How and why you need to stop masturbating?

[Anonymous]

[AndyOh]

If you are masturbating so much that you are not taking care of normal activities like school work, a job, bathing, going out with friends, etc... basically ignoring life to masturbate, then you do need to stop or at least slow down.
How do you stop or slow down... comes down to personal discipline. Keep track of how often you masturbate, like a pink dot on the calendar day. After a while you will see what is going on. Then you can challenge yourself, with goals and rewards if you meet your goal. Cut down slowly, but in a month you might have it down to a reasonable level. Worked for me!
Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you:)

[AndyOh]

Welcome... and I should add, some days I had a few dots on one day. When I could count 10 or 15 dots in a week, I knew I had to do something. Best of luck to you. :)

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO :) I hope it helps.

[TonyV]

No Need to stop, it's natural and perfectly fine.
As long as your not doing it wrong and somehow hurting yourself masturbation is fine.
Your better of masturbateing than feeling you need to hook up with random people to fulfill your desires.

[lanadelrey25]

You don't need to stop, your sexuality is a good thing, own it, indulge in it. Just don't go overboard.

[ohshee]

I dont have to ,, i want to and need to do it and its always funner when doing it with someone helpping them. Feel something so beautiful

[siferius90]

Quitting masturbation is easy - I did it hundreds of times

[yknow156]

Masturbation is beneficial health and mental wise.

[slatyb]

You don't. It's normal and healthy and almost everyone does it. The human sex drive is strong and will not be ignored. You can masturbate and be over it for a while, or you can attempt to abstain and your need will constantly be in your mind.

[Don-__-Don]

I don't need to stop.

However if you need to stop then just abstain.

[Natehunter199]

I stoped a long time ago, it has lost it's fun for me

[aieeazumui]

How did you get to stop it altogether? Tips and tricks... What do you do if you get horny?

[Natehunter199]

@aieeazumui i had a bitchy wife that ruined it for me.

[aieeazumui]

How is having a bitchy wife related to a man stopping masturbation?

[Natehunter199]

@aieeazumui it's a long story. But for me it lost its fun and i can't get myself excited. I may have way over done it.

[aieeazumui]

She denied sex in relationship?

[Natehunter199]

Yes, after are second child was born

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't see any reason to stop unless one feels better to take breaks from Masturbating

[snowstormcroissant]

why do you think you need to stop masturbating?

[pigoat]

If i didn't masturbate i wouldn't spend thousands of dollars on cam girls a month

[stefan1985]

Lol G

[DamnSam]

Because after 8-10 months no orgasm, you realize you can move light objects with your mind

I did read that levitation is also possible after over a year...

[stefan1985]

Well since that's all I ever knew and since I'm 34 and a virgin, and since its not meant for me to get laid, well then my only option is to beat off every chance I get, and to be honest I rather pleasure myself anyway, all I need are my 2 hands since can't relate to the other 99.9 percent of the male poplution on getting girls to do that for them.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's okay to masturbate sweet girl, but keep yourself virgin!
A girl can stop masturbating when she gets married cause at this point she can have real sex with her husband and she will get maximum pleasure and love 😊

[Asker]

No, it's not okay. Masturbation requires lust and it goes against my beliefs. Plus I always feel super guilty, depressed, unmotivated and far away from God whenever I do it. Masturbation has more disadvantages than advantages. Plus I started when I was like 10 or maybe even lower... so it makes me sad knowing that I'm now 16 yet still have this stupid addiction that could ruin not only my life but the way I think and the way I view men.

[TonyMetal___86]

What does men have to do with your masturbation? You should feel bad or far from god just because you masturbate that's stupid! Your a virgin girl and that's what's important and sex with a man is totally different than masturbation... Anyways if you feel that you don't like it than just STOP IT! too easy! Good luck!

[Asker]

It's not stupid. You just don't wake up in the morning and be like "let me masturbate" there must be a reason why you want to do it. And now that I'm 16 and you're a man we can't deceive ourselves and say we're doing it "just for fun". Before the intent of masturbating comes to mind, there's lust, it could be someone or something that triggered the thought. Lust in the bible is a sin. So the main cause of masturbation is lust, what is lust? A strong craving for sex/something. 1 John 2:16 (KJV) For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. Matthew 5:28 (KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Masturbation is a sin that's why it has so many side effects, even people that aren't Christian's, feel shame, guilt, dirty & impure, why do they feel these emotions? Because the holy spirit is convicting them that it is WRONG. Another reason why it effects the way I view men because thanks to porn and the erotic stories I became addicted to, I view men as sexual creatures, that's why it's wrong. Many studies have also shown that masturbation not only effects marriage in a negative way, but it also effects your sex life with your partner. So it goes deeper than just temporary pleasure. God created sex to be shared between husband and wife, When a man and a woman orgasm it is accompanied by the release of pair bonding hormones such as oxytocin and vasopressin or neurotransmitters such as dopamine which increases the desire of your significant other, all of this is messed up when just one indulges in masturbation. Who is one pair bonding with when one masturbates?

[Asker]

And if it's oh sooo easy, I challenge you to stop masturbating for 2 weeks.

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss sweetener don't challenge me cause you will lose, i'm a man and have a high sexual desire and stayed without sex till i got married and after divorce, it's been 7 years without sex at all, will never have sex before finding a sweet real lady and marrying her! I barely masturbates once or twice a month! I agree with everything that you have said but you know that no one is perfect, you can't just do everything that's written in the bible, but we always try our best and become a better person...

[Asker]

I won't lose because I'm not scared of a challenge. The only reason I challenged you was because you said stopping masturbation was easy as if it was a child play smh. I never said anyone was perfect, I came at you because you said * You shouldn't feel bad or far away from God just because you masturbate that's stupid* and that was quite offensive if you ask me, so I had to inform you of a few things. The bible said for all have sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God, so of course we are not perfect but that's why the bible encourages us to strive for perfection, to discipline ourselves for holiness. And remember everything is possible through Christ. So if we want to do something we can always do it through him, even though the yoke might be heavy.

[TonyMetal___86]

But it's easy for me to stop masturbating and even for months i can do it, your the one having this problem, you shouldn't make a challenge where you will lose! I'm not a teenager, i can control my sexual drive, it ain't easy but surely it ain't impossible!

[Asker]

Alright.

[stefan1985]

I guess if I were a woman I would feel like u probably, but I'm glad I'm not a woman

[Wise4myage]

I don't need to stop masturbating, but if you think you have a problem with it, then try using self control.

[Dayman343]

This will never happen. Unless I'm dead.

[pizzalovershouse]

🤔🤔🙊🙉🙈

[Snakeyes7]

If it gets to the point where it controls your life.

[axali1]

Why: It takes your life energy and harms your life goals
How: it’s the toughest question

[Dave31989]

they say if you do it too much, you become desensitized to sex. that, you could then only cum while masturbating, and not from sex

it's yet to be proven

[Guanfei]

The question is mostly "why".
You're not hurting anyone, and it feels nice. So why would you stop?

[suleuman]

Masturbating isn't bad if you do it after week or a month but if you do it regularly or each day then it is very unhealthy.