Yeah i think those might be good
1) ask him. Sounds ironical, but I'm not trying to be funny. Only he knows what he likes.
This is what bedroom communication is all about. Its actually a skill to acquire.
2) avoid showing desperation. Yes, you holding off sex for the time being is a good thing for him to start chasing.
3) show confidence. To do:
A) when you're ready, initiate sex. Or to make it really hot, tell him a date, like dd mm 2021. Then start counting down with him and planning. (A long topic too.)
B) always keep the lights on and your clothes off. This means you must learn to be comfortable naked before that special day. (Long topic)
C) learn to tease, not like a porn star but a sweet girl for him.
4) no worries about fellatio and anal. Instead hold these as your "wold cards". They are useful after you get him as your man.
5) Instead learn to ask for cunnilingous and offer him a fantasy in return. (A long. topic here).
Final statement: sex and relationship should be a win-win commitment. Hence make it "business like", just to kick-start the "project".
Thanks that's very helpful
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Dress up, so you have knee high leather boots? Wear those and nothing else
Ok thank you
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!First off, it's kind of hard to mess up. You would just have lay there and do nothing to be bad. So, I would probably say it's not you, they probably had some high expectations or didn't know what they wanted in the first place.
First thing I would do is figure out what you would like, what you don't, and what your limits are. This is not only for you, but also him.
Next, talk to him. Ask him what he likes, doesn't, and what his limits are. If you are curious ask for more details.
If you can't talk about it then it's going to be, eh so-so could be better, kind of sex. Everyone has their own turn ons and turn-offs. There are some general things, but when you get into it what works for one may not work for someone else.
Hope that helps.
Thank you i will talk with him
Good luck. If you need some pointers on how to open the conversation just let me know.
Well I need those pointer haha
Well communicate with him, be open to trying things, enjoy yourself and don't be self concious and don't just have him do all the work (he doesn't want to be having sex with a blowup doll so be animated, moan when he is doing something right, have fun (it should be fun) etc.). As for specifics you would have to state what specific issues came up that your ex's thought made you bad in bed.
Well they would never give me specifics just that I was bad But unwilling try to do more in bed
Well, that is a start. Be willing to try new things. Its fun, its a game, you want to see what you can do to give your partner pleasure. You need to be able to step out of your comfort zone a bit to do that. You would be surprised at the things you find out about yourself when your willing to do that (I've actually found I enjoyed some of them once I got use to it). Also enthusiasm, the last thing a guy wants is a girl to look at sex like its a choir. You don't want him to treat you that way and he doesn't want you to treat him that way (Imagine for example he acts like its a big deal to go down on you, stopping every once in a while to ask if he can stop. Its not particularly enjoyable right? So don't do that (its hyperbolic of course, but the point is enthusiasm, showing you want to be doing this with him, that you want to explore him sexually is a really big deal and makes sex far more interesting for him and yourself.).
Ok thank you
I dated a girl once who was bad in bed. She just laid there and did nothing, said nothing, not even a moan. I could do anything with her and she complied, but it was boring sex. I finally broke up with her because of that.
So, move, moan, ask, be a part of the sex. Get into it. If the guy is a good guy, maybe he can help you open up a bit.. but you have to talk to him.
Ok thank you
Welcome, I hope it opens up your sex life for you. Have fun.
Is it possible that we could chat?
Deepthroat.
1. Communicate. Share fantasies, what you want, what he wants, how certain acts make you feel.
2. Take initiative. For your pleasure and then maybe even his
3. Focus on the entire body. Don't jump to the croch.
4. Kissing and licking at the erogoneus zones helps
5. Enjoy it, don't stress or show anxiety
Thank you
Skip the bed?
And do what?
Not what, but where: If (according to your critics) your bed-performance doesn't do it - then do it everywhere else. Location. Location. Location. Couch, floor, table, window sill, bathtub, car roof, etc.
Oh ok
DM me I'll share an idea, it will work I gaurentee. If not I'll come back here and declare I failed!
It's some pretty hot moves but you will be the best fuck he's ever going to have.. up to you and I'll reply when I can so don't think I'm not willing to help
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Just be yourself and communicate with her in bed.
just be horny and be yourself in bed - tell him what you want, tell him when it feels good and give him a good BJ in return of his great job
Well being myself seem to be the problem
hmm.. then you need to open up a little. My partner was like that too... watch a little porn might help... it's good to be wild!
Ok could you maybe give me some suggestions We could chat in pm
Just participate more instead of lying there.
Like how?
Be more active, inventive, take control sometimes. Nothing makes me lose interest more if she just lays there like a sack of potatoes.
Ok thank you
Talk to him an ask him what he likes then only do what you dont mind
It depends on what things made you bad
That's sorta the problem they never really said
Without knowing that, CV it's hard to tell you. If you lb audio there, move more, if you moved it could have been too much. Literally ever piece of advice can be what you do that you need to do less of, or vice versa.
Ok thank you
Different guys like different things hun
I get that but I really like this guy and I want to be good for him
THEN ASK HIM
Ok I'll do that
Strap on in the butt
Learn to like sucking dick, we can see if you enjoy it or if it is a chore.
Learn to make yourself cum riding anyone, man love a girl who cums when she wants.
Be present during sex. Be mindfull. Be there and we will like it. Practice some things he will ask for again after you show him ;) May be he will do the same for you if you are lucky.
Thank you i will try all of those You're very helpful
Happy to help with practice too if you are in the UK :)
watch some porn try some new things. surprise him
To never say no to anythibg
Well I haven't said no to anything yet
simply be yourself if he loves you he will make u more better
What were the complaints about
Just that i wasn't good They were never specific
Were you active, or did you lay there
Well I normally just held on to them Is that not good?
Make noise but don’t yell. (Moan a lot.)
Make eye contact, and have a facial expression of surprise, like every time his cock goes in it’s bigger than you expected.
Lick his asshole during the blowjob.
Ask him to cum where you‘d like it... mouth, pussy, asshole, etc.
Thank you Any other advice?
Tons, PM me?
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