How did your first time sexting happen?

Who started it? What did you say? How old were you?
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  • I don't remember the exact date, but it was some time in 2018. I was 25 or 26. I was actually talking to a girl on THIS website. Someone asked a question if anyone's ever had a sexual dream about someone on THIS website. I answered "yes", and that girl commented asking if it's her and gave a horny emoji. So I PMed her and tell her it's her, and told her I fantasize about her. But I felt awkward 'cuz we barely know each other. She said, "so what?"
    She started talking dirty to me saying the thing that happened in my dream really turns her on. Mind you, we were both virgins. She'd sexted and send nudes, before. I hadn't. We didn't send nudes or anything, and she kind of had to lead a little bit. It was hot at the moment, but after I read it back, I didn't think it was that great! But she said I wasn't bad for my first time and I still made her cum, and I came too. She didn't wanna swap nudes, but I at least managed to get a pic of her legs. lol That was a fun night. I wanted to sext her again, but it never happened.

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  • I'm sure I probably started it I think I was asked if I could have my way with the girl I was chatting with what and how would I do it ,, so I didn't hold back I to old her in detail every little move I did and when she read it she just said I want to come see you omg that is so hot and then she sent me something back thst was hot I like sexting or role playing if it's detailed. But and this is the Gods Honest truth I've been told that and I have said it to and this is crazy but true I have had some of the best sex ever but I've been told that the phone Sex we just had was better than all the sex they have ever had and I've said it once or twice to. And this is 100 % Honest

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  • I've always been wary of sexting bc there was an incident before in my HS where this guy released her girlfriend's photos and text online when they broke up. It was a huge scandal in our town and the girl had to transfer because her life was ruined. I felt so bad for her. The guy ofc was kicked out.

    Anyway, bc of that I couldnt do it with guys I know in person so the first time I sexted was when I was in college. I did it through an anonymous chat in the internet. No faces. No names. Lol We talked for maybe 2 days then he just asked if I was open to it. He was pretty nice. He didn't bombard me with dick pics or send nudes etc without asking and I was horny too lmao so we just did it and it continued
    maybe for almost a month. I realized I was pretty good at it because I read so many adult books. 😂 A for effort and patience to him lmao.

    • We should chat 😁

  • Sexting is weird! Its like reading a novel. I look at sexting and laugh.

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  • I've yet to do it myself but I do look forward to doing it with the right person :)

  • Never done it.

  • I don't remember to be honest. I still enjoy sexting to this day. I love being very descriptive. The naughtier the better

    • I'm sure it was on a social media app. Probably didn't even plan on it happening. It just kind of slowly formed over time.

  • i had to sneak downstairs hiding the candlelight with my hand. i burned myself a few times but i'd make it to father's office where i'd find his calligraphy set. i dipped my pen in the inkwell and wrote the most naughty texts to my love. instead of sealing the envelope with wax i'd blow a load to seal it so she could taste me if she so wanted

  • It would have been in like... winter 93-94 I think? It’s possible it was the following year. I also don’t remember the exact environment it was something on Internet but I suspect not websites as they were in their infancy. Anyway you could chat in groups and then private message. Ended up sexting (text not photos obviously) with some presumed-to-be-woman.
    thing is, like most people then I didn’t have Internet really at home. I was in a university computer lab lol. So we finished texting then I went home and got off.

    didn’t do it again for over 20 years. Till I joined GaG pretty much lol.

  • It was gradual. It was me. Just a gradual buildup

  • I was 13 he was 18 but thought I was 18 too. He hit on me I just pretended I was in a romance novel and went with it.

    • Did he found out later?

    • @skyline_8855 yeah...

    • That’s a great age tho to start, honestly

  • I don't remember very well, but I know we were talking about sex, and she was telling me what she liked and I told her I was aroused and she told me I should masturbate and think of her so I did.

  • We just talked dirty and she had a hairy bush and we talked how I would go down on her and she talk how she would blow my cock

  • Dont think i've ever sexted

  • I started this year i paid a girl to masturbate infront of me while i did the same for her

  • shit happens

  • i was 29, we had just started dating ldr online. met in a mmorpg. started off talking about sexual fantasies and kinks but we both got turned on and decided to role play it. as for phone sex, same ex and was her idea. she was about 10 months older than me by the way. we wound up engaged about 2 years into it then she started cheating.

  • I was on the text chat Vodafone had on its where it started

  • 19 yo.
    Started out of curiosity.
    Haven't done it in years.

  • I really can't remember as u have done it so many times...

  • 13 maybe?

  • Don't know... we were just talking casually & in the next moment things went I'd say went different.. It was kinda unexpected..& yes she started it..

  • It was over three years ago and I didn't expect sexting to happen, so that made it quite enjoyable.

  • Back in 2009 there was a game on Facebook called Kiwi, you had to collect cards (as far as I remember) and you could exchange them with other Facebook users. So I kept adding people till I found a stunning French girl. We exchanged some cards, then I couldn't help but tell her how beautiful she was, I kept complimenting her for days and she liked it. I've never thought that would turn into something naughty, so eventually we moved from exchanging cards in that game to exchanging nudes and talking dirty.

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