Should I send him nudes?

[Anonymous]

I been talking to this guy for couple months and I could tell he has feelings for me and so do I. He had once send his nudes to me and that made us realize we were moving to fast so we decided to be friends but couple days ago we were talking about are neighbor and I brought up that my neighbor probably saw me naked since I have my windows open half the time, And his respond was lucky them. Does that mean he wants to see my Boobs? and can I send them to him?

[Anonymous]

Don't send him nudes just because you feel pressured to do so. If you send one, it should be because you really want to and not because he just said lucky him or because he sent his. Don't force yourself if you don't want to. If he really likes you then he'd still be interested even without a nude photo.

However, if you choose to do so and if you trust him enough to do so, take some caution. You might want to send him something without your face in it or a photo which wouldn't lead back to you easily or something. Check the background for identifying objects or landmarks or what. I know it is weird and probably paranoid but as some guy here said.. you dont wanna end up in a porn website.

[gecebutnotgecendayaa]

i don’t think you should send him nudes since you guys aren’t even dating rn and you’ve both decided to slow down a bit... maybe after you’ve been dating for a while. but honestly it’s up to you. do what you’re comfortable with, but don’t just do it because you think he wants it.

[DeeToPlay]

Why are things going to be different if it's your nudes being shared instead of his. I'm confused as to why you have been saying that the catalyst for the change in the dynamic of your relationship was the sharing of nudes and now you have had the bright idea that you are going to have a different result while doing the same thing?

[Asker]

Yeah your right, thanks for the feedback.

[Red_Arrow]

You know your neighbor gets to see you nude occasionally, and that does not bother you. So why not your boyfriend? If you want him to see you nude, then send pictures, but be careful. Keep your face out of that and don’t let there be things in the picture that could identify you.

[Wedimir]

Man likes Tits) Woman likes dick) But you need to send it when there is a topic, to the place where you will talk about sex with each other. And then you are so cute chat about the weather and OPA " Tits!" Surprise!)))

[ohshee]

Thats cute and hot but let me say this when most girls send nudes they want to impress the guy right well girls that have sent me nudes its cool but they send the wrong or bad nudes first ,, so im thinking if you want to send them to me first i can be your tester outter lol. If you want me to be lol , I mean you FONT want to send the wrong kind or a bad nude lol right 😊 ,, well if you feel good with the guy why not I'm sure he would love them he's a lucky guy

[Sheyhoney]

If you’re questioning Dont do it ! Do it when you’re ready and if you do end up sending them don’t show your face.

[jshm2]

No.

The rule on nudes is never send them until the other party has begged for them nicely, three days in a row.

You don't want to end up on a revenge porn site when you break up. Nor to you want to end up on his friend groups wank bank.

[Givemore]

He seems like he wants some pics and you have spoken for a while.. might be ok.

[SavageGirl101]

DONT SEND HIM NUDES💀he can easily expose u

[Iron_Man]

Hell no

[Asker]

why is that?

[Iron_Man]

Being a good person have good moral values don’t sell yourself out like that

[Lottifan]

It’s entirely up to you. If you do send a nude photo don’t show your face.

[Wise4myage]

Guys almost always want to see nudes. So unless your under 18, then feel free to do so, but keep your face out of any picture you send. Do your neighbors see you naked a lot, lol.

[TheFlak38]

sending nudes is the norm today.

[roastbeef]

it is your body it is up to you

[Twalli]

Almost every guy wants to see naked girls. So if you want to send him nudes he will like them. He may think you're moving too fast, but hw will like the nudes

[Sabretooth]

you really shouldn't.

[rajatkaushik55]

that comment shows that he wants but its all up to you if u are so sure then he won't leak it or won't just stop talking to you once he get those (used you)

[rooftop_run]

Don't send him nudes. You'll keep his interest longer if he legitimately is into you. Perhaps consider hooking up if there is that tension between you two. Considering you feel ready, of course.

[Mayham__]

Yes. Send him

[AskMeAnythingGuy69]

Definitely send them! Be proud, confident, and show him everything.

[Anonymous]

Don’t ask such stupid questions. At your age make a decision. This questions are getting so stupid