Do nice guys ACTUALLY finish last?

Or is the race for sex an unfortunate blend of societal expectations and an unrealistic standard to achieve sex at a certain age

Or is It just man babies

Or entirely womens fault

Just curious love yous x
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  • I can only speak for myself and I'm not sure if your question has to do with money or women. With money it's often co-incidental that someone will be in the right place at the ight time. With women, I think attractive women- like yourself- have what seems like gravitational pull on me. That combined with being an incorrible flirt has allowed me to date just about any woman I've wanted to. There have been plenty of instances when a few guys, myself among them, would be talking about a girl but not have the courage to approach her. I will often walk up to girls like that and simply tell them I think they are very attractive. Not one woman has ever given me any shit about it and some have ended up as dates, sometimes one night stands if they're from out of town. I also know that once we have our clothes if tat she won't be disappointed, I've been aware of that since I was 13 years. old

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  • I think you would be surprised to know that just because a man is nice to a woman, it has nothing to do with how he treats other men. Personally, I can't say anything bad, mean or simply disrespectful to a girl. But, I have no problems completely destroying another man's self-esteem, self-confidence and attempting to emotionally, mentally and physically scar them for life. If I can get them to willingly take that final step into the unknown... all the better. They are simply my competition and I just want to crush them. I love girls... just not fond of men. 🤷‍♂️

  • No. They don't finish at all. Also, some blend of percentages of all the other stuff, too.

  • I don't know why but yes in so many ways and it sucks but I think there is a balance or at least I hope

  • Nice guys struggle to date nice women.

    Bad guys seem to hook nice women, mess them around, literally snap them in two before those same women meet nice guys.

    The same for te other way around.. so then you have broken nice guys dating broken nice women, and not trusting each other because they have been hurt so badly.

    So nice guys dont finish last they just have hurdles to overcome, which bad guys dont even care about let alone struggle to get past.

  • I'm not particularly nice, so I don't really know. When it comes to sex (and a lot of other things), though, I've noticed dudes I know who are particularly nice to people do end up not being as successful as I would have thought.

    What's your feeling, re: Nice Guys?

  • I am a nice guy and I do like to finish last. I will let you finish first, especially if you're a squirter, but even if you're not.

  • Yes they do. I started getting laid when i became more blunt and open about sex. Girls would call me an asshole but be riding my dick. Before that i was a polite guy. A nice bestie. Never got laid for 27 years.

  • I'm a firm believer that the lady should always finish first. Does that make me a nice guy?

  • Generally yes in that he is very rarely to never anyone's first choice and when he does get a girl she has more than likely already hooked up with and/or dated multiple guys who either cheated, lied, manipulated or were in general by her own admission assholes.

  • Yes they do. Being too nice will make people take advantage of you

  • I am not sure mam, but I hope not.

  • Nice guys finish last

  • No I'm a good runner.. cross country I smash it, short difference I'm mediocre but never last lol

  • Yeah, cause they don't get laid, till they stop trying to be the "nice"guy XD

  • Haha yeah it seems like they actually do.

    I have never seen a model or a pretty woman be with a genuine nice guy.

    I know a lot of guys that are nice and are still single. But I do have some nice guy friends that aren't single but their gfs are pretty average. Which I think is good.

    If you're a bad boy you can get anyone. If you're a nice guy you can still land dates but don't set your standards too high.

  • No and some of them never gets lucky with a girl Because girls mostly prefers assholes and jerks.

  • Of course they do, although not for the reasons they think, it's because nice people are usually predisposed to being unsuccessful in life for other reasons as well. Speaking from experience

  • Uh yes we finish last. A gentleman always gets a lady off before he nuts 😜

  • Nice guys don't finish. They are constantly accused of only wanting sex because they were too keen too early in meeting the women for their whole life. They were only nice because they wanted a way to express their intent on liking this girl and didn't know how else to do it but the girl interpreted their approach as needy.

    Then when they tell someone (usually a female) that they can't find a girlfriend, they get the default simplistic pithy comment "oh, you just need to love yourself" or "you're just not confident" when really they are confident in themselves. These comments usually come from a female that doesn't understand this guys daily life struggles and thinks love is easy for every man and all he needs to do is ask.

    He then goes potentially violent (like elliot rodger) because the world doesn't understand his viewpoint and nobody seems to be able to help him out of this black hole he is stuck in.

  • I try to make sure she is satisfied before I finish...

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