My guy lied to me and I was so angry/hurt so I called him a small dick asshole during our fight. Will he forgive the insult to his manhood?

[Anonymous]

[AlexAndriatg111]

He probably won't and he shouldn't, nor would I. Truth comes out in anger. What you said would be like calling a girl a stinking fat cunt. If he's still with you he's looking to get out. Or you're using him. If a big dick is important to you then why are you with him. And don't say you love him because you don't. How do expect him to enjoy sex or anything with you after that comment. I'd never be able to trust you , knowing that you'd be looking for a bigger dick. I have a bigger dick for you if thats what you need after he dumps you. But then maybe I judge what your pussy looks like. Or whether it's to big. Just being honest. Women like you are why men turn to men or fem boys for casual sex

[Asker]

I hear you on the ability to enjoy sex Bc of his doubt of providing satisfaction. Our sex is amazing and his size was never an issue for me. My comments were out of anger. So complete disregard to the fact that it was in reaction to his lying and manipulating?

[AlexAndriatg111]

ok understood. But he may dought you. No matter how angry , please don't pick on a guys manhood. And what i meant about his ability to perform sexually can be affected mentally just because you said it.

[AlexAndriatg111]

you didn't tell us what his lying manipulating was. Is that necessary to know now

[AlexAndriatg111]

I do agree with a commenter. I do doubt that you enjoy the sex that you state. I've had some seriously angered women to deal with in my life, but never had any of them called me a small dick asshole. That would have been a deal breaker with me even though I have a nice size cock.

[Asker]

Women prob never said it to you Bc it’s not true. Long distance relationship so it’s hard. So he lied about sleeping with someone else in the past but while we were together. Being it is long distance we agreed we would be honest about the urge to have sex with someone else and talk it through which he clearly didn’t do and told me months later. For the record, we are not together Bc that’s a deal breaker for me but I care about him and I feel awful about my manhood insult. Change your perspective?

[AlexAndriatg111]

People say things out of anger. Ok he cheated, in a long distance relationship. You just made an indirect admission to me that he does in fact have a small dick. Now that he knows you never liked the fact he had a small dick, he probably feels vindicated by cheating on you now that all the truth has come out. So you'll credit that you first lied that he didn't have a small dick but admitting now that he does. You will cut through a mans soul picking on his man hood. I've never told a woman that she was a sloppy pussied bitch. Even to the woman who fucked around on me and took my home.

[Asker]

Okay. Appreciate your honesty.

[AlexAndriatg111]

And, what would an apology serve at this time. Its a deal breaker that he cheated on you. So let it go right, or do want to give an apology to receive an apology that he cheated. Because real apologies dont work that way. If you and I were happily married for 20 years and suddenly the truth comes out, out of anger but truth that you called me a small dick asshole. I would have divorced you. And by the way my thick nice size cock would be small compared to a woman who desires like a fat 9 to 12. I get you liked the man then found out he had a small cock. To each their own but that was the time you were responsible to be forthright

[Asker]

Hold up. To be clear, I never lied to him and told him he had a big dick. I never cared about his size Bc sex was good. I already apologized Bc I was wrong and i understand the impact to a man with insulting his manhood. Not looking for his apology Bc I can’t control other people. I guess just let it go.

[AlexAndriatg111]

and don't get me wrong, a healthy sex relationship is as important to the everyday love aspect. Dick size does matter in some relationships. Its not superficial. For the same way im not physically attracted to overweight women. And believe me a woman at 5'4" at 150 is overweight. Unless you're some super athlete. Im trying to give you comparable unless you are one of the hottest women on the planet

[AlexAndriatg111]

show me a pic of your mom and grandma, because that's how you're going to look after menopause

[Asker]

Haha. I’m 5’4 at 125. I think I’m good. Agreed. Healthy sex is important. I think it’s clear that I need to let go. Haha- No need to show pics. I don’t need someone’s opinion to feed me self confidence.

[AlexAndriatg111]

im not picking on you but you asked a question and I rolled with this one. I learned a little about you along our chatting. You admitted that he had a small dick but sex was great. Then to answer your question he'll never forget your comment. Never forgive it unless you get back together. And even then he'd never truly forgive it.

[AlexAndriatg111]

Good then human beings can have a productive conversation. I don't know you but now wish the best for you moving forward. And have a Merry Christmas and a happy new year. They say just dont repeat old behaviors. And I'm not siding with your old boyfriend. I don't know him or you. But it does take a good conversation with someone neutral to it all. By the way, go camping, make a fire along a lake. Make time to do simple things in life. And yes have a drink, relax and reflect. Selflessness. Each other caring more about the other than themselves. Men should understand women and vice versa.

[Asker]

I appreciate that! I def will never say that to a man every again. I can only learn and grow. Definitely time for self love. Happy holidays! Thanks for the insight.

[JPrez]

Insulting the manhood is a low blow so I would expect he would be pissed especially if he has a small weenie. However if it’s fairly big, the insult won’t really faze him. Now, that being said, make up sex usually allows us guys to forgive more easily.

[Asker]

Wish it was as easy as just make up sex. Thanks for the insight

[JPrez]

No worries. I know sometimes it takes courage to admit you made a mistake. If you can do that, he loves you enough I’m sure to accept it and forgive you.

[CMC93]

He will question if you are enjoying the sex..

[JackSmy]

You might need to apologize, and let him spank you, to punish you, as foreplay!!!
If he likes you, some bad words, in an argument isn't going to be a deal-breaker!!
Seriously, though, some guys like the submission, and offering to be spanked, just as foreplay, if you might like that. Not everyone does!

[mobiusforniner]

If he doesn't, he's a small dick asshole...

[Avicenna]

Probably not

[infinitybreaker2018]

That's going too far and I'd doubt how much you enjoy the sex.

There's lines you don't cross

[Asker]

Sex is great. For sure. Definitely crossed the line.

[Bandit74]

Depends on his size. If he's actually big then it probably won't bother him. However if he's average or small then he's less likely to forgive it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't mind my manhood to be insulted hahaha he will most likely forgive you

[Iron_Man]

Yes later on

[Twalli]

Depends on how important his masculinity is to him.

[iFarted]

I think lying is a lot worse than name calling during the heat of the moment.

[OddBeMe]

That does cut deep. I’m sure he’s said worse to you tho.

[Nachowedgie]

Nope

[Eduardobeaner]

Yes probably☺ it can't be smaller than my baby 7 inches long and 5 inch thick dick😂😂. there's always worse things trust me

[Shuthid]

Hahahaha. Don't worry it is fine to call men small dick losers.

[Anonymous]

You hitted him where it hurts the most, most of guys would never forget this kind of insults.