turn out to really be one.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Just like how feminists came to be

[Anonymous]

This guy believes it's the result of failed fathers:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/UQGcqXIf5Ng

[Anonymous]

Incels are incels because women don't want to have sex with them.