How bad it is to have multiple orgasms during sex?

Question

I know it’s not something serious and my boyfriend doesn’t complain about it, but it annoys me sometimes that he can make me orgasm many times during sex very easily without putting hard work for it. Usually women struggle to have an orgasm and some never have it. Our sex life is great and fun but I usually find myself thinking about this. Does this make me easy girl or am over thinking this?

Answer 1

ThomasTKay

Xper 5

I think you are overthinking it. This is an amazingly good problem to have. Any guy should cherish the idea that he can make his girl cum. Cumming is physically and mentally very healthy. It relieves stress, is heart healthy, healthy for all the sexual organs and glands, and finally mentally healthy which helps ensure depression does not set in. Cumming is also very connecting. So I say enjoy being able to allow your body to do something that is wonderful.

Me080Mo

1 mo
Any ideas on how to stop overthinking this?
ThomasTKay

1 mo
I would just tell you to try to see it as a positive that your body is able to do what it does. Remember, you are young and in your prime. Don’t waste any of it on things that are not important. Someone can give 10 million in gold. You can see it as an incredible gift and be your best with it, or you can find problems with it. 95% of our problems never come to pass. Enjoy your life and the body you have been given. :) Your guy is probably very happy you can enjoy sex this much. Someone who truly loves you will be happy for you and it most likely turns him on all the more. That’s healthy for both of you.

Answer 2

Me080Mo

Any ideas on how to stop overthinking this?

Answer 3

ThomasTKay

I would just tell you to try to see it as a positive that your body is able to do what it does. Remember, you are young and in your prime. Don’t waste any of it on things that are not important. Someone can give 10 million in gold. You can see it as an incredible gift and be your best with it, or you can find problems with it. 95% of our problems never come to pass. Enjoy your life and the body you have been given. :) Your guy is probably very happy you can enjoy sex this much. Someone who truly loves you will be happy for you and it most likely turns him on all the more. That’s healthy for both of you.

Answer 4

AustinMan | 39.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

Whoa!!! Shut down the orgasmic engine and step away from the button!! You are complaining about one of the greatest of feminine sexual assets. Women are SUPPOSED to be multi orgasmic. So revel in it and stop thinking it something to be annoyed about.

Do you squirt?

Answer 5

Anonymous

No an easy girl is one who is easy to get in bed not please in bed
Enjoy your multiple orgasms. I can have them but my man has to work at and I wish it was easier for me

Opinion Owner

1 mo
Thanks for mho

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

Thanks for mho

Answer 7

Puppystarfish23

Xper 5

I have multiple orgasms during sex very easily and i don't think it's ever been a problem for even me or my boyfriend at all if anything the opposite.

Puppystarfish23

1 mo
When i first started having sex i was scared to have a orgasm or to have multiple orgasms and would try to suppress them because im very loud and struggle to control my twitches and facial expressions. I look and sound like im being possessed sometimes. I was also scared of the feeling of letting go and going into the unknown.
Kaazsz

1 mo
The more you let go the sexier it is though. And the better it is for the guy, because he feels powerful when you relinquish all of your insecurities, and give in to him fully.
Puppystarfish23

1 mo
@Kaazsz yeah i know that now, my boyfriend loves it but at first i really struggled with that

Answer 8

Puppystarfish23

When i first started having sex i was scared to have a orgasm or to have multiple orgasms and would try to suppress them because im very loud and struggle to control my twitches and facial expressions. I look and sound like im being possessed sometimes. I was also scared of the feeling of letting go and going into the unknown.

Answer 9

Kaazsz

The more you let go the sexier it is though. And the better it is for the guy, because he feels powerful when you relinquish all of your insecurities, and give in to him fully.

Answer 10

Puppystarfish23

@Kaazsz yeah i know that now, my boyfriend loves it but at first i really struggled with that

Answer 11

wankiam | 8.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

one third of women can't orgasm during sex... unless you are at the real other extreme of having super orgasms where it can be unbearable i personally can't see what the problem is, especially given that your partner doesn't mind. i mean what man would mind? its our main aim during sex to give a woman pleasure anyway

Answer 12

bowenw | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Try to stop thinking about it and enjoy it. Play a game in your mind such as how many times will I cum, or can I count to 500 between orgasms. If you'd prefer not to have multiple orgasms try to get your partner to cum quicker. Try closing your legs a little so there's more friction on his dick. Alternately if you feel yourself getting closer, stop briefly and suck his dick until he's further along then resume intercourse.

Answer 13

pepperhicks | 228 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

It is all good. When I was single I had a steady girlfriend who had not been in a relationship for awhile. She could orgasm twice in one session and then again later in the day. I felt great about being able to satisfy her both while going down on her and inside her. My wife now (different woman) cums at a maximum once a day. She sometimes does not cum one day, but then cums very strongly the next time we are together. She sometimes needs extra time to "build up." That also is good.

Answer 14

virgin20 | 394 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Orgasms are like the goal in sex, it's not bad at all!
Many girls that have sex complain at the fact that their man can't give them the pleasure to reach an orgasm. You've got the best problem like because it isn't a problem at all.
I overthink so I know what you don't want to hear, but you don't have a problem at all, all that matters is that you are happy with your sex life with your boyfriend. You have no need to think this is bad!
I hope this helps🙂

Answer 15

Barry88 | 963 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I was very happy when I was with a girl who could easily orgasm. She had multiple orgasms when I performed oral on her and she could even orgasm during intercourse. I really enjoyed it, and I believe she enjoyed it as well!

Answer 16

Bagggy

Xper 4

Having her orgasm is my favourite part in our sessions. I honestly enjoy feeling her orgasm in my mouth, hear her moan and stuff like that more than I enjoy pleasure that I get myself. Her orgasms make me feel more comfortable and intimate with her

Answer 17

spartan55 | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Annoyed? I feel so bad for you! Proving again that you girls are never happy.
Wait until you fuck a guy who can't get you off at all. Then you will be REALLY annoyed.

Answer 18

ohshee | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Well for me when I have sex that is my goal to give her as many orgasms as I can,, I make it about the girl I'm with that's what turns me on is turning her on and making her cum like crazy

Answer 19

Grond21 | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You're overthinking it. It's a huge blessing and you should just be happy with it. Rather than make it into another issue that you have to deal with. Or worse, one that could potentially sour your relationship

Answer 20

Danny_dan92 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

When would this be a bad thing? Lol the more I can make a girl cum the happier I am

Me080Mo

1 mo
But I think too much about it :/
Danny_dan92

1 mo
Seriously 😅 ask yourself how this could be seen as a bad thing
Danny_dan92

1 mo
Not that it’s possible but if you made your boyfriend cream pie you a shit load of times wouldn’t you feel good?
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Me080Mo

1 mo
I guess! But am I crazy for thinking about this? 😂
Danny_dan92

1 mo
Nnnnnah 😂 you’d be crazy for not trynna hydrate.

Cause all that squirting is gonna dehydrate you
Me080Mo

1 mo
I wonder if a wet girl like me would ever get dehydrated!🤔😂
Danny_dan92

1 mo
Overtime yeah 😂😂
Danny_dan92

1 mo
Unless you drink water to prevent that

Answer 21

Me080Mo

But I think too much about it :/

Answer 22

Danny_dan92

Seriously 😅 ask yourself how this could be seen as a bad thing

Answer 23

Danny_dan92

Not that it’s possible but if you made your boyfriend cream pie you a shit load of times wouldn’t you feel good?

Answer 24

Me080Mo

I guess! But am I crazy for thinking about this? 😂

Answer 25

Danny_dan92

Nnnnnah 😂 you’d be crazy for not trynna hydrate.

Cause all that squirting is gonna dehydrate you

Answer 26

Me080Mo

I wonder if a wet girl like me would ever get dehydrated!🤔😂

Answer 27

Danny_dan92

Overtime yeah 😂😂

Answer 28

Danny_dan92

Unless you drink water to prevent that

Answer 29

v851234

Xper 5

Overthinking it.

Get on the rollercoaster and enjoy the ride stop trying to jump out halfway through!

Answer 30

JPrez | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

This is a good thing. Guys would kill for girls like you that can achieve multiple orgasms. I wouldn't worry at all.

Answer 31

Lynx122 | 873 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Lol wut? You should be grateful and the guys you're gonna be with should be too :P

Answer 32

DomEric

Xper 3

More pleasure for you my girl puts out lots she has many and her clit gets so swollen I just rub it when it's wet but I do work hard on it its thrilling how easy?

Me080Mo

1 mo
Does she orgasm?
DomEric

1 mo
So many times tell she's weak like usually 10 -12 times a session

Answer 33

Me080Mo

Does she orgasm?

Answer 34

DomEric

So many times tell she's weak like usually 10 -12 times a session

Answer 35

israelisevil | 183 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

No guys like girls like that but sometimes it can be agravating when girl gets sore befor i cum

Answer 36

Zebadee88 | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Over thinking.
You complain you can have orgasm?

Answer 37

Givemore

Xper 5

Over thinking. Be happy you get something out of it.

Answer 38

Nik1hil | 4.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

You are overthinking,
Just enjoy the sex.. And orgasms

Answer 39

bulltaker | 100 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

My ex normally had at least three every time we had sex, it made me feel like a king, she seemed to enjoy them too

Answer 40

Makeushiver | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I love having sex with women who are multi-orgasmic. It's a reeal turn on to me. Congratulations

Answer 41

darkcloud1945 | 332 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Overthinking layback and enjoy what most women think about having and your getting. Go for the Gusto have every orgasm you can have.

Answer 42

Twalli | 12K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Not really because easy girls have sex quickly after entering a relationship

Answer 43

Rangers | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

That's a great thing, I hope my girlfriend is like that but I'm not leaving that to chance

Answer 44

Gedaria | 8.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I find it hgrest when girlfriend does shows she is enjoying herself...

Answer 45

Yellovv | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Are you joking, every woman like to reach screaming orgasm..

Me080Mo

1 mo
I want to stop thinking about it that way
Yellovv

1 mo
Yes, you should..

Answer 46

Me080Mo

I want to stop thinking about it that way

Answer 47

Yellovv

Yes, you should..

Answer 48

MrTaboo | 741 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Guys love to give girls orgasms. We pleased you. Don't worry about it. Just make sure he's happy.

Answer 49

Whtevernever | 704 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

You are WILDLY overthinking it. Like... wildly wildly overthinking it. Just have orgasms.

Answer 50

Guy0nGaG

Xper 4

I'm a virgin, but I hope that I can give my future lover multiple orgasms.

Answer 51

Surely | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

You are just a girl that loves sex and uninhibited. Enjoy!!!

Answer 52

Sampike11 | 659 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

You're overthinking it, he just knows how to pleasure you right, personally I love when I give a girl multiple orgasms

Answer 53

Anonymous

That is a good thing. How quickly you are to have sex with someone determines if you are easy or not.

Answer 54

msc545 | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

You are complaining about having too many orgasms? You MUST be kidding!

Answer 55

JamJam1

Xper 1

It's completely fine and it probably makes him feel macho and great, enjoy the hell out of it

Answer 56

alltafgradur | 270 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

You are overthinking this, relax and enjoy yourself !!

Answer 57

Anonymous

Shut the fuck up you insufferable attention whore what the fuck is this even?

Answer 58

Redstang88 | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

How is that a bad thing? 🧐

Me080Mo

1 mo
I think too much about it

Answer 59

Me080Mo

I think too much about it

Answer 60

Dargil | 29.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

How could that be bad?

Answer 61

ItsTheNephilim | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Not bad. You're just overthinking.

Answer 62

Cellestial

Yoda

That's a blessing for you and your boyfriend!

Me080Mo

1 mo
But how do I stop thinking about it?
Cellestial

1 mo
Well just don't stop thinking about it, if it is on your mind that let it be

Answer 63

Me080Mo

But how do I stop thinking about it?

Answer 64

Cellestial

Well just don't stop thinking about it, if it is on your mind that let it be

Answer 65

Apope16 | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Hunny. Thats called heaven. Lol. Its good not bad.

Answer 66

Angelo75 | 316 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Oh it's good. Men enjoy it.

Answer 67

Nachowedgie | 6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Are you actually complaining, seriously?

Me080Mo

1 mo
I’m complaining about thinking too much about this matter in my life
Nachowedgie

1 mo
I would love to have so much free time that I could waste my time thinking about stupid shit like that

Answer 68

Me080Mo

I’m complaining about thinking too much about this matter in my life

Answer 69

Nachowedgie

I would love to have so much free time that I could waste my time thinking about stupid shit like that

Answer 70

Guardian45 | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

You're WAY OVERTHINKING it! WHO CARES! ENJOY IT!

Answer 71

bklynbadboy1 | 4.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Your fine and trust me that's a good thing

Answer 72

Anonymous

I only wish I had your problem.

Answer 73

knight2468 | 452 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

U should be grateful for that u are a special

Answer 74

anewme | 221 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

U will die in a week by diet

Answer 75

Avgbrisbaneguy | 447 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Definitely over thinking

Answer 76

Tonythecreator | 639 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

My girls the same way. It’s a blessing

Answer 77

gandolph3

Yoda

Not bad, great for both of you

Answer 78

MannMitAntworten | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Bad? It isn't.

Answer 79

Paulychicago10 | 684 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Way over thinking it

Answer 80

OddBeMe | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Your poor poor life.

Answer 81

Slim57 | 4.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Oh yeah

Answer 82

Anonymous

It's not bad at all.

How bad it is to have multiple orgasms during sex?

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