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Why do some men never grow up?

I see men in their 30s and 40s having mindsets of teenagers. Like they still fantasize about their teachers and think it's OK for underage boys to have sex with teachers because they are horny while having no real justifications.

The same men always go on about sex and ask me for pictures and make sexual comments all the time like a horny teenage boy. I am so sick of it. They are completely guided by hormones showing no logic.

It's like they are stuck being 15 for their whole life. I think it's so sad.
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  • I think the desire for sex and maturity of thoughts are two different and separate parts of men.

    Obviously, when puberty starts, aka physical maturity, guys start to think about sex. And I think this is natural because its what kept mankind alive.

    But emotional and mental maturity, regrettably, comes later. And for guys, seem to be much later.

    TBH, what does a 18yo "mature" and "independent" guy have (except a high sex drive)?

    Hence i think the process of "training" (as the Chinese puts it), and "discipline" (the Indians) help mold the personality, thus maturing him mentally.

    But nowadays, not all want to go through that "difficult" process.

    For example, many choose to drop Math and science from their studies, choosing only the "easier to pass" subjects. These will miss the opportunity for "growth".

    The effect is clear. Guys mature in body, but not in mind, until society "train" them the hard ways through failures.

    Perhaps this is why China overtook US in terms of economy in less than 30 years. The guys there are well trained and well disciplined. And they have the world's renowned Mathematicians.

    Haha, guys do grow up, but many only physically. Yes, mentally, they may take another 25 years to reach 25 yo mentality. Yes, regrets.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The old saw is right: men never grow up, the toys just get progressively more expensive. Sorry.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I’m not sure why that happens but plenty of guys are like that. And some girls (though the girls are less obnoxious about it).



  • Ran into some guys like that but not all guys are immature

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yah I'm sorry about that I'm the same way kinda but I don't think about my teachers lol but I have to be honest I'm single so I THINK a lot LMAO about a lot of things

  • They never had anyone in their life make them grow up. Somehow, someone was always catering to them so they were able to stay like that.

    • Guys 30-50 are about the sorriest excuse for men. I remember not too long ago, they were jobless and living off their girlfriends. Now they are mad because they don’t want to work for anything but somehow think they are entitled to everything.

    • @ShootShootBangBang I know exactly the type

  • People wish to hold on to their youth and refuse to age gracefully.

    • A lot of these guys also pick on women for getting older, too. Tbh, the women are in better shape and look better than the men.

  • Why do some women never grow up?
    Some people are just idiots.

  • I won't deny there are some guys like that and I can't say why they act like that.
    I am sorry mam you met some guys like that but hope you find a good guy if you want to have a relationship in the future.
    Just be positive mam and Take care mam.

  • * me looking away like I didn't see the question* 🤔

  • If you want a philosophical conversation with a man try sucking him off first LoL

  • Well like i say to everyone else, people have there own mindset and some of them will forever be dumb because they aren't willing to learn but oh well

  • Because they are spoiled. About the most spoiled guys I know are 30-50. Their parents raised them to expect everything while they do nothing.

  • I’m not in that group.

  • Some?)) We are all like that !))

  • Because they think they're Peter Pan

  • It's same with some women. But you are right that it's little bit more common with men.

  • Some fight it for sure. I am pretty mature with the way my life is going.

  • There's nothing more inoccent than being child minded

    • The sweet smell of the mountain grass could taste it on the tip of my tounge

    • Now I've read that I can see this doesn't relate to what I thought

  • Most of men have sexual hormones of a teen even when they are an adult. Why, i do not know. Many say it has to do with how strong the female sexuality is, many believe it is how our mind is programmed, etc. etc. But you are correct, generally speaking. I cannot deny that.

  • Men always tend to be sexual creatures

  • Its like our midlife crisis. lol

  • Someone were lucky to have attractive teachers I guess. (Personaly I was not that lucky, all my teachers could have passed for grandmas)

    Obviously kids should not have sex with their teachers, no matter how horny the boys are.

    Why not take it as a compliment that they find you attractive

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