How long should you wait for sex?

Question

First date? 5th date? Until you're a couple? Married.

GoogleWasMyIdea · Accepted Answer

Wait till you get comfortable. I started dry humping my girlfriend first. We would do that with clothes on. Then after a couple of dry humps, we went to just having my boxers and her underwear on. Then when we got more comfortable, we had actual sex and it was very comfortable for both of us. By doing this, we avoided the awkwardness of seeing each other naked for the first time. We were kind of used to it already. I had never been so comfortable with a girl before for the first time. It not only made sex comfortable but way more enjoyable.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

For me, it's when there's a strong emotional connection. Then we have this conversation.

testersite00 · Accepted Answer

i think waiting until a connection is established first then having sex, this way there is clear communication, and its not one of the foundations of your relationship. but some people have sex on the first date, to see if they are compatible. but its probably best to do it when you are both comfortable and ready.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

When you feel like it's time.
There's no right answer you should get from others. It all depends on yourself. And the person you're with and the nature of the relationship.

Do it when you feel like you trust them and want to do it with them.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Married

nobody952 · Answer

until your body says so (and mind) could be first date could be marriage and it's ok

Paolaa988 · Answer

I wanna wait till I'm officially with him and we're in a committed relationship and truly in love with each other before sex.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How long SHOULD you wait for sex? There is no law on that subject. There are some religious dictates. Ultimately, it is your decision to make, in conjunction with your partner, and no one else's decision.

Everyoneisplastic · Answer

The best thing to do is probably to wait until you know it's the right time. Waiting until marriage is great, but it's not always the right time. Some people end up getting married just to have sex. I think if you wait until you know and love each other truly and you know that you want to be with each other for life, then that's likely ideal. Studdies have proven that people are less happy with their life when they don't wait to have sex. I hope this helps.

rachel776 · Answer

some guys first date, some guy 10 months, some guys never

Alyssa11 · Answer

I think it’s subjective. My opinion is a minimum of 3 healthy months of dating/there’s been a title to the relationship. Personally though for me — seriously commitment relationship or marriage.

normalice · Answer

I would offer the same advice to virgins and whores alike: You should have sex when you want to get off.

Kiss_Me · Answer

Until your a couple. Usually the longer the wait (Within reason) the better the relationship.

4eyes2mouths · Answer

Depends on the girl

slatyb · Answer

Until you both want to have sex.

SarahP080102 · Answer

Depends on the guy

cunnilinguist · Answer

Let me turn the question around. How long should you wait for a date? After the first sex? A few? Or why bother with dates when you can just have sex with no strings attached? And who marries anyway? Half of marriages end in divorce. The other half is mostly separation. The few that stay are only staying because of kids/money etc and livetheir lives fighting and arguing all the time. And not enough sex of course. Because you have "headaches".

Apope16 · Answer

there's no rule. Some of my longest relationships have been after having sex on date 1 or 2. Some of my shortest have been sex on date 5 or more. In my experience the sooner you have sex and spend the night the better. The veil is lifted. After sex you enjoy each other more rather than being fake in anticipation of the goal of sex. there's an earthy authenticity.