Is it strange for middle school girls to desire and fantasize about their teachers and older men?

[lanadelrey25]

I did when I was 10 and it's still going strong.

[Niya2006]

yeah totally

I hope...

[Everyoneisplastic]

A lot of girls going through puberty end up having fantasies about older men. Honestly, it's kinda gross. I had the same thing happen to me when I was a kid. I still think it's kinda gross. Kids and adults in sexual relationships is wrong. Grown people should know better than to do stuff like that with kids as kids are just growing and don't have the mental capacity that an adult has. An adult trying to take advantage of a kid having new thoughts is absolutely disgusting and the sexualization of children is disgusting and morally wrong.

[pajamasam]

A lot of guys have the same fantasy for an older woman in power positions. Like a teacher or a cop. I dont think that specific fantasy is gender specific. I think a lot of people of all genders have a kinky spot for power dynamics in the bedroom.

I remember having a really good looking middle school teacher as well that I fantasized about.

I dont think that fantasy is strange at all.

Age of consent is serious and shouldn't be acted on...

But im sure there are plenty of people with the same or similar fantasies.

[Dargil]

I think not. They are mature, polished, intelligent, accomplished and are in authority.
Before modern pop culture obscured actual male and female roles and appetites, young women were both taught by mothers and remain wired by The Creator to seek "good providers" and men who would support a safe, orderly household for child rearing. They voluntarily agreed to be at least formally subordinate to their husbands as part of the overall system but could step up to offset The Captain's flaws.

[Massageman]

I would be surprised if someone did NOT have fantasy/crush/hots for at least on of their teachers at some point.

in second grade, our teacher looked like a dried up old prune, and acted even worse. In third grade - what a relief. Tall, hot, willowy lady- looked a bit like Bess Myerson (Miss America from way back- see my pic)- very sweet lady. But even at 8-9 yo, I knew she was an eyeful.

Bess Myerson, Miss America. My 3rd grade teacher look-alike. :- )

[Paolaa988]

My friend crushed on a teacher in his 50s literally... yet everyone talked shit on me for liking a younger boy but i was a minor but in my opinion its gross she liked a teacher in his 50s at only 13 or 14. I tried dating an older man before when i was 20 but i found out it wasn't my thing and he didn't fit my criteria and not the same type of thrill and fun as id feel with a younger guy so yeah.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think that's only natural. I mean you're getting older, hormones are rushing. And whether your a guy or girl it makes sense that a teacher who is more developed physically and mentally would be attractive. Especially when you add in the fact that you see this person every day.

[Nobody770]

I don't think it's abnormal at all. Teachers are really your first mature, dominant male aside from your relatives. Most girls are discovering themselves in middle school and are starting to realize that the idea of a dominant older male is incredibly attractive. They're just getting a handle on their sexual urges

[Pete671]

I don't think it's strange at all, when I was at middle school our class teacher often wore white blouse and black bras so you could clearly see her bra through the blouse,,,
I think she did it deliberately to excite the boys, I'm sure male teachers flirt with young girls, perhaps not even knowing they are,,,

[RaveWorthy]

That's so common... they have written books, made movies and music videos like this one by The Police - Don't stand so close to me.https://www.youtube.com/embed/KNIZofPB8ZM

[SunnySri]

Well as a teacher myself mam, I would not want my students to fantasize about me. Especially if found out I would feel awkward but I know most of the students have their first crush on their teacher so I don't think it's wrong as long as it is a crush only.

[nodnol32]

Its not strange. Male school students also fantasize about female teachers and/or have crushes on them. Both are not strange.

[fueledbythc]

i did that with my teachers when i was that age. its normal.

i never crushed on girls my age when i was a teenager. im just not attracted to younger looking girls

[normalice]

The whole thing about fantasies is that nothing is abnormal. But also everything is.

[bowenw]

I think it's very common and also for guys to fantasize about their female teachers.

[pantyloverr]

Not at all its very very normal its called growing up we all do it in different ways. If its your daughter let her be to her thoughts and fantasies. You remember how it feels to fantasies its a big deal to a young woman

[SnakeEyes18]

thats not weird at all I had a crush on one of my female teachers in middle school and high school. I thought abut kissing them and having sex. High school was my Spanish teacher she was hot

[prakhindev92]

No , because they are eager to explore , what all they can be done with their body , weird fun , of course it is normal

[OddBeMe]

No it’s normal. It’s a pupil/boss attraction thing. Just don’t fall for it. It’s hyped sex energy instead of actual attraction.

[Blaine999]

I wouldn't say it's strange, I fantasized about a few of my teachers, even got to heavily flirting with one of them

[Yaaten]

I don't think it's "strange". I can't speak for girls here (for obvious reasons), but I do know that male high school students often fantasize about female teachers and older women.

[Twalli]

I think most girls do this if they have a male teacher on the young side.

[Tom_Steve]

No it is not, because everyone has some feelings about sexuality. I think most of us has thought sexual things of milfs...

[The_unknown_memer]

Considering that I fantazie about older woman and female teachers

No I don't think so

[andy530]

It’s actually quite common. There is nothing inherently wrong with fantasy

[mrkdvsn]

I don't see it as strange or weird, simply because it IS just fantasies or daydreams.

[BeachLuvR97]

Guys are the same way when we have hot female teachers.

[User2300]

Nah its normal. When i was that age I did the same.

[Jerre]

I have been with many girls who want to call me Daddy when we fuck. So doesn’t sound strange at all.

[AustColombiangirl]

When I was in my mid teens I was having sex with my friends dads and friends of my dad

[Larson7]

"Miss Bell! Eyes on your own paper."
( was going to try to upload a picture of a teacher but was unsuccessful) be careful with the massage don't hurt yourself

[EstevanMadrid898]

I don't think it's crazy, I personally didn't know any females in middle school that had crushes on their teachers but in high school I did

[KingChris08]

I’m not sure what girls in middle school desired or fantasized about

[dianahrx0606]

no. At this point you're learning more about your body

[Dman19]

I used to about middle ages females so yeah I think its normal

[AmandaYVR]

Oh yeah. Totally normal.

[slatyb]

Happens all the time. Totally normal.

[abc3643]

It's very common, so don't worry about it.

[Twenty2]

Fuck no! It's totally normal

[rustymopp]

nope,
boys fancy some of there female teacher too you know...

[Feelicks]

I mean you can fantasize about whatever you want, just only act on what's sensible.

[flashgrandad]

A lot of girls like older men.
When I was in my mind 50's my partner was in her 20's

[Iron_Man]

Not according to this sight I hear it all the time

[madmrsmith]

Natural. They are successful

[Valnac]

I think it’s somewhat normal.

[pizzalovershouse]

can't say im not a girl

[Tstrbrainer]

No, usually women tend to like older partners

[CubaPirate]

Quite normal as the approach puberty imao

[REDHOTLINE]

Al of us was have fantasies about teachers.

[dsrice1966]

No that happens a lot I hear.

[Joe1956]

i think you're in the norm

[David_Bayer]

I'm not sure. I never was a middle school girl.

[StrikeJam]

It's normal. And it's quite common.

[SarahL98]

It's not really strange, I was the same in school

[rachel776]

i did also

[billluc69]

i dont think it is odd

[Nachowedgie]

Uh no that's pretty normal

[Yellovv]

Everyone is free about their choices..

[snowstormcroissant]

i had a crush on my middle school science teacher

[Koalamate]

Perfectly normal

[In_Trance]

Not strange