Here's where I disagree with your premise:
" I mean porn literally ( can we PLEASE stop misusing the word "literally"? Porn did not literally do anything in this example --- ok, moving forward) ... normalized violent/hardcore sex to the point you are seen as prude".
I completely disagree with this assumption. It's conjecture based on no evidence.
" ... if you dont accept things like facefuck, getting choked, getting ejaculated on your face, hitting your partner during sex... (you're a prude)"
Again, where's your evidence that this is true? I realize you're asking a question about why "abuse" is ok during sex, but when it's consensual and erotic for all participants, it's not abuse. Outside of the bedroom, it wouldn't be acceptable "public behavior", but behind closed doors, why is it NOT ok for two people to consensually engage in what arouses them?0 0 0 0How should i get an evidence without knowing everyone 's sex life. What a stupid question. It is just a logical fact that more and more people learn sex from porn where violent sex scenes are the norm since sex education ain't a thing in many countries.
How about you give me evidences for your assumptations?
I also say it in "...". Since i dont know if abuse have to be with physical force. For me this is just mental illness and need to be treated. It gets more and more ridiculous how people define every weird insane sexual practice as fetish/bdsm bs. So it is perfectly sane and healthy for you if someone wants to get physically hurt or even get killed?
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Abuse is never ok. What you call abuse during a sex act, it’s two different things. So I don’t agree with you saying one is ok, so th y both should be ok, but that can’t be, because they aren’t the same at all.
E0 0 0 0So it ain't abuse if you choke your partner?
Only if t is habitual. A one time sex act is not abuse, according to most definitions.
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0 9It's not entirely the fault of porn, actually. Women are ultimately in control over their own sex lives and what happens. They often allow and even tease such things of men "hit me, choke me, dominate me", etc. Men only like to do such things when they think that it's something she enjoys in a dirty way. This is what makes it seem so normal.
It takes two to tango. Without the enthusiasm and approval of women to do such things, men would not be attempting to do them so often. Evidently a lot of women like it, and they make it seem like being hit and choked is nothing to them but a good time. The reality could be different from what you see in porn, but often times women play along with it, so the difference between porn and real life is often not made distinct.
Obviously men aren't very interested in being dominated by women, and often don't try to give the impression that they are. Therefor, it doesn't happen. We don't see it as normal.0 0 0 0I love when my fiancée puts me in chains hehe
1 0 0 2Lol I triggered two blue snowflakes lol
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1 0 0 0Depends on if ifs consensual
0 0 0 0Cause some people are into to that so if you enjoy it then its not abuse
1 0 0 0How is abuse outside of sex consented?
0 0 1 1That is why i say in "..".
But porn isn’t as bad as you’re making it out.
There are literally porn that have rape scenes or worse. It is one of the worst things of the 21st century. I only can understand realistic porn but the rest is bs that is for mental ill people
That’s not my thing.
1 0 0 0Some girls enjoy it. encourage us to do it. So don't blame it on men.
0 0 0 0I like having BDSM done to me
1 0 0 0Wow really? Interesting
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