I’m going to wear lingerie for my boyfriend, but I’m afraid that he might see me in it and not engage in sex. What do I do if he just stares at me?

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mobjay82 · Accepted Answer

what the hell is going on is this the norm now, when women are begging guys to have sex !!! ok why would you think he would just stare at you? has he rejected you before or lately. whats food intake any soy, to much weed maybe. fellas you guys are looking bad eat your wheatys, protein fruits for carbs and water a gallon a day. stop it with fast food. or trendy diets. your girl is a sexual being a=handle it or someone else will. lately I've been reading headlines my etc the problem not even married yet an d alresdy have marital problem

Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

Stand there awkwardly and re-evaluate your life choices, I guess?
I mean, I hope you aren't just going to stand in the hallway in lingerie without knowing what your boyfriend's current mood is and how he feels about lingerie in general.
Those things require the right mood, opportunity and mutual interests.

If you expect a man to jump at you just because you randomly decided to wear lingerie without prior discussion, then yes, some fears are warranted.

AshleyTaylorDanny · Accepted Answer

Don't just stand there in it... twirl around, bend over slightly, wiggle your ass and rub your hands over yourself while you do a little dance... he will pop a hard on quickly and have his hands all over you!

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Rest assured, you will very soon discover that you will be unable to keep anything on for longer than 10-15 secs. at most!

MCheetah · Answer

This really seems like a non-problem. You have boobs! USE THEM!

pajamasam · Answer

Engage first. Catch him off guard and complete dazzle him. Have some music playing do a sexy dance (believe me you dont have to be a professional dancer to be sexy) put your hands on him and tease him some. Catch him while he is frozen in shock and push him until he just can't contain himself anymore.

v851234 · Answer

Woman strips to her lingerie
Boyfriend stares
Girlfriend realises he is a doofus and finds a man who finds her attractive enough to do something rather than just stare.

No man who loves you and is attracted would stand there for long.

JPrez · Answer

There is nothing wrong if he stares at you. That's what it's for. Let him appreciate you in it. Then, it will have an effect on him for sure.

0112358 · Answer

Does he often turn down sex, or are you just paranoid?

DavidFox · Answer

I guess dance or move around? Why wouldn’t he want to have sex?

Givemore · Answer

So your a fuckin tease. Bitch!!!

Zebadee88 · Answer

Dump him if he just stared.

Wise4myage · Answer

Seriously, why on earth would you think that? Stop over thinking this and just go for it. If he doesn't love how you look, than that's on him, but I doubt that will happen.