My girlfriend is very modest. Is it inappropriate to ask her to be naked when we’re not having sex?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is a smoke show. She has an athletic body with big boobs and ass. She is not insecure about her appearance. However, her family is extremely conservative. She is very modest and shy about being naked in front of me. She has no problem being naked during sex. We have sex on a regular basis. However, if I walk in on her changing, she will cover herself up. I would love for her to be comfortable hanging out with me naked. I don’t like wearing clothes around the house. It makes me feel more intimate with her when we do non-sexual things naked together. Also, I love it when she wears thongs. I think she is absolutely gorgeous. Also, I want her to feel comfortable around me naked. Is it weird for me to propose the idea to her?

[CallMeDave]

I don't think there's anything wrong with you letting her know how much you'd like it and why. I think couples should be open and honest with each other about things. From what you've described though, I think you have to expect that she's not going to feel comfortable with it and if you try to push it too much, it could upset her and cause problems.

What I think I'd probably try to do in a situation like that is let her know that you'd really like her to do that and ask her to explain why she doesn't feel comfortable with it. Listen carefully to understand her feelings and respect them. Then ask whether there's any small step in that direction that she'd be willing to try. I really doubt that she's going to just start going fully naked if she's that uncomfortable with it, but perhaps she'll be willing to slowly try to be a little more revealing. If so, make sure she knows that you appreciate what she's doing and don't try to push her too fast. Maybe over time you can get there. Considering the environment that it sounds like she grew up in, it's probably going to be a difficult thing for her that will take a long time to word toward, but hopefully in time you can get there. Good luck!

[PrudentGuy]

If I were you, these are what I would do:

1) suggest and plan on moving in together. And I'll tell her my reason: that I would like to start a nude lifestyle with her there.

She likely says no.

But I believe through time and careful planning, and after your commitment and intimacy increases, couple with possible savings from shared rental, she may eventually say yes.

That's phase 1, which may take months to years to achieve. But once she agrees, the battle is already 90% won, because the moving in is to live a nude lifestyle together.

The rest is what you do now to get her to accept your proposal. Use your creativity to motivate her to do so. The effort is worth it. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Talking with her is a good start
Maybe she could ease into it
Start with a crop top and short shorts one day then loose the top the next then the so on

[Berethor]

Well at least she don't hide her body during sex, but is still silly that she do it during changing.

[Anonymous]

I tHink it would likely make her uncomfortable, if you have good sex I think that’s all u should need. Let her wear her clothes.