Guys, is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

hi i’m a 19 year old girl and i’m dating a 20 year old boy. yes i say boy not man because he is acting like a literal boy. i’m currently staying with him at his house where i cook, clean, make his bed etc... basically over here being a wife/mother to him. (no i’m not an actual mother nor do i have kids) anyway i keep the kitty perfectly clean, shaved, spotless and whatever else. he literally just sticks his dick in me, he teases me by grazing over the kitty but when i tell you he doesn’t do anything except for kiss my lips and stick his dick inside me that’s LITERALLY ALL HE DOES. he enjoys foreplay yet never does it. he’s only fingered me one once and that was when we were dating for 2 months and now we’re at 6 months. he’s played with my boobs like 2 times and that’s it too. i’ve gone down on him multiple times with no hesitation, but whenever i ask him he either ignores me or makes some kind of bs excuse or LITERALLY AKS ME IF I CAN FINSIH MYSELF... HUHHHH? i’ve voiced to him how i felt multiple times and he always says “keep the kitty clean and i’ll do it.” do i just give up? he has told me multiple stories of how he loves going down on girls nd how he has before and has no issue with it and loves foreplay but i don’t believe it one bit because i’ve tried and tried for what seems like forever and i don’t even expect it. am i gross? is he gay? like i feel like i have more competition with anime girls then i do real girls. and his friend always hint at how the girls he used to date looked like compared to me. (context i’m a short, skinny, shoulder haired, brunette with DD boobs, who smokes weed, laidback, not a bruh girl or e-girl, and his exes were short, skinnier than me, long haired, itty bitty titty committee like A cup titties, typical anime girl uwu princess) i’m starting to think i’m gross or ugly or something. i feel deprived in a way. like the least he could do is go down on me, i’m practically his maid, chef, wife, mom, babysitter, copilot, etc.. help.

[summiter]

He has turned into a looser. You two have to have a talk about a few things: 1 SEX and 2) Your living situation. With sex tell him that you need some great orgasms also. It is not just about him. Tell him you enjoy foreplay and receiving oral. If he does not change cut him off. He can go back to jerking off instead. You are way more mature and have your act together. With the living situation tell him to his face that you are not his mother , maid chef etc. If he does not change I would strongly suggest you dump him and move out. You deserve better. How often do you two have sex? Maybe slow it down and he might get the message?

[Asker]

we have sex like 2 times a week if i’m lucky. i’ve told him what how i feel in even more depth than what i posted and i’ve told him before start getting your shit together or i’m leaving and i always feel guilty because he then silent treatments me so i walk away, i’m not going to force him to do it but it’s like i don’t expect it but then he’s teasing me and grazing over my clit which to me, makes me have a false hope ig.

[Asker]

if you wanna even call it sex. it’s literally him sticking his dick in me i’m lucky if he touches my boobs or chokes me or anything.

[summiter]

You deserve better. He needs to grow up. Sex only 2 times a week would not be enough for me. Maybe buy some sex toys so you can enjoy some orgasms not just him! He is not going to change... I would dump him.

[summiter]

Cut him off from sex. Let him get use to jerking off again. You deserve some good orgasms!!!

[Asker]

true. and we’ve bought multiple toys to use and even some that he could use on me! he used one on me and then never again. just frustrating because yeah i need more sex or at least more oral than sex because i can’t cum from just sex i need more and i crave more.

[summiter]

Can you teach him how to give you good oral? If not use your toys before sex or with him watching if he won't help. He sounds selfish!!!

[Asker]

i’ve tried... and when he watches he JUST watches and doesn’t want to participate, nor does he listen.

[summiter]

He is a double looser. Does he jerk off a lot?

[AndyOh]

The only thing I think is wrong with you is that you are still with him.
He sounds like he is taking you for granted with all you do for him, plus keep your kitty ready for him.
Dump his sorry ass and get out of there. Find a guy that will be happy to have awesome sex with you, as well as respect you, treat you like a lady, and be a man with you, not a boy.
Your choice... stay with the boy and take care of him, be frustrated and unhappy..
OR... get out of that and move on. Plenty of men out there that would love to have a woman like you to enjoy.
Good Luck.

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO :) I hope things work out for you.

[DJB72]

Either walk away or invest in a serious whip to beat him into shape.

I'd suggest just walking away is the better option. Why are you wasting your time with such a loser

[Iron_Man]

Well he’s had plenty of women he’s certainly not gay

[Cellestial]

I'd say just leave if you have already talked to him about your problems and he didn't do anything about them.

[Twalli]

Start denying sex until he licks you. He'll eithe break up with you or start doing it. For me one of the best things about licking my girlfriend is her reactions. I mean I love it despite that, but her reactions make it a lot better.

[Valnac]

You said it, you took the place of his mother, and he only thinks of his cock.
What you need is a more mature guy that knows how to make a woman feel like a woman.

[Jakeofalltrades93]

if you are giving it up that easily he probably thinks he doesn't have to do for play or go down on you. try holding out until he gets the hint

[B2281]

Yeah he doesn't sound like he's worth the effort.

[Anonymous]

Whoaaa that's an essay question!

[Anonymous]

Short, slim, chill and rocking DDs? Yeah--there's NOTHING wrong with you other than that you aren't naked in my living room right now!

[Anonymous]

What is wrong is your attitude; not your body. You let him walk over you time and time again so he doesn't respect you; as you won't respect yourself. You probably need to find a new boyfriend at this point; as he might be a lost cause.

[Asker]

i’m at his house i don’t pay rent or anything so the least i can do is cook and clean for him. but then it came to a point i’m tired i don’t want to coo or clean. and i told him that and he said “well i don’t know how to cook or clean” and i’ve tried having him around to show him how to do it, i’ve told him to do it and i’m lucky if he puts dishes in the dishwasher. i’m starting to think he’s a lost cause but i care for him, it’s just tough because if i don’t do it he gets mad because he expects me to do it.

[Opinion Owner]

But he is only taking from you and not really giving you anything in return.