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- Morally and liberally, the answer SHOULD be yes. But this isn't a moral and liberal world so NO. Female sexuality is still very unknown to most men. So because they can't understand it, they live by these rules created by social standards, implemented deep into their brains. Men care about sex A LOT. They put much value on it, more then women. This is how men think:
THE COMMITMENT-PHOBIC ONES - They are usually seen as immature, bad boys, fun, fuckable. Can be very charming. They are afraid of any kind of commitment and therefore they only pursue sex. Sex with variety of women is their priority. These types of men would do ANYTHING to get it as soon and as easier as possible. They will sometimes lie and string you along, or some will be honest but still try persistently to get it as charmingly as possible. It doesn't matter if you have sex on a 1st or 50th date, they don't care. Their only mission is to get it, and the only thing they will feel is happy and grateful they got it easy. On the other hand, they might seem kind of disappointed if you reject their sexual advances. They still have others (who are not as easy) on the list they need to pursue to get it from them too though. But if some girls are too hard to win, they simply give up. And onto the next one, or back to you for the lack of options. So it doesn't matter when you have sex, it will never lead to a relationship. The key is to UNMASK THEM. Withholding sex won't unmask them. Or change them. It will only prolong the inevitable. But there are ways to spot them that have nothing to do with sex. You can unmask them before sex, or sometimes even better after. The truth comes forth sooner or later, it's up to you to decide whether you can keep your emotions aside after sex or not. If not, if you are doing it because you are in love and hope it will lead somewhere, then better don't do it. Just because you are amazing, hot and had a mind-blowing sex with a guy doesn't mean it will suddenly fix his phobia of commitment. But if yes, if you are doing it because you are horny and you don't expect anything out of it just a simple pleasure, then go ahead and do it. In a way, it's a good way to test him.
Pros: you get to have sex and if he disappears after at least you don't have to waste time on him anymore because you unmasked him.
Cons: catching feelings and having to deal with that shit.2|21|2Is this still revelant?THE SERIOUS ONES - From my experience, these guys usually won't try to sweettalk into sex. They take you out on a nice date not really thinking about sex because they assume that you are serious too and you're not thinking about sex either. For them, seriousness kind of equals sex drive. Because they also don't understand female sexuality, they automatically assume that you are not attracted to them or that you are frigid, and that it takes a lot more then sweet-talk, correct moves and their vibe to arouse you. Or that you are withholding it because of standards, and they are fine with it. Dates with them are usually like a job interview, there's not much flirting. Even if it happens a moment that could lead to sex, rejecting it is what they expected so no disappointment there. However, if a girl is more on a "perverted" side and initiates it herself or lets it happen early on (first or second date), they end up being SURPRISED. Which leads me to two types of serious men:
1. Negatively surprised ones: because of social stigma and lack of knowledge in female sexuality, their value of you goes from "girlfriend material" to "slut". Their first thought is that you are not what they were hoping for. That you are just another slut hungry for dick and that you probably did that with every man you went out with. And that if you are so easily aroused without him putting any effort or moves on you, you will cheat on them in the future. These men connect female sexuality to emotions and things he does to win her over. Women who make them work for it are high value women in their eyes. Pussy is a prize for them. So when you "revel" you're sexual desires early on, they will either do you and be done with you or reject you and never call you again. And there's no turning back once they think of you as a low quality woman.
Pros: if you are more of a traditional type of woman who's sex drive is not that high, then this type of man would be a perfect boyfriend/husband.
Cons: Well if you're not, withholding sex and hiding your true sexual nature just to get him to not think of you as a slut can be very exhausting. It's also morally not correct to manipulate like that. And denying strong chemistry can feel depressing.2. Positively surprised ones: title says it all. To them, your early sexual advances are just a big plus. They will feel extremely lucky and relieved that you find them sexually attractive and that they can scratch that fear from their list of insecurities. They will GLADLY have sex on the first date and will think of you as a woman who is freely in touch with her sexuality and is not afraid to act on it. They will want to get to know you better and see if your personality is also a fit. And if yes, they will want to keep you.
Cons: because you don't know them very well, they might turn out to be a commitment-phobes or serious ones with negative reactions. It is a risk basically. Another con is that they might become super clingy or full of themselves, and therefore forget about all other qualities they need to show to actually want a relationship with them. Some think that because you had sex they got you completely and they don't have to pursue you any longer. That's why it's important to still keep standards high and show them that sex doesn't change anything for you. No privileges of any kinds of benefits until he proves himself serious and it's official.
Pros: You get to be your authentic self without playing any games or living by the social rules. You get your sexual needs fulfilled and you just might also get a partner for life. <3- Show All Show Less
So, the conclusion is up to you. You hold the key. It all depends on want YOU want, your priorities and what you willing to sacrifice. Although it's probably better to play it on the safe side and withhold sex, the sacrifice for that is shutting down your sexual desires and be just friends for awhile. To me, I am not willing make that sacrifice because I need passion early on or I'll lose interest. Also, if we wait for sex and it turns out to be bad, I'd feel very depressed for wasting my time. I'd feel guilty and like I was leading him on just to get his heart broken due to lack of sexual chemistry because we already invested too much. So I like to stick to my authentic self instead and hope to find a serious man who will be positively surprised.
Morally and liberally the answer should be no, if you don't worship hedonism.
You have to know each other a bit first. Is it so hard to be patient? We are not animals, even if you think so.
- HELL NO!!! First dates are super awkward usually and then your gonna jump in bed with the person you've only been on one date with.
I wish people would start taking sex a little more seriously these days. a lot of it has to do with your personal safety. Yes sex shouldn't have to be serious as long as your a responsible adult, use protection and are in a safe environment with someone you've known long enough to trust and know you are safe with.
This is why so many young people end up with STDs or dead worse case these days. They do random hook ups with someone they've just spoke to on a app for 20 minutes and then jump in bed with them like i don't even think uber eats deliver that quickly yet people in my generation think its safe to have sex after knowing someone for that amount of time. Who knows if that person is a rapist, killer or has a STI.
Its also why so many young people struggle to have healthy relationships. Because they jump right into sex and then realise later on in the relationship they actually have nothing in common and aren't right for each other but there already to deep into a relationship with that person because they jump into too fast with sex before getting to know them.2|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Yes, but only if that's what y'all both are feeling.
I don't see the point of withholding sex on the first date.
If it's because you're afraid of a guy leaving you because they're thinking that your easy then congratulations, you're only delaying the inevitable, he's gonna leave your ass anyways because he didn't love you to begin with.
If a guy actually loves you then sex on the first date won't have any negative effects4|00|0Is this still revelant? - If the chemistry is there, my not.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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3694- No not for me. If a guy is worth it he will respect you enough to wait until you are ready. I'm still very old school when it comes to things like this, sex isn't just sex to me > it's a meaningful connection and bond between two people and I feel like more and more people these days don't see it like this and Sex is just sex to them. I'm not judging anyone by any means, just giving my opinion.2|80|0
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Nice opinion. You are beautiful. Or thoughts match a lot. Can we talk? If you don't mind. If yes, please dm coz my xper level don't allow me to do so.
- my answer was yes.
But thats because i usually only go on dates with people that i know beforehand.
I may be old fashioned but i don't just go on dates with people that i don't know yet.
so i don't know if "a first date" really is a first date.
If you get what i mean.
i mean yeah it's a first DATE, but i already know the person for a while you know.
when i don't know someone then it depends if the date goes well or not.
if i really like the person and we both would like to see eachother again then it would be a no for me.
if not then sure why not.
you won't see each other afterwards anyways so why just not grab the opportunity when you got one haha.3|00|0 - No, I want to have sex with someone I really know, and really can be comfortable with, and plan on being more than just a date hook up... Most times sex happens on first date, it's usually that was the whole purpose of said date... I want someone that realized sometimes great sex is worth the wait2|70|0
How can anyone truly get into sex on the first date unless the first day lasts a couple if days. Which isn't unheard of.
@Bang5luts right! Who wants quicky sex at the end of date where you don't even know each other well enough to know likes and dislikes 🤷🏼♀️
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- I want commitment and security if i want sex i can just go jack off or bang some slut on tinder
I don't want to have a relationship where our first romantic night was just me and her fucking, I want good memories that i can share with our kids and not make them uncomfortable3|12|0 - Depends on wether you want a relationship or not. And depends on the cultural envoirement. I always grew up with very liberal ideals, but in my country things are different so in all honesty if you want to become your date's girlfriend, don't sleep with him until he actually asks you to be. Otherwhise most will look down on you and think less of you and blow you off after the sex, even if you weren't promiscous, you just were REALLY in love with him. Speaking from my own experience and friend's.2|00|0
- you can't predict such things but if your heavily making out how far off would you be from giving him a blowjob? i've been in those situations and it's so easy to undo his pants and just suck his hard penis... it's so easy and so tempting... let's be honest.1|00|0
- Personally, no. I want to get to know someone before I decide to have sex with them. I think it takes more than one date to do that. Also, my body won't open up to men who I barely know, I've come to discover, so even if I did want to have sex on the first date, I guess psychologicaly speaking, it needs to be with someone I already know and trust.3|00|0
- It will only stay at sex and nothing else. Probably a 1 time thing before moving on to higher quality women. And if I happen to have sex on the first date, forget about me eating your coochie. I'll also make sure to wear 2 layers of condoms while I'm at it. Don't want to risk getting shit.0|03|0
A high quality woman dont date a guy who have sex on the first date like you. If you have sex on the first date, then you are no different the woman who sex with you on the first date. I can't stand fake hypocritical conservative traditional men like you. I have met guys like who think they whore around but their dream women have to ne innocent angels. Then people call ma an asshole for being asshole to such male cunts.
Sorry being harsh but you have to be high quality yourself before wanting such woman. Just eww.
@hi_it_is_me123 Oh look, I struck a nerve. A high quality man wouldn't have date on the sex date at all. Also, you still make the grave msitake of thinking men and women are the same when it comes to standards, you're absolutely delusional. A guy will have sex whenever he can while a woman has sex whenever she wants. I'm only going to invest in women who don't give themselves away easily.
And you hate "fake" traditional men like myself? Sounds more like a you problem. Also, I've already explained to you that there are shades to conservatism and it isn't as black and white as you think.
What defines a man to be high quality is no where near the same as what defines a woman as high quality. Men and women are not the same, sweetie. I don't lose value in the eyes of society through my body count. Women do. And if I do, it's nowhere near the same level as that of a woman. I'm currently with a traditional high quality girl (who doesn't sleep around on the first date). So your entire arguments are baseless 😂- Show All Show Less
Only male cunts use such excuses. There is no different between you and second hand dildo.
You can't call women low quality for sleeping on the first date when you do the same and easy youself. Lol. Go on and dont accept facts. And real men are not animals and they dont have sex whenever they have the oppurtinity and such guys ain't different than animal. You are just an insult for men. And your girlfriend is low quality if she date such a hypocritical cunt like you. Sorrynotsorry. I personally only date virgin guys like me.
@hi_it_is_me123 What an intelligent comeback. Like I said, it's your problem. Too bad sweetheart, I am in a great relationship with a wonderful girl, who is not a feminazi and, who holds traditional values and takes care of me in many traditional ways. Cry us a river, snowflake
And what society thinks does not matter. In some societies murdering your wife for divorcing is ok, but that does not make it ok.
Your imaginary girlfriend is just low quality as you, if she date such cunts like you. Anyway bye.
@hi_it_is_me123 Hahahah little snowflake it mad. Sounds like someone is dealing with some cognitive dissonance. Like I said, it's a you problem. You reek of emotions.
Says the hypocritical retarted cunt. I would understand you if you regret your whorish past but no you make excuses. You could be virgin and give your first time to someone you care and love and not any stranger. I never understand it. Sex should be betweem husband/wife or at least with someone you really love, and not random strangers. That is why i really can't understand such guys like who want a traditional life but ain't traditional themself. I am just sorry for you and your girlfriend. A real man who respect her woman would not give his first time to random people. Anyway I will stop here.
@hi_it_is_me123 Waah waaahh waahh. Go take your feminazi tears elsewhere, little snowflake. You reek of insecurity. Like I've said, I live in the west. It's different here than in the (middle) east from where you're from. Holdin some traditional values, does not make one entirely traditional, smarty pants. And I never claimed to be entirely traditional or conservative. Because I'm not. The fact remains, all that you say about me, yet I still manage to get into meaningful relationships. While all you do is spread hate about men. Like I've said, cry us a river. I love how my lifestyle and meaningful relationships annoy feminazis. All more indication that I'm doing a good job lmfao
Your definition of a real man = a man who behaves like a doormat for a woman.
Sorry love, I'm not into the simp and low value man lifestyle who gives into the feminazi ideology.Lol now men who are not cunts unlike you are simps? I dont hate any gender unlike you. You can't be conservative/traditional but also a libtard. You are the only mgtow incel here who hate on women thst have standards unlike your imaginary low quality girlfriend.. You are the only incesure idiot/snowflake here who can't stand woman with standards. Go on with your fake traditional life style. You just want have you cake and eat it too. You ain't traditional with that whorish slutty disgusting past of you.
You know what, ignore what i wrote. I dont want continue this ridiculous conversation. We both dont agreee at any point and so it senseless to continue this. It is 00:29 am and there is no point continueing a conversation that leas to nothing. I am just shocked at your life style. As i said ignore my previous comments and stop it for good
@hi_it_is_me123 Nah girl, can't say something and try to take it back. You hate me because I hold women accountable for their actions. That's why you hate me. Plenty of women and men who use each other either sexually or materialistically. And not sre what you hate about my lifestyle, it's far cleaner than many people here in the west. You don't understand because you're not raised here in the west. So nobody expect you to understand. Just how the average western person "doesn't understand" middle-eastern lifestyles. By the way, YOU'RE the one who started commenting. Not me. And I never said I life a traidiotnal lifestyle, I said I hold traditional values. Meaning, my entire life isn't traditional. You should practice some reading comprehension. And why do you make it sound like I'm some man whore with a body count of 100 or something 😂😂.
If I hated women, thenI wouldn't work, communicate or be in relationships with them. So easy to frame someone as a means to damage control😂. Like I said, go cry as a river, little feminazi snowflake ❄️No i am born and grow up in austria but i am from middleeastern/Asian traditional family. I know many western people who are virgin or ain't promiscuos. So i dont why you act like western people do orgi. I dont shame on/judge on promiscuos people, i only, judge/shame on hypocritical cu*nts like you who bully people and play with their feelings. Why are also saying you are far better than some/msny western people. Now you are hating your own natiolity/race? Are you one of these antiwhite libtards? Again i dont give a f even if your bodycount would be 100 but my problem is that you just an antiwoman retard who prefere perfect innocent women unlike you and also insult women who are like you. I mean you can prefere whatever you want but stop with your antiwoman attitude and the women you like are surely who hate themself. Such women aka pick me girls exist. You dont have to like any promiscuos person or whatever but stop with bullying people who are not like you. You can even prefere virgin innocent girl who dont even watch porn but just dont bully people. So dont be asshole and play with people's feelings just because they ain't fit your preferences and your ideals. I prefere also non promiscuos people but i never just play with promiscuos 's people feelings. Sometimes i reject them harsh but i dont go on play with them just because they are a "whore" and wants to sleep on the first date. Do what you want but dont be an asshole. I am sorry for being harsh/rude
@hi_it_is_me123 Nice gaslighting. Never did I imply western people do nothing but orgies. That’s your pathetic interpretation of what I’m saying. You actually do shame promiscious people. You’re literally shaming me for being “promiscious” (even though you don’t know how my sex life is). And yes, I am better than your average simp for example. Especially when it comes to success in dating. Anti-white?, race?, anti-woman? Ahhh the amount of illogical and invalid strawman arguments. You truly are desperately trying to damage control 😂🤦♂️
Sweetheart, your baseless shaming tactics don’t work here. I don’t women. I simply hold women, LIKE MEN accountable. Doesn’t make me someone who is anti-woman. Like I’ve said, your definition of a good man is someone who does not hold any woman accountable and who is nothing but a doormat. So your accusation of me hating on women is flawed in both argument and in practice. Like I said, if I hate women, I wouldn’t want to have ANYTHING to do with them, let alone be in a ROMANTIC relationship with one.
Again, promiscuity between men and women are NOT the same. Women who sleep around are not perceived the same as men who sleep around. Both are BIOLOGIALLY different. Men who sleep around are often seen as studs while women are seen as sluts. Let me burst your bubble here, sweetie: Women who sleep around repulse men. While men who sleep around often attract women. Women are often repulsed by virgin men and see them as losers unlike someone who isn’t a virgin. This is a harsh reality. Maybe you don’t want to seek out a non-virgin dude, but A LOT more women other than you would want nothing to do with a virgin man.
@hi_it_is_me123 And girl, you got anger and insecurity issues. First you unleash all your anger and then finish with “ignore my comments, I’m sorry”. Perfect example of someone who speaks before he/she think. Take your own advice and don’t be an asstwat yourself with these baseless attempts to “insult”. You’re only making yourself look like an idiot. You already know we differ in perspectives, but it seems like I've triggered you enough. Wouldn't be surprised if that sensitivity comes from being pumped and dumped yourself
What gas lighting? You fucktard are the one who make fun of my preference for virgin guys call me incesure or insult me too and i ain't slutshame you. I only shame you for being a hypocritical c*nt. You also dont have to avoid women if you are an antiwoman idiot. Anti-woman incels do like female simps who do every shit for you. I also dont give a shit what majority of people like. That does not justify the hate and slutshame towards women or virging shaming towards men. A simp is a lot better than youm
Again i only shame on people who is bastard/cheaters towards people and play with their feelings. In your first comment you are saying you have no problem with playing with people feelings just because they dont have the same ideals as you and want to sleep on the first date. This is what made me angry in the first place
@hi_it_is_me123 Yes a imp is so much better than me because all he does is pedestalize women and yet the same women he pedestalizes jump in bed with me. Like I said, cry us a river little snowflake. I happen to treat women the way they want and crave to be treated. Like humans and not as queens. And nice assumptions you have. First of all I never cheated and never will. Second, when I have casual sex with a girl, I always make absolutely sure they know where to stand in my life BEFORE I sleep with them. Meaning, I tell them that there is no long term relationship other than sex and they are free to go along or leave. I've done this in the past and I had no issues. In fact, my honesty was always appreciated. It makes them feel respected for having an option and not get lead on. Keep guessing little snowflake. And while you're add it, make sure you cry your river in Africa, it sure is dry there
Lol according to dislikes people also agree with me at some point, you stupid incel. You should also read your own first comment, people get the implication that you just play with anyone's feelings for not waiting, idiot. If you really have given your dates an option, whether they want you have sex with them on the dirst date or not, then i am sorry, you ain't bad at all since people know then what kind of idiot you are in the first place since you tell them that you are an stupid ass. Anyway I am happy that you ain't playing with anyone but that does not change the fact you are an stupid weirdo. I only reply to you because i thought you just play with people's feelings which kinda shock me since i thought you are very traditional. So my bad, so sorry for this assumption
@hi_it_is_me123 “And what society thinks does not matter”. And now you care about 3 pink dislikes (which is not surprising at all). Like I care what 3 feminazis think? I got a lot more women agreeing with me and following my profile 😂. I even helped one rip another one of you feminazis to pieces on another thread.
First I have an “imaginary” girlfriend, then I have a girlfriend which you feel bad for, and now I’m an incel. You sure can’t make up your mind. Everything you say contradicts each other. You call me a weirdo while you're ranting and then apologizing after each rant. Um, okay? The irony when calling someone else “idiot” and a "weirdo" 🤦😂. I just came back from celebrating a Dutch holiday with my girlfriend (Sinterklaas). We had at least 3 sessions each over an hour. Left her shaking for 5 minutes after sex due to all the orgasms. What did you do all this time? Ah yes, ranting about me since I triggered you so badly and spreading your feminazi hate and misandry, hahaha. And yes, I always have given my dates options. And for the trillionth time, I NEVER claimed to be a traditional male. I only said I hold certain traditional values. And guess what? I keep those traditional values for the right women in my life. Welcome to GAG, a website which brings the worst out of people. And please, if you want to make me feel “insulted”, at least try to do a better job than my drill sergeants during Officer training🤦. So baby girl, cry us all a river.
- Beta boys say no, guys that understand that showing interest in sex on first date equals:
A) You have other options with other women so its your loss if you dont offer.
B) it shows you have confidence to ask for it despite risking losing the women.
C) despite social expectations, the women will actually feel loved and wanted if it is done in the right context.
Actually not expectating sex results in less women going on a second date with a man.0|00|0Women secretly like it, but they dont realise (conflict between their logical way of thinking verse their emotions)
- I always have sex on my first date it's a must for me.2|31|1
Anonymous1 moNope not at all.
Now I know why men can't stay loyal and love one girl.
They are with you for sex only. Why don't you get paid services instead of wasting time of innocent girls and breaking their hearts? Initially you lie to them and use them. You're a scum and will suffer sooner or later.2|02|1- If they are into it, why not? When I started dating it was more of a third date thing. I never had to ask for it, they just invited me home. I would have waited longer if they weren't ready, but not more than a couple of months.0|00|0
- I honestly would say it depends on the scenario and the chemistry that has transpired over the course of the date itself. This data will better help you decide whether having sex with your date is beneficial.0|00|0
- I would say no Giving to much to soon Your not giving you'll find the guy will have more respect for you and he now knows his got to step up to win your affections0|00|0
- HAHA men said yes and women said no. I hope we all learned something if we weren’t expecting that outcome3|10|0
- So far I haven't and wouldn't be able to. I haven't even kissed in a first date either.
It might change, I don't know. But I'm more comfortable to know the person a bit more.1|10|0 - I have and I haven't. I found not having sex until about the fifth date made the wait so much more worth it, and getting to know each other through those dates deeper made the sex more intimate.2|00|0
- If things are connecting and you have plenty of condoms and both of you want some fun orgasms... go for it!0|00|0
- Depends fully on how the date goes and what both want. It could happen. But it's not a bad thing if it doesn't happen. Sometimes it's okay on the first date, sometimes it isn't.1|00|0
- This isn't a yes or no question. There are 1001 variables. First of which, do i want to see her again? Or am i content to use her as a ditch for cum?0|00|0
- Not for me, I'd consider waiting until we were at a more mature part of the relationship3|10|0
- Yes totally. No need to be ashamed about wanting to have sex!! I don’t think it makes much difference either way and I don’t see any reason to wait.1|10|0
- More yes or no, it depends on the mood of both people & if there's any attraction, if there's sparks sure then sex is on the table, but if your not feeling it with the female then I won't even try2|00|0
- Are you just horny and want to get laid or are you looking for a LTR?0|00|0
Okay. The answer will depend on the motivation for the date. If you are just wanting to hookup, and you are physically attracted, most people will have sex on the first date. If you are looking for a LTR, most people will not have sex on the first date. And, of course, there are exceptions.
- Yes if she’s fucakble
No if she’s loveable2|00|0 - Depends on how the date goes? In my experience... I've had sex on the first date a few times.. but every time i did... we dated for a period of time after... and a few times just that night lol1|00|0
- How about sex BEFORE the first date?
I asked this girl out once who worked in my office. Before we even went on the date that weekend we ended up having sex in the office one night after everyone else left.
Some things can't wait!1|00|0 - Depends. Two things need to happen:
1- He has to be good looking
2- I need to be horny that day/night2|11|0- Show All Show Less
- Just a tip. If you want a lay men will do it without hesitation. But if you want to be taken seriously s as a romantic interest then don’t give it up first date.1|11|0
- Depends. If you are just focusing on your lust you can simply do it the very first day.1|10|0
- Wow, there sure are a bunch of whores in our society today.1|13|0
- Too many factors to say either yes or no. All depends.0|00|0
- If they want to. They would have to take the lead in that one0|00|0
- depends on the chemistry, conversation/s, how long we knew each other before the date, what all has been discussed beforehand. assuming most of that was right, then would be fine with it.1|00|0
- I'm not against it nor do I judge people who do it. If two grown people are comfortable enough with each other to do so then go ahead. I don't know why people have to be so judgy about what others do with their bodies.1|00|0
- Na, I personally would not however it depends how well you know the person1|00|0
- It obviously depends on the person and the date, but if it feels right, why not go there?1|00|0
- it depends on the people amd how everything goes. if all is well and we both feel like it why not1|00|0
- Sex on the first date is an indication of a kindered spirit.1|00|0
- Lol some male cunts think they ain't a whore for sleeping around or having sex on the first date but call women whores for doing the same thing. This is why i ain't date/marry non virgin guy2|00|1
- In a perfect world, sex on every date. First, second, third, 300th.
Sex is good for you, have more of it.0|00|0 - Yes, but only if you don’t care for the outcome and have very minuscule wants for the partner for the evening. It’s kind of a hard no on a relationship. Just f*** buddies0|10|0
- For me , no. I like to let the emotions and tension build.1|30|0
- dont want to be three dates in and end up investing into Stunky, STI, Stretched out (by gaint toys/nerf form foot ball), to small/tight, possibly trans, over scared by catholic school coat hanger abortions; pussy without knowledge or consent. Its about self respect also your not getting that money back and you have no idea who else she could be giving it up to while she's "figuring it out"0|00|1
But do you tell the woman you want to have sex with her on the first date, before the date, or (like it says in the book "Are Women the Stronger Sex?" free from Barnes & Noble) do you try to get her drunk then hope she seduces you?
@bailey11 depends on what tactic your comfortable with but you need clear consent because a women is "aloud" to change her mind ( they can give drunk consent one night and then say you raped them later). The prey determines the tactic; you can be a jack of all trades to get a one night stand but the more you date the more you invest the less interested she becomes. Shell fake interest so you keep spending money/ investing into her.
- No. If you're expecting sex on the first date, you are really looking for a hookup.0|01|0
- If you both want it and are up for it.. sure! I’m not going to tell people how to live there lives0|00|0
- If its someone you already know and plan to be with them why sure. Don't expect it happening with someone you're not familiar with but sometimes they can fool you too1|00|0
- You can if you want, but it loses value if you want a relationship. So, if you want a relationship, I say wait and make sure you are comfortable with him and you being together.1|00|0
- If the attraction and chemistry is high, sure (you only live once)2|00|0
- If it leads there, it leads there. If not, i can wait. I'd rather get to know her well first, have a couple dates of cuddling and intimacy, then sex0|00|0
- Typically I'd say no. But you just never know anymore.1|20|0
- I know it’s supposed to be no but if the attraction is there the heart wants what it wants.1|10|0
- Depends on the kinda of date it is if it's someone i'm interesting in dating then not unless she starts it1|00|0
- Depends on what I am looking for, but Id probably never say no.1|00|0
- Guess it depends on what’s a date? I knew a girl as a friend for a long time before we dated. So was that sex on the first date?1|00|0
- I've done that before when I was younger but now that I'm older I don't advise doing it that soon.1|10|0
Anonymous1 moGenerally speaking, I would have a very hard time taking a woman seriously if she had sex on the first date.1|11|0- Show More (70)
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