Are you submissive or dominant 🤔?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I like being dominate minus these two circumstances:

- First time having sex. I rather be safe than sorry given the wonderful world (sarcasm) of #metoo we now live in. Having her put some effort into it (being on top and/or initiating a bj) gives me a peace of mind it’s 100% consensual.

- If I’m unsure she even likes me for being me. Some girls will spread there legs despite not enjoying it just because don’t want other things to go away (attention, money, companionship, etc.). If she never initiated sex and/or takes charge that’s a huge red flag. She needs to take charge at least once out of five times.

Having a girl take charge from time to time makes me feel wanted which is very important.
But other than that I love being in charge. I especially love hitting doggie hard.

AlexanderAnttila · Accepted Answer

That's an unusually naughty image from you Joy.  I'm very dominant.

Vickymoore9 · Accepted Answer

I’m great at learning guys what makes them tick what role they play into. The gate way to sex is knowing your partner to bring out the best in both of you. I’m very flexible in this area I like being aggressive and don’t mind being taken aggressively either. I know this is why I’ve had very few sex partners I haven’t enjoyed sex with. I was with a guy at a party and he made a smart ass comment and I slapped his ass telling him he better watch his fucking mouth. I could see his expression he looked like he wanted to fuck it turned me on as well. Before that we had good sex after that we had amazing sex like from a 6 to a 10 over night. After that I bossed him around and would shove him on the bed and straddle him. I started talking dirty to him he loved it and fucked my brains out for it!

cjgsu · Accepted Answer

💞💞💞

Itsok2behapp-e · Answer

Dominant. Always have been, always will be.

AmandaYVR · Answer

I don't believe in these terms.

chrissykerdock · Answer

submissive but to a point i will wear mini dresses/skirts wear thongs and/or take them off... i'll give a blowjob if asked to no questions asked... kneel while he watches the football game and give him head during the game.. but not wearing a collar and leash.

AlexAndriatg111 · Answer

Right now just arroused at the age play photo you submitted

lexylynn29 · Answer

I would mostly say dominant however in times I become very submissive. It really depends on the mood and time.

Elsa143 · Answer

DOMINANT

Everyoneisplastic · Answer

Dom. But not to the point where whips or flogs are used. More like a soft dominant. I like pinning, hands around her neck (not to the point where she's actually choking), a little bit of light biting, some smacking (not to the point where it leaves marks or bruising), some hair pulling, etc. I also like it when she digs her nails in, messies my hair, bites me, grabs my ass, etc.

babysteph · Answer

what do you think? 😇  I’m a widdle baby sub. duh 🌸

ohshee · Answer

A dom for sure but in a way that you would want to do every thing I say because the beautiful feeling is the best pay off for doing it the way I want I love taking someone some place they think they have been and they realize it's not even close it's another world and I love that

KenzieDutcher63 · Answer

Both I like bouncing on it but I like him to take control

PhilEvans · Answer

Totally submissive with my partner.

JackSmy · Answer

Depends on the lady, and what mood she is in, and what we want to share.

CalmYourTits · Answer

Both. Depends on what he and I need.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Submissive definitely and I actually have that collar:-)

Alyssa11 · Answer

A bit of both lol.

AndyOh · Answer

Depends on who I am with and what our dynamics are. I prefer to be dominant, but I do switch depending on my partner, situation, etc. Adds a lot of possibilities and options to sex.

TruthBringer · Answer

I've never bee submissive and I never will. It's not in my personality. I've always been dominant and that's how the women I have gotten with (and my girlfriend) like it.