Is anyone whos in/been in college a virgin NOT by choice?

[Slim57]

I just heard mostly everyone has sex in college, that wants to, never been, is this mostly true?

[btbc92]

Stop believing in myths and look at the facts with people. Simple answer to your question is no. Everybody is not having sex in college. There are few that do. And others who choose to have sex with multiple people as what you call sleeping around with many others. But that does not mean that everybody goes to college just for the simple fact of having sex. Your there for an education or you're wasting your time. It is your choice to be a virgin or not. You can lose your virginity to practically anything or anybody. Nobody's telling you to wait if you don't want to wait. But you're better off waiting to get married if you want something stable. I think it is flat-out common sense. Having sex is not a Rite of Passage. Anybody that say they're not a virgin by choice better seriously reevaluate themselves. Unless they living in a country where they have no legal rights for anything, you have more than enough free will to do whatever it is that you please. But you're responsible for those choices.

[Slim57]

I don't believe anything without proof that's why im asking, and its just what I've heard, i ask because I know I wouldn't be despite what I've heard

[btbc92]

Why do you need proof? Its none of your business of others personal sex lives. Those who do, do. Those who don't, don't. Unless somebody is trying to tempt you into sex, you don't want to be involved. In college, most people don't have time because studying takes up more time. Unless theu have great tome management skills, opportunities for swx or dont acre about their education, theyre usually not have sex. At least not on campus and its often one might stands anyway. The nore sexually attracted you are, the more likely you are to find tons of sex partners. Of you have money and status that also count. Its about all of that for sex in those places and society. Choose wisely wjy you wang to bother.

[btbc92]

Why you want*

[btbc92]

Opportunities for sex or don't care* Most girls especially do want relationships. But because most guys usually don't they tend to settle for less. Which is why depending on your gender as well you must not be having sex if it means that you won't have much of a relationship. If you taken a full course load of 4 at least 5-6 depending on credits lab hours, AND if the course are writing extensive, besides clubs and other obligations please tell me how are so many or everyone is having sex? This is why you be married and STAY MARRIED. Most people do NOT want marriage but they want to screw without much commitments, but want it so badly.

[Aguysopinion4799]

College life is nothing like how they depict them in movies.
A lot of people are virgins, and even the ones who are in relationships may not necessarily have sex.

Here is the breakdown.

You have the new students who are between 16 and 17, they are basically embryos, they don't even know what they love, they don't even know how to behave properly in class, they don't have ANY relationship skills AT all, guys at this age often act creepy and freak out when they see a other guy talking to a girl because they don't know how to.

Then you have the second years, they are 18 and will have some understanding but still won't be having sex and I will get to the reason for that at the end because it applies to all of the years..

The you have the third years, they are 19 and they may well choose a course that is 2 years long so they could be between 19 and 20, these ones will be wanting sex but can't and I will tell you why.

COLLEGE LIFE GIVES YOU SO MUCH WORK THAT IT DOESN'T GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY TO BARELY EVEN TALK TO FRIENDS LET ALONE MAKE A RELATIONSHIP, YOU THINK THERE IS GOING TO BE TIME TO GO AND HAVE SEX AT SOMEONES HOUSE?

The only ones who lose their virginity are couples who actually live together, movies seem to try and make college seem like all students get to get real frisky and build relationships but we just don't get enough time to even fixate on spending that time with other students like that.

[Rangers]

Yes, I lost it once I left and moved. I wish I hadn't done that and saved myself for my current girlfriend though

[Joker_]

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