Is it strange for middle school girls to desire and fantasize about their teachers and older men?

When I was in middle school, I had fantasies about my teacher in his 30s. Gosh he was so hot. According to guys, most girls are not like I was which I find strange for men to judge.

I wonder was it just me or did you girls have similar experience?
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  • I did when I was 10 and it's still going strong.

    • Do you still have him as a teacher?

    • @Nobody770 Not the teacher part, I'm home schooled. Just older men in general, like my eye doctor lol

    • Oh? What about your eye doctor? 😜

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  • yeah totally

    I hope...

    • I hope it's normal XD

    • And guys say we don't desire older men at that age

    • Exactly

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  • That's so common... they have written books, made movies and music videos like this one by The Police - Don't stand so close to me.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/KNIZofPB8ZM
  • Oh yeah. Totally normal.

  • My friend crushed on a teacher in his 50s literally... yet everyone talked shit on me for liking a younger boy but i was a minor but in my opinion its gross she liked a teacher in his 50s at only 13 or 14. I tried dating an older man before when i was 20 but i found out it wasn't my thing and he didn't fit my criteria and not the same type of thrill and fun as id feel with a younger guy so yeah.

    • Haha I had fantasies about my 53 year old teacher at 14 too

  • A lot of girls going through puberty end up having fantasies about older men. Honestly, it's kinda gross. I had the same thing happen to me when I was a kid. I still think it's kinda gross. Kids and adults in sexual relationships is wrong. Grown people should know better than to do stuff like that with kids as kids are just growing and don't have the mental capacity that an adult has. An adult trying to take advantage of a kid having new thoughts is absolutely disgusting and the sexualization of children is disgusting and morally wrong.

  • A lot of guys have the same fantasy for an older woman in power positions. Like a teacher or a cop. I dont think that specific fantasy is gender specific. I think a lot of people of all genders have a kinky spot for power dynamics in the bedroom.

    I remember having a really good looking middle school teacher as well that I fantasized about.

    I dont think that fantasy is strange at all.

    Age of consent is serious and shouldn't be acted on...

    But im sure there are plenty of people with the same or similar fantasies.

  • i did also

  • I think that's only natural. I mean you're getting older, hormones are rushing. And whether your a guy or girl it makes sense that a teacher who is more developed physically and mentally would be attractive. Especially when you add in the fact that you see this person every day.

  • It's very common, so don't worry about it.

  • The whole thing about fantasies is that nothing is abnormal. But also everything is.

  • Happens all the time. Totally normal.

  • It's not really strange, I was the same in school

  • I think not. They are mature, polished, intelligent, accomplished and are in authority.
    Before modern pop culture obscured actual male and female roles and appetites, young women were both taught by mothers and remain wired by The Creator to seek "good providers" and men who would support a safe, orderly household for child rearing. They voluntarily agreed to be at least formally subordinate to their husbands as part of the overall system but could step up to offset The Captain's flaws.

  • I don't think it's "strange". I can't speak for girls here (for obvious reasons), but I do know that male high school students often fantasize about female teachers and older women.

  • Its not strange. Male school students also fantasize about female teachers and/or have crushes on them. Both are not strange.

  • i had a crush on my middle school science teacher

  • I think it's very common and also for guys to fantasize about their female teachers.

  • Well as a teacher myself mam, I would not want my students to fantasize about me. Especially if found out I would feel awkward but I know most of the students have their first crush on their teacher so I don't think it's wrong as long as it is a crush only.

    • *if I found out

  • Perfectly normal

  • I would be surprised if someone did NOT have fantasy/crush/hots for at least on of their teachers at some point.

    in second grade, our teacher looked like a dried up old prune, and acted even worse. In third grade - what a relief. Tall, hot, willowy lady- looked a bit like Bess Myerson (Miss America from way back- see my pic)- very sweet lady. But even at 8-9 yo, I knew she was an eyeful.

    Bess Myerson, Miss America. My 3rd grade teacher look-alike. :- )
    Bess Myerson, Miss America. My 3rd grade teacher look-alike. :- )
  • i did that with my teachers when i was that age. its normal.

    i never crushed on girls my age when i was a teenager. im just not attracted to younger looking girls

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