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  • I was gonna reply sarcastically because I thought the question was a joke mocking the people who think sexuality is a choice, but then I saw your comments.

    Your sexuality is just whoever you are attracted to. If you're attracted to men, you're straight. If you're attracted to women, you're gay. If you're attracted to both, then you're bisexual, and that's fine, you don't have to pick one.

    • Yea I’m aware I just don’t feel the same when liking a girl like I see myself as a guy but then those crushes don’t last long but they are stronger than crushes I’ve had on guys so I’m just stumped ig and doubting will just make it worse

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  • Yes, most people are conditioned in childhood and are on autopilot for the rest of their lives, aren't they? Kinda like sheep. Choice is (would be) what makes us human. Most people these days watch TV all day and have their lives dictated by what they see. Simple as that. Which is why I threw mind away many years ago and haven't looked back. This has allowed my mind to expand beyond what would be possible if you stare at a flashing screen all day.
    To address your question, I would like to open up your mind a bit more than it seems to be already open. Let's turn the question around, shall we? Why would you need to choose? Like stick to one preference for life? Can't you be spontaneous? Let the moment decide. Allow it to unfold and manifest as it will? Say be excited by men most of the time but if you get wet from a woman's kiss just go with the flow?

  • It was apparent as far as I can remember. I think that it’s perhaps more challenging those who aren’t straight as they may receive socialization assuming they will be straight and as a child it’s not as obvious that they won’t feel that way when older. So in their teens they have to recognize that the attraction for the other sex they were told was going to happen isn’t going to happen.

    based on your comments below I’d note that who you attract and how you dress don’t have anything to do with your sexuality. Who is the idea of having sex with appealing? It’s that simple, really. A good awareness is if you only really fall in love with one group that’s also good to know.

    if you have severe body dysmorphia that might adjust the above.

    • True, my problem is I feel that I’m a guy when talking to girls and stuff and it has me kinda confused because since 7th grade I had this boyish air about me and I can’t place it

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  • I kissed my friend we were like enemies ish too but we made out n I hated it n she actually turned out lesbian so 😳 what a shock but yea I gagged I rlly didn’t like it neither did I have any feelings for women all my life

    • I’ve kissed a girl a couple of times and stuff and liked it but that’s about it

    • It’s possible to realize you like girls without actually doing anything sexual with a girl outside of your own fantasies

    • Yea I realized that a while ago @Gwenhwyfar

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  • What the fuck are you jizzing about?

  • Well I just sensed what I liked and disliked.. and since I have never been sexually attracted to a woman I am plain straight.

    • Can i ask you a question

    • @ManhattanMan1212 no thanks :)

  • Early one morning many years ago I looked into a mirror and noticed I did not have anything hanging between my legs, only this slit which was somewhat wet. At that point I decided to be a girl!

  • You can't really choose you just happen to like what you like. However, there certain things that I think can influence your sexual desires

    • An unrelated question, How did you find out about this website?

  • I don’t think I did really lol I’m bi curious I would say I’ve been married to a man for 10 years dated men all my life but when I see a sexy woman with a nice ass I can’t help but check her out and I fantasize about women from time to time

    • Think you will ever try?

    • I doubt it lol

    • Lol can you follow me back?

  • You don't decide on it. You are what you are.

  • As much as I decided to be born male. In other words, I didn't decide. I'm a guy and I'm a (mentally) healthy guy too. And therefore, I have always been attracted towards girls. Even prior to getting hit by puberty.

  • Through experimenting, turned out that I'm bi

    • How? I don’t understand experimenting fully

    • I just found the right people to try it with if that makes sense.

    • Nope not at all 😓

  • Took me years to figure out and admit that I was bisexual

    • An unrelated question, How did you find out about this website? What were you looking for that got you here?

  • You don't just "decide", it just happens.

  • I didn't. It's not really something you decide.

  • Do you decide? It's not a choice

    • Ugh😤 no shit I worded this question wrong

  • When I was born, I was male. Kinda just happened from there.

  • There was nothing to be decided by me or anyone else. I'm just a straight guy.

  • Well there's a loaded question, lol.

    • Wym?

    • How did you decide on your sexuality?

    • Well I’m actually serious because of my sexuality I find it hard, I’m bi but I only attract guys that I know of, I’ve crushed on girls before which those crushes were strong compared to those of which I had on guys.. now to make it confusing for me I also have a tendency to act masculine in a way and it’s been like that since 7th grade so I’m confused again

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  • At the age of 14, someone more sexually mature decided for me.

  • I didn’t really decide it, it decided on it’s own. (Straight)

  • I just chose to like girls as I didn't know anything about lesbians till I was in my late teens or early 20s.

  • It's natural to be attracted by an opposite sex, it didn't involve any decisions making.

  • Magic slipper approach.

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