I am a white washed black man that is only attracted to white females. is there a way to undo this (please do not take this is a joke)?

This is not a joke. Please don't laugh. I just realized that as a kid, I used to see them on magazines, Disney, cartoons and eventually when I got older, in porn. I used to google "hot girls nude" as a kid on google but the thing is that it was never race related. I didn't realize it until not but only white women were shown to me. That's the first body I saw naked was a white female.
I know it sounds crazy but what I am saying is that I was teaching my mind that white girls are superior in terms of beauty and you see this everywhere. All my friends both black and Hispanics are white washed! I'm just starting to notice this now.

This is not a troll post. I am being legit 100% honest. I'm seeing this everywhere. All my friends are white washed and want a white girlfriend but that is so wrong. We should judge a girl based on her character and not skin color!

If you need any more proof that I am white washed. I am a black man that listens to nirvana, Metallica, etc. I hate rap. I hate blm because deep down inside I know that it is black supremacy in disguise. It grosses me out. Makes me a little sick. Especially when you see a black guy with a white girl on the gram and comments "put a black baby in her" 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️ Yuck!!

Anyway, this is a short response to why I do not wanna be white washed anymore. I wanna date a black girl but I can't find them attractive. Hispanic girls? Yeah, they kinda hot.
I am a white washed black man that is only attracted to white females. is there a way to undo this (please do not take this is a joke)?
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  • Most white men are whitewashed too.
    I'm white, I'm more attracted to other races, but white women are shoved down everyone's throat so much that we start to think they're most attractive.
    Even on Pornhub I have to weed through all the white girl shit to get to the women I want to see.

    • Thanks for MHO.

    • You understood me completely.

  • get one of those black muslims. they aren't as black

    • Where at tho

    • egypt, africa, kamala harris?

    • Oh, nah. But do you see what I am saying? About white washing? We were taught to believe that white girls were superior

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  • What you have to do is meet some light colored black girls and I know there are some beautiful light color black girls out there and I never had sex with any gender other than my own but I've heard that black women can really lay it on you and statistically it has been proven that black women have the tightest pussy in all the races ain't that some shit since black men are supposed to have the biggest dick black women have the littlest pussy that just don't make a match don't seem like to me but yeah you can fix that just by going out and meeting some good looking black women and they are some beautiful black women out there you know they are once you have sex with one of them I don't think that you'll have a problem with it anymore I mean I don't know I've never had sex with a black woman my dad said that you're not a man till you have sex with a black woman I've been looking for one to make me into a man ain't found one yet if you know of one that lives anywhere near Seneca South Carolina send them my way

  • You sound dumb.
    The type of music you listen to doesn't mean shit. Just because your black doesn't mean you have to like rap. You sound dumb and ignorant af.

    • You've never heard of white washing?

    • Listening to music that isn't made by black people isn't white washing, its being cultured. Also damn girl you are GOOOOOD love when I see comments like this from people of my race, makes me wish so so much to have met people like you when i was a kid. Learn to like my people instead of fear them, to be accepted instead of ridiculed for being different. Not conforming to a culture norm is the essence of merging and becoming your own person. Live life to enjoy it, not to follow a standard.

  • Bro, I think you are confusing your preferences that were developed overtime to being guilty about how Black people are portrayed in mainstream media and in this day in age and not feeling like one of them deep down.

    I saw your comment below about Disney not having more princesses of color in their movies. Keep in mind Walt grew up in a time where racism was pretty common. Hell, the first Disney princess of color I remember is Jasmine from Aladdin. She's actually the one I find the most attractive out of all of them, but that doesn't have anything to do with being physically attracted to another race.

    I am mixed and have preferences across the board that are my own. I like white women, middle eastern women, Asian women, Latinas, and some black women. The biggest commonality of personality and then the physical attraction too.

    • I grew up being told I couldn't date people of other races, so I was curious and wanted to. I knew I could date my own race, so I wanted to explore. Had nothing to do with not being attracted to black men. I was. But it was that forbidden fruit thing. There are all sorts of reasons. If you want to change, work it out with a pro and see if it pays off. Otherwise, just get on with your life.

    • @Screenwriter... I think you replied to the wrong guy.

    • I'm replying in general to the topic. I'm sure he's reading the comments. I know this isn't about you. I'm noting that there are a host of reasons people make these choices.

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  • I am black, my Fiancé was white our child is mixed, there's nothing to fix

    you are not white washed if you think your more attracted to another race, your just buying into the bullshit of the left now.

    I grew up in the hood, I grew up around 99% black folks and hell I don't find them attractive. the "Culture" was gang culture, violence, addicts. Nothing good I have no good memories of any black area I've been in. I hell my life actually got easier for me when I moved away from them.

    I had to hide my love of Anime, I had to not listen to any music but black music, If I was caught listening to "white" music i was ridiculed, I couldn't watch anime because it was gay cartoon shit. The toxic masculinity, the toxic ghetto mentality. No good came from that shit I was becoming like my dad, a douchebag who was just ruining peoples lives and If I didn't meet my Fiancé i'd be just like his ass, No where to be seen with kids with no daddy.

  • It's a matter of will and discipline. You have to teach yourself to adjust your sense of beauty based on ethnicity. It can be done.

  • Date a black girl. Try it out. Let her share her beauty, inner and outer, with you. Someone only grows in attraction the longer you date them, anyway.

  • Dude if you're just attracted to another race then that's just who you are. You know you don't have to follow the Status Quo right? You don't have to like a particular type of music either. As long as you don't have a hate for your own race in general then I think you're fine.

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  • I think you're a bit screwed up in the head. If you sincerely KNOW you're whitewashed and you want to change, there might be a chance you can. I'd suggest you do therapy with a black therapist who evaluates you. I think deep-seated desires, whether they were embarked upon accidentally or societally are difficult to undo.
    It's up to you getting support from a professional and to how motivated you are to changing your behavior.

  • I don't know if having a preference is that bad but there is some psuedo science suggesting that you develope a prefrence to whomever you had your sexual awakening to. ex. if you first recognised someone as "sexy" who was white you would have a white preference and the way to change that is to basically watch ebony porn.

  • Congrats on being like everyone else in this world. The world belongs to you. Make them mixed babies

    • I don't want to. I know everyone's gonna see me and be like "oh another white washed black guy" I don't want that.

    • Well your mind belongs to you and not anyone else. Black guy white girl is the best power couple in the world these days. So it's ok to tell your dad to leave your momma for a white young girl

    • Are you black?

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