Do women find MEN who are virgins attractive?

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WhoeverLady · Accepted Answer

Initially I was just gonna say I prefer v-cards to punched cards but
Actually looking back at people I dated, it never really mattered; when the guy had a topnotch personality, I was more focused on keeping him happy and other cheesy stuff (as in I didn't think about what he had or hadn't done after a while, I just wanted a good future with him and that was enough☆)
If I ended up being their first, yay hehe
If i ended up being on a body count, crossing fingers to be the last
Some of us dont really err value things like whether or not they've been touched already, cause theyre who we want to make ours til the end, period. I'm not gonna drop my dadjoke-master gamer crush guy because he stuck a peen in someone else before we were together

And the only time bodycount matters, whether 0 or 1000 or wtf ever in between... is when it's used as a complaint for incels or niceguys like they deserve to get wet dick no matter who it's from because they've been alive for however long or because theyre sick of their right hand
Those aren't good reasons for me personally to fornicate for

And rip to people saying the majority lady comments are bs because they're not condemning?
It's an anonymous site for posting how we want, why would we paragraph fake opinions for y'alls sake bro, I'm just here to say what I want like the rest

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy,  NOT  his sexual experience, or lack of in this instance.  First off, who judges a potential partner based on if they're a virgin or not? That's petty!!! If anything that's a good thing!  He doesn't sleep around, so I don't have to worry about contracting an STD. Or maybe he's waiting on the right woman to lose it to: good for him!  And if he's inexperienced, well that means we would have to practice... a lot. Yeah, I see no problem there at all! Lol It irks me the double standards associated with sex: if a guy is a virgin for too long, it's a turnoff. Whereas if a woman loses hers too early, or sleeps around too much, she's "easy."  See the problem here?

AD240pCharlie · Accepted Answer

Most of them won't care, just like most of us won't care.
I lost my virginity to my first girlfriend who wasn't a virgin. She couldn't have cared less.
My second girlfriend was a virgin when I met her. I also could not have cared less.
If you're worried about not being able to please her because you don't have "the experience" on how to pleasure women, don't worry. You won't have any more knowledge on how to best fuck her than any non-virgin guy she meets. They might have the understanding on how to pleasure OTHER women but not her in particular.
Just show that you're willing to learn and listen to her nd you'll be fine.

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

I get the feeling, that they don't care about it.
I also get the feeling, that mostly sluts want an experienced fuckboy and avoid virgins like the Coronavirus of December 2019.

If a woman loves him, she won't care. She will want him. Unfortunately that isn't something, that happens often.

Ozanne · Answer

They're no more attractive than men who aren't. However, I think lying is a very unattractive trait, and I once took a guy's virginity without knowing it. When I got together with him, I was 31 and he was 21, and unbeknownst to me, he was a virgin. Yet he played the cool-guy thing and insisted he was not a virgin. Well, as you can imagine, it was an absolute disaster in bed, as I was trying certain things and asking him to do certain things, completely expecting him to know what to do. He didn't.

My advice to anyone who is a virgin is to be honest with your partner. In my case, had I known, I would have gone into the experience much differently, showing him things and doing things for him instead of expectantly wanting something and asking him after, "Is something wrong with me?"

Finding out he was a virgin after was fine, but I thought it was very childish to lie about it and go into sex not knowing how to do one single thing. I remember at one point, he was sweating he was so scared. I actually thought he was sick. Had I known it was nerves, I would have not asked him if he was sick. Things like that. All avoidable. I say be honest, and be comfortable about who you are and the choices you've made. :)

RaveWorthy · Answer

Honestly, I'm unwilling to train another virgin boy again. They cum with barely a touch and off they go back to playing some video game. Nope, I will never put myself through that frustration again. No more leaving in the middle of the night all worked up to find a man that can make feel that there is nothing wrong with me... it was just that stupid little boy making me doubt myself.

girlnow1 · Answer

I have no desire for it lol. You could be a virgin but I’m going to look at your character and how you carry yourself to figure out if I find you attractive.
But of the basis or virgin or not virgin alone, can’t say that determines anything.

If you’re over 25 and are a virgin though, yes that makes you very interesting and your reasoning behind it could be very attractive.. or at the very least you become intriguing

spuitkaas · Answer

I just don't judge people on their sexual past or lack off? It's none of my business. If he is a virgin or slept with 1000 women, I wouldn't care.
I slept with a few virgins before and some were really good. Some maybe not as good, but I didn't notice a significant difference. Just give a few instructions and it's all good.

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

I prefer him to have a mindset of moral values, so no partners or one or two (given that he was serious about his partners) then I’m fine. 3 or more partners or he sees it too casually... get away from me.

veecutie · Answer

I do as long as he is willing to explore his sexuality in other eays.

purplepoppy · Answer

There are 2 types of male virgins, those who don't mention it and those whinge and moan about it. Virginity isn't a big deal until guys make it and that's a turn off.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't care if they are. I'm a virgin and if my partner is one too then it's ok with me. It just means we get to experience, learn, and experiment together. Plus it won't be too awkward. 💖

Paolaa988 · Answer

As im a virgin myself, i wouldn't mind at all being with another virgin guy and hopefully i do find that. Id rather him be a virgin than had his dick in a bunch of girls. We can learn things together and that sounds amazing. Fuck experience.

hahahmm · Answer

"I'm a virgin but I'm paying child support for 5 kids"

el_Te_de_la_Rosa · Answer

I don't mind virgins as long as he takes good care of himself. Not that he has to be a model. But if he eats right, works out regularly and a healthy lifestyle, he's attractive enough. Virgins are way more attractive than ones who don't have self-control, and sleep around with anyone available anyways.

InventorofWarp · Answer

I gotta say, as a 23-year-old virgin who will most likely be 24 and probably 25 by the time he loses it, this is actually kinda nice and wholesome to read and a bit of a confidence booster.
Granted I don't think a lot of the female responses are honest since I've been dumped for being a virgin after 20.
But nonetheless, nice in theory.

90sVibe · Answer

I don't speak for all women, but for me, their virginity holds no factor in my attraction for them. I think it's sweet and a bit cute in all honesty because I'm one too, but I don't have a preference for either or. People get such a weird or bad stigma about being a virgin and I think men suffer more so as they get older. I feel like this is a double standard which needs to stop because it's not a bad thing. Now I think it's important for future partners to know why one has stayed celibate when they do finally enter intp a committed relationship, otherwise I don't think it's anyone's concern.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Honestly, im probably gonna sound strange for saying this but yes.

I really like virgin guys most tend be a lot more shy and sensitive and there's something i find really attractive and cute about that.

Id always fancy the boys who sat alone at lunch time reading comic books and didn't talk too anyone and dressed like his mum dressed him over the boy who was cocky, got all the girls and was really extroverted and popular. Them type of men really stand out to me more than the lady killer type because i know theirs more to them than just fucking girls.

My boyfriend was a 26 year old virgin when we first started dating and we bouth lost are virginity to each other. I was so relieved when he told me he was a virgin and so was he when i told him i was virgin too. I was glad i didn't have to worry about the pressure I'd have to put up with if he'd had slept with other girls before and i wouldn't just be another girl to fuck and then dump.

It felt really special and i think it bought us closer together knowing we were together in that moment and were and still are madly in love.

I don't care about how good he is in the sheets as long as he makes a effort. I care more about him loving me and staying loyal. One day we will get too old for sex and id rather be with the man who made me laugh and smile my whole life then the guy who was just good in bed when im old and grey.

AnnNoid · Answer

Probably, the majority of the time the reason a guy is a virgin is cos he’s repulsive and unnatractive to girls. (Usually a dork or jus socially awkward)
Or else he wouldn’t be a virgin right? If he was hot he would have already lost it, so it makes sense that only ugly and nerdy guys are virgins

Unless he’s the type that’s a hot and attractive guy, but jus never goes out or never got the opportunity to fuck a girl,,,, or jus never tried to talk to a girl and shy and awkward

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Haha! Finally a thread where women turn into men.

Women are not being honest. A guy has to have the confidence to make the first move. We have to impress and we have to "win" them. Yet, they are claiming it doesn't make a difference if they are a virgin.

That isn't being rational or logical.

Jjpayne · Answer

Well, I currently am... and I hope that it's seen as a good thing

Bluemax · Answer

To a certain age, I would say most women have little to no problem with it. However... Beyond a certain age (we'll say late twenties or so), it starts to become problematic with women.

postempestas · Answer

Nah, I mean if he's hot I may give him a try but I am attracted by non virgins first, is about experience.

SarahP080102 · Answer

Nope

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