I don't know anyone who judges partners based off them being a virgin or not and would never ask a question like that... I merely just want to know if women find it attractive or not. That's all. Sounds like you made a good case for them on being attractive! Nice job!
bc guys are whilling to fk any girl if horny, and girls are allways selective, thats why girls can get laid easier, not only that, but if u open ur legs to a guy that paid u a couple of drinks on a bar that u just met, why would i want to spend money on u? to get something other guy got for free?
Great answer. :-DI agree with you - every double standard, when it comes to virginity or sexuality in general, shouldn't exist.
Most of the women think virgin men are losers.
@punyman Well those people are ignorant; and if anyone disagrees, they can downvote me! I really don't care, lol. I judge a guy by his personality and how he treats me; not how many times he's been laid. Hell, I'll be honest with you and any other guy reading this reply: I'm actually turned off if a guy sleeps around with too many women!!! That's more of a red flag to me
@Cynicaldreamer color me petty would be like sleeping with a nun or something to me
@WowwGirl Fair enough, I respect that. Just keep in mind we were all virgins at one point. If a guy is my type, yet "inexperienced," I have no issues showing him the ropes- that's the only way they'll get better!
I know dude and I wouldn't have slept with me either as a virgin to much responsibility 🙂
Oh I would care about taking someone's virginity and I think most decent guys would as well for the first time is always the most memorable and sticks with you for life.
And in come the bitches to downvote me. Of course.
@Unit1 their either butthurt, jealous, miserable or all of the above😂 I totally agree with you though😇❤
@Paolaa988 You are a true lady 😁😁😁 thank you so much :)
I've dated two virgin men and they were AMAZING IN BED. I just get the feeling that many girls think "less experienced = bad sex" which is quite biased
@navyrobin Right? I suppose they were virgins for a reason 😂😁 In the good sense that is.
@navyrobin there was a girl on this website that said one of her friends was dating a fuckboy ( all commun friends ) and she said he only lasted 3 minutes in beddunno if true or bs tbh, but if its true, yikes
here it is my fellow anti PC comrade
Thanks for the most helpful opinion man :D
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to be fair... Society expects men to not be virgin and they get ridiculed for it by peers. It's more permissible for women to be virgin then men. You can see it in the questions/polls here even. So i get why he lied. He was likely deeply embarrassed and think you would be turned off if he told you he wasn't
@MrNameless Well, there you go, now we know why they lie, and how much worse it is WHEN they lie. It's not fair. I think I had given him lots of opportunity to tell me as we didn't have sex for about two months into our relationship. He also knew me as a person that I wasn't going to ridicule him. Whatever game he wanted to play with his guy-friends is one thing, but me? No. That was unfair.
If both people are virgins, they can be each other's tour guides. :). It's an adventure of discovery!
For me it's burdensome not to mention taking someones virginity isn't as cool as the movies say it is.
I'd feel stupid with someone experienced. I didn't feel that way with my friend. We stumbled along together. The task got completed. We were both surprized how awful a first experience was. I wanted to know what the big deal was all about. Exspecially for a woman. Can't believe women waited for their wedding nights to be uptight like that. My dad said my mother didn't know "anything." She bragged about being a virgin. HE did NOT. Nor did he ever say how important it was to him, either.
If you're getting married, you don't have to know anything! Marriage is for LIFE. There is PLENTY of time to learn!
@Jamie05rhs There is no guarantee that marriage is for life. Have you been hiding under a rock? 50 percent of first marriages end in divorce in three to five years. My general feeling is the more you know, in ANY situation, the better off you are. People should bring something to the table!
Well, your marriage probably won't work. Because you're coming at it all wrong from the very beginning. If you break up with someone because they weren't good enough at sex, then that just proves that you didn't love them in the first place.
Also, statistics don't dictate the outcome of YOUR marriage. YOU and only YOU determine the success of your own marriage.
@Jamie05rhs This is not true at ALL Jamie. You are not the only person in your marriage. 50 percent of your marriage is another person who you may know well and who loves you and whom you love. However, they are NOT YOU. You cannot predict why THEY might want to leave the marriage. And you have absolutely NO CONTROL over what they will do.
@Jamie05rhs I'm not talking about sex at all. Sex is only part of a marriage. Compatibility, a shared vision and shared values are far more important. If you have all of that, sex is a walk in the park. If you don't, no amount of sex with a person you have nothing in common with will save a relationship.
And sometimes you discover something wrong with their past: some trauma that they choose to ignore and that bleeds into YOUR relationship. Or their personality is grating on a full time basis. Over time situations change and often people are not flexible enough to roll with such changes and marriages dissolve. Has little to do with sex, though it sometimes comes into play.
Okay, so you determine 50%. My point is that it's not out of your hands entirely. It's not just entirely up to chance.
"Or their personality is grating on a full time basis.". This is why you should get to know someone VERY well before agreeing to marry them.
@Jamie05rhs Sometimes people hide themselves quite deftly, even after months or years of being in a relationship. When they finally let their hair down, there's kids, a mortgage, a house, and bills. Or, people don't see that they can move on and be successful by themselves.
I guess that's why we need to watch out for red flags!
This makes me feel better 🤗
At least there's still people who don't hate virgins
@screaming_doorknob society and people suck these days if they really care all that much. My motto is living in the moment and staying true to myself and don't let peer pressure get the best of me and don't let it get the best of you either😇 wow 3 downvotes lmao some people are butthurt or jealous
Ignore those downvoters
It baffles me that you're getting this many downvotes. This is basic logic
@screaming_doorknob I love a virgin guy only because I'm a virgin nd I don't want a non-virgin
@Smilingqueen2 No not necessarily just that. I can share my first experience with someone and its also their first experience and your first experience is memorable and special at least to me and it's my life and desire if that's what i choose and want in my heart:) im not saying all non virgin guys are bad but your first experience is something that can't be taken back in life. It's like a scar in your heart, never fades but still leaves a mark there.
@navyrobin im not saying i dislike non virgin guys and id be open to dating one maybe if his body count was low but it's nothing like your first time with someone else who is in your shoes and im all about passion and emotion so i wanna share my first time exploring with someone who is in my position and im sorry if that baffles or bothers some people but we have to make ourselves happy at the end of the day.
What's an "attractive" reasoning?
I found that to get a girl to like you, you have to turn the frame around and make them think they have to win you. I never try to impress a girl. I make girls impress me.
@ChrisG30 Hey, you are a confident guy. Help some of these brothers out!
How did he get weird?
Started getting distant and being awkward in public instead of just being honest about how he felt. It wasn't mature in the least.
Oh- HE got distant? Hmm. That's strange.
How many accounts do you have? LOL
Don't worry we will find out LOL
@coachtanthony Honestly, you don't sound like a 49 years old to me at all with such immaturity.
I get it you are pissed I would be too if I got called out on my shit and then stripped of my badge.
Making ANON accounts though isn't the way to go. You will get caught.
this are ur standards, but do u meet them? this is rethoric
@AFellowWeeb Yes sir, I do. I wouldn’t set standards that I can’t even do. I’m not a hypocrite. Therefore, guys who don’t meet them will just have to deal with the rejection.
Sure go ahead.
I agree. I wouldn't want to be someones first either.
I'd probably be a let down.Nawwww 😂
Lol 😂 🤣
You are 19 LOL how good could anyone be at your age lol
You think 19 is young for sex?
for sex? No but someone being GOOD at is yeah that ain't happening for most.
Depends when you start
Not saying it's impossible but for the most part uh no.
The amount of partners and experiences. Unless of course someone is just sleeping around 24/7 then okay you got me.
I am good at sex but I'm 20.😊
@coachTanthony The younger generation starts at like 11 or 12 these days. By 19 I'm sure they have plenty of experience.
@Jamie05rhs I disagree. but again thanks for the comments.
@suleuman no your not
come on insta, i will show u...😂
@suleuman They don't allow sex videos on Instagram.
@suleuman if I had a dollar for every 20 year old who told me that🤨😂🤷
I respect the convince though
@coachtanthony Number one who says that she's gonna have sex with someone her age? Number two who says a 19 year old can't be experienced?
@TiaraGlitzNeon I see 19 year olds and virgins about having the same experience not much. Again, unless you get around then okay you are right lol
@coachtanthony A lot of people start having sex in high school, around 16 years old, so that's three years of experience for a 19 year old, more than a virgin still.
@TiaraGlitzNeon If you consider that being good okay cool!
@TiaraGlitzNeon I think you
I didn't think that @TiaraGlitzNeon sounded like a hoe.
@faithie_Artist Oh okay.
@TiaraGlitzNeon I agree with you. It's laughable to think someone having sex for 4 years (me) has the same experience as a virgin. I think these people just didn't have sex as a teen.
I agree with @slizzle01.
@faithie_Artist bye bye
most of us are forced to speed run our virginities
Many women here are saying YES so who knows lol
Action > anonymous comments online
Nobody is saying any of that. LOL WTF
I know people like that personally
Okay what does that have to do with the quesiton?
The answer’s there re read it
OMG thanks for the comments.
Yeah I don't really want a girl who's had 10 dicks inside her before me, it's literally disgusting especially when I've been holding my virginity for the right girl all my life, it's a preference of mine and many other men, so you can't logically shame that lol
@Syrian_survivor you be with whoever you want it’s your life and it’s who you are going to be with her forever no one cares to judge others for their choices. :)
@Sakura-san then don't judge others for their preference :) :)
@Syrian_survivor who said i did? It’s very clear that you and the asker didn’t get what i am saying in my comment
@Sakura-san"If people will only date someone based on being virgin or not then they shouldn’t date in the first place"You're clearly saying that ALL people with such a preference have something wrong in them and shouldn't date, that's judging AND generalizing, no denying thatAnd yeah me and the asker can't understand it in any other way because there isn't any other way lolAnd what do you exactly mean by "We've all been there at some point"?
@Syrian_survivor if you don’t understand something ask for explanation instead of jumping to conclusions on your own.What I was saying above is that people shouldn’t view virgin people as stupid or any less attractive than none virgins. Some people think that if you are virgin it means you are stupid and they might not even date you because you have no sexual experience and they ain’t got time to teach you anything from the start, but some people might do that as well.And to explain to you the last part Mr. I was saying we’ve all been there at some point means ( We all were virgins and we had to lose it one way or another at some stage in our lives until we become sexually experienced) CLEARLY referring to the people that say that they will not date any virgin girl or guy because of their lack of sexual experience. Which also means that they get annoyed by dating virgin forgetting that they were virgins themselves in the past. Is it clear now?
Let me make it more simple for you and the asker. My whole opinion was about when you fall in love with someone it must be based on their personality and other things and last thing you should care about is their virginity is being an issue.
@Sakura-san"@Syrian_survivor if you don’t understand something ask for explanation instead of jumping to conclusions on your own. What I was saying above is that people shouldn’t view virgin people as stupid or any less attractive than none virgins. Some people think that if you are virgin it means you are stupid and they might not even date you because you have no sexual experience and they ain’t got time to teach you anything from the start"Well that makes much more sense now hahaI agree with that, but your statement went both ways, meaning you said virgins shouldn't have a preference for other virgins, which is what got me confusedI think non-virgins who only want a virgin are hypocrites, and non-virgins who never wanna date virgins are shallow and shouldn't judge someone because of their virginity only, that's not dating, that's looking for a hookup and they shouldn't hide that and hurt someone in the processAnd I wasn't there at one point! I'm a virgin and saving myself for the right girl, i did fall in love with a non-virgin before and tried my best to ignore her past, but whenever I remembered that she had guys before me and I'd just be another guy she'll feel, I would feel really messed up and she'd need to reassure me for days, she was nice enough to do that everytimeThough we eventually broke up for different reasons but I'm actually glad we did, mainly because I don't wanna give my virginity to a non-virgin ya know? It isn't fair and even if I did give it to her, regret will eventually break us up and I'd have wasted my V card for nothing, my ego is too big for me to be "just another dick"And hey, thanks for being a reasonable person and arguing like a grown-up, sorry if I sounded aggressive or illogical earlier, I generally have bad experiences with arguing with girls on G@G and I expected you to be the same haha
@Syrian_survivor so, because you keep arguing with people you just assumed that all of us are the same? Anyways don’t worry about it and yeah majority of people here are unhappy with their lives and come here to take their anger out on anyone they come across! Was nice talking to you for a bit tho, have a nice day :)
@Sakura-san yeah that's my bad, thanks for pointing it out hahaHave a nice day/night yourself too :3
The ones that try and cry you into sleeping with them yup... agree
I mean, a ton of guys are virgins just cuz they’re young. Not just ugly guys you. I’m a virgin, and I’m a pretty handsome lad I’d like to think. I just don’t get out much cuz of COVID, but my dating game will start any day now
@SpiritBear ye thats why im saying it depends what kinda virgin he is,#there's 2 kings... the 1s that aren't willingly virgins and trying to lose it but can't cos girls find them uglyor thers handsome virgins that are virgins cos they hardly go out or talk to girls... making there chances of getting laid very slim.im option 2... even tho im still 23... i never go out lol
i still think the higher percentage of uy vrigins are jus ugly tho or nerdy
Well, a lot of the time in incels cases they’re virgins mostly because they’re unbelievably sexist pricks. Not so much their looks
worst part about that though, is if you're the second, you don't know that you are until after you've already lost it and had enough experience to know better
That's adorable. I'm glad there still are girls like you nowadays. I don't get it why the hate and disgust towards virgins. Being a virgin is something pure and innocent.
@screaming_doorknob As to why there's disgust there could be many reasons why. 1. Society pressures sexual experience. 2. Some people prefer or want an experienced partner. 3. Some people might think you're possibly asexual, a prude, or just not want sex at all. And there could be many more to list.
I lasted maybe 2 minutes when I lost my virginity. You have virgins all wrong lol. The excitement their feeling leads to busting a nut, not stamina.
When I say stamina, I mean they want it again n again and again. All the time
A man can cum fast but if he can get it back up right away.. it isn't an issue.. there are things he can do in between. Lol
What do you mean?
@Jamie05rhs him eating me out/receiving bjs, trying out nudity, taking showers together, trying bdsm, teasing each other, using food, sex games, dry humping, sexting, wearing lingerie for him. I actually want to wait until marriage for PIV sex and have never been fingered. I still have sexual urges though when I have a boyfriend.
@veecutie. I'm confused. (No offense.). Why do you want to wait until marriage to have vaginal sex if you're going to be doing all those other things?
@Jamie05rhs I do want to explore my sexuality before marriage, I do want to know if I’m sexually compatible with my potential husband. It’s just that I want to save PIV until marriage to have the experience of doing something with my husband that I have never done with any of the other men I have been in love with. I have only done this stuff with the 2 men I have been in love with. Still, I have never been fingered and would never do anal.
Okay. Well, at least you do have some standards. I have to respect that.But I don't think the "sexual compatibility" argument really holds water in this case. Because you're not going all the way. I personally don't think you need to actually DO anything to ascertain compatibility. You can find that out just by talking about it. But if you believed that you DID have to test drive, then you would kind of have to do it all. Jmo
@Jamie05rhs I am interested in this, how would you be able to know if you’re compatible only by talking about it? I’d like to try this
Mainly, you just discuss various things with your partner and tell them what you're interested in and what you'd like to do. And then you discuss it, and go over various scenarios, and just make sure you understand each other. That way you find areas of common agreement and compatibility. And you learn from each other.But I can give you some examples if you'd like. Feel free to ask.
That is the problem in our society it only give men a free pass to have sex but when a women does it she loses all respect. She can't go back and change it.
@Tonita91996 Yeah it's kinda messed up.
It gets on my nerves doesn't make any sense I got in an argument with one guy on here because he said that he would never see a girl as girlfriend/wife material if he hooked up with her on the first date. i ask him what does it have to say about him. Men dont have any respect for themselves either if they allow a woman to sleep with him too soon as well. Dont listen to these guys on here all they want to do is make you feel like a slut when really men are the biggest whores there is.
@RandomLoser well it is true can't get mad over facts.
@Tonita91996 you can't apply the same logic to males and females because they evolved differently. Males evolved to desire sex and seek it, females evolved to view it as disgusting and use it to trade for resources and commitment. So obviously males will be shamed for being virgins since that means they can't get sex, and females will be shamed for being sluts since that means they hand out sex too cheaply.
@RandomLoser well what I said was true men don't respect women who they sleep with but that sounds hypocritical. Usually men are the bigger whites than women. Women 's they are too emotional and ignore red flags because they are trying to mak e the guy out to be something that he is not. You people as a society keeps on making it seem ok that men can sleep around but women can't that doesn't make any sense. Men can lose their value too it just is not just women. Men will cheat on a woman any way if she was willing to wait for sex because men are greedy and selfish.
@Tonita91996 I'm not sure I follow. You're saying men cheat cause women make them wait for sex?
@RandomLoser I'm saying men will say that they cheat because women be sleeping with them too soon but they be telling the Women lied that if she doesn't sleep with him he will cheat but either if she does it does not he will cheat on her anyway. Men only care about their own sexual desires. Only a man can change for himself. Nobody can change him.
Or does not*
Tonita is right.
Nobody loses "value" for having sex lmfao 🤦🏻♂️
@vald9inches that is what some men be telling me I ask them what about themselves?
@vald9inches Actually, they can. Since value is in the eye of the beholder and is subjective. Social value, that is. Obviously, your intrinsic value will never be reduced.
@Jamie05rhs sure if you are for example dumb or shallow enough to base a human beings value in a relationship for how many hand shakes or hugs they have given in their lifetime lmfao
Having a dick inside you is a bit more than a handshake or a hug.
@Tonita91996 yea I am with you there I don't get the hypocrisy or the the contradicting beliefs that some guys somehow hold at the same time lol
@Jamie05rhs that's your opinion lol also going by your logic it would hold true for having a pussy around you just saying 🤷
@Jamiw05rhs but do tell me how they are different to see if the logic holds true
Looks like bitches hate me because they ain't me.
@iamlisasmith I dont know I be fine if I never get a man because I dont have no idea how to keep a man. It sounds like a headache it shouldn't be that hard. Anyone that wants to give you are hard time about what you do. Is not the right one for you. I just have to let it go there is need for me to hate all men. Because what some of the other men did to me.
@iamlisasmith I am guessing you offended some girls that love virgin guys lol
@vald9inches Yes, it would very much hold true for having a pussy around you. There is no difference.
@Tonita91996 you will be fine sweetheart don't pay those guys any attention a lot of guys on gag seem to be muslim wannabes and want to cover up girls from head to toe lmfao
@Tonita91996 You sound kinda like my lady tbh: I'm a virgin and really like her.By the time she was my age she had slept around and had a kid already and wonders what the fuck I want with her.I wonder what the fuck she thinks is attractive about me since most women my age that I've dated tend to run the opposite direction beginning when I was 20 on learning I've never had sex. Almost as if, by age 20 you're supposed to be some sort of complete sex god by virtue of being male or something, hence why I date older now. As to the idea of my woman having had A LOT more partners than me? I can't say it doesn't bother me 'cause in all honesty it does to some degree. In the same vein... I love her and tbh the idea of my partner knowing how to handle things is actually kinda attractive.The irony here is I'm WAY more confident and forward between the two of us despite being experienced and I'm a member of the kink scene and have a WAY fucking dirtier mind despite supposedly being the more "innocent".My point? Who gives a fuck? Men, women. We all face sexual judgement and there's bullshit on all sides.Do you like each other? Good, then go fuck.
@Tonita91996 "Men just want to make you feel like a slut when really they're the biggest whores there is".Alright, you see how you can be labelled a misandrist who hates men, no?I'm genuinely sorry for whatever the fuck happened to you and whatever men have done to you but uh... you're generalizing with some real backwards thinking there. And don't forget, odds are that while yes, you're probably entirely correct about these men, there was probably a woman who broke their heart somewhere early on and made them the men they are today for better or worse. Just like there are some men who are lucky enough to meet women who are actually decent and don't hurt them.I got tired of being a virgin when I was 22 because of all the shit that gets thrown at you when you're one as a man so I used a site to try and meet an older woman to take it. She ended up becoming my mistress but we don't have sex because she realized that I wasn't in the right mindset and I shouldn't just throw everything away on a one-night-stand and she's now easily my closest friend and mentor and has taught me essentially how to talk to women. Women like her are needed more honestly and then maybe people wouldn't run around re-enacting their past sexual and romantic traumas on each other all the time.
Well the mere thought of him having not of slept around is very attractive to some women. Attraction is not always physical.
Ok. I can agree with that.
What makes it fun?
Why the hell are people downvoting you? I agree 100%
@navyrobin lmao they're just haters
bc she has a grampa fetishe!!!
@AFellowWeeb Actually no I don't and what does that have to do with being a virgin? Grandpa's are more likely to NOT be one due to their age. Dumb ass
I gotta agree a tiny bit, when I know they've been with someone else I wonder the if they compare, and I get a little insecure
Not sure why I'm being downvoted, there's nothing wrong with what I said.
I downvoted you
I thought you were my sun, I guess I thought wrong. 😞
I'm the moon
How nice of you to shine tonight.
I'm being downvoted
@Nayyr I'll beat up those people who downvoted you.
@beebella I will have sex with the people who downvoted you
@Nayyr That'll show them.
@beebella yeah, I downvoted you
@Nayyr I hope you enjoy having sex with yourself.
@beebella I will enjoy having sex with myself
@Nayyr I'm glad to hear that.
@beebella I'm glad that you're glad that I'm gonna enjoy having sex with myself
Thank you for being glad.
@Joker_ I downvoted your down vote
@WowwGirl Thank you
@Joker_ thanking you
@WowwGirl welcoming you
@Joker_ charming as always
At 32, you know absolutely nothing about women
@navyrobin their constant obsessing with rape, sexual harassment, and sexual objectification like it's the most horrible thing is proof that they have an instinctive hatred and disgust of male sexuality.
Well, your username fits perfectly.
@SkullsandBeauty did I hurt your feelings?
@RandomLoser Is a Random Loser.
What does this have to do with my comment?